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It's okay if it takes a little longer than you thought.

I personally wanna see less ‘you are not a burden/it’s not work to love you’ and more ‘you are worth the work it takes to love you.’ I KNOW I’m a burden sometimes. that isn’t such a terrible thing! humans are strong. we can carry burdens. and it is work for me to be there for my friends, but it’s work I’m willing to do.

we need to acknowledge this because pretending love isn’t work will never make people like me feel less guilty for accepting love. we need to talk about it so people don’t feel bad for having boundaries and not always being up to do the work. we need to accept it so we can properly appreciate what others do for us and what we’re doing for them.

yes it does take work to love you. but guess what? you still deserve love, and you deserve people who are willing to do the work to love you. it doesn’t make you bad. all love take work. and everyone is worth it.

garfleas

birdandmoon

A snake story, based on an experience I had while I was in Florida.

heywriters

yespolkadotkitty

LOUDER

narcicious

I think the mentality of "why bother doing something if you're not good at it?" feeds directly into "if you're good at it why aren't you monetizing it?". At its core I really think its about commodifying every last shred of labor and experience.

teacuphuman09

THIS

kedreeva

Adding that this is literally a huge reason we don’t leave unsolicited criticism on things like fanworks- fanfiction, fanart, fan crafts etc. Because there’s a LOT of people out there who are just doing this for the fun of it. They’re doing it for the same reason people go on walks- to feel good. And receiving crit they didn’t ask for doesn’t feel good.

beardedmrbean

theman

I GOT A FUCKING RAISE THE POTATO WORKED WTF

tattooedzombigirl

This potato works. Every. Fucking. Time.

notnando

s/o to myself for my great taste in music

valtsv

if a hot evil villain tried to seduce me to the dark side i would simply say fuck yes

valtsv

rip to all of you but im gonna get it

web1-0

please stop trying to sell me weed over tumblr

memedong

hey

web1-0

furiousgoldfish

I can only be myself when I’m alone. As soon as there’s another person around, the gremlin in my brain will scream ‘How am I being perceived? How am I being perceived?’ and the rest of me will wonder what can I do so this other person doesn’t get upset at me.