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welcometoyouredoom

This never gets old.

Sexy Bear 🔥🐻😍

Beautiful

Summertime vibes. #weekendofnewtanks #youbeyou #morefatsmorefems

forevernoon-deactivated20181218

This is really nice work…….. via Art LOVER

thathealeygirl

THAT’S how you make lace??

aerylon

And THIS is why lace was a worn primarily by royalty and aristocracy for so many centuries.. It was expensive and time-consuming to produce. Wearing it, and wearing LOTS of it was a blatant show of wealth and excessive consumption.

Mechanically-produced lace wasn’t really a thing until well into the 20th century, but there remains a wide gap between the quality of mass-produced and hand crafted

beachgirlnikita

In general textile arts are highly underated considering the amount of skill and time needed to execute pretty much anything.

oh wow i love it

Sexy af

Completely forgot I took this. A friend asked for a smoking video and this was the results. Not much beats a nice relaxing smoke break. #smokingpipe #fuckthehaters #quitbitching #beardporn #bearbullphoto

sarandoni

leatherbear

impossiblebeardzombie-deactivat

gorgeous

joebearpr

the-silent-alpha

ALPHAS ARE NOT ASSHOLES

I’ve been talking to a boy that was very surprised that “I’m so nice to stangers on the internet even though I’m an Alpha”. I just showed him basic decency and talked to him. I didn’t do anything else. But him praising me for not being an asshole reminded me of a few other boys that I came in contact with. Those boys said the same thing. And it got me thinking…

I think it became acceptable to think that an Alpha, a Dom or a Top is also an asshole. At some point people starting putting confidence, power, strength, assertiveness or just plain masculinity with being an asshole in the same pot. And these are all different things. Maybe that’s why there are subs out there sending $25 through PayPal to an idiot with dirty socks and thinking they’ve served an Alpha. Maybe that’s why so many of you see your bullies as your Alphas. Maybe that’s why vanilla gay couples feel that the “Top or Bottom?” question is intrusive and innapropriate, because they are still ashamed of the way they have sex.

Some of you may not be ready to hear this, but : YOUR BULLY IS NOT YOUR SUPERIOR. A true Alpha is not an asshole. Yes, he may have qualities you lack as a sub. Yes, he may be more masculine, more assertive, more dominant or have a bigger dick. Yes, he may want to degrade you or humiliate you, he may slap you or piss in your face. But an Alpha doesn’t do this because he hates you, he doesn’t do this because he hates himself. He does this for completely different reasons, none of them being hate. If he hates you, you need to run away from him. If he hates himself, he’s too weak for you.

I may never completely understand the submissive mindset, because I’m just not wired like that. But I do know one thing : there are enough Alphas worthy of service in this world and if the man you’re reaching out to is being an asshole - he’s not one. Move on. Serve a man that deserves and appreciates you as an inferior.

A sub’s job and purpose is to improve the life of Alphas. If you’re serving an asshole, you’re not serving an Alpha. You’re serving a bully. Period!

cocksuckercaleb

Even with my advanced degree in Clinical Psychology, I couldn’t have said this better.

fagsworshipalphas

Perfect, Sir! Thank you!

davinci-london

Well said, so many ‘Alpha’s’ are insecure bullies who like the idea of a sub because it makes them feel powerful. A guy who needs to degrade you to feel superior is not worthy of your time.

youngintelligentalpha-deactivat

100% agreed.

mastersaysboysobeyoriginal-deac

So true

thefartingdom-deactivated201901

STOP AND READ THIS. THIS. IS. VALUABLE. Real dominants are not narcissistic assholes. I may say degrading things, I may use humiliation as a tool- but it most certainly isn’t out of hatred.