f/o drinking a hot chocolate with whipped cream and they accidentally get a little bit of whipped cream on their nose and they dont notice until you point it out
imagine your f/o taking any opportunity to touch you. rubbing your hands to warm them up. tousling your hair when you’re laser-focused. slinging an arm around you when you’re sitting next to them. they just love you so much, they need to be close to you just as much as you want to be close to them <3
lying on f/o’s stomach while they pet your hair. it’s been a long day, and their warmth is your respite. maybe you can hear whatever they’re watching from behind you as you bury your face in their neck. maybe they’re just rambling mindlessly. maybe they’re silent, listening to your breaths, enjoying a short moment of peace. no matter what, they’re happy to help you take some much-needed time to relax.
for the selfshippers who celebrate christmas: imagine putting your f/os name on your christmas wishlist 😋
now imagine your f/o kicking and screaming as a swarm of santas elves drag them towards the north pole to be wrapped in ribbons and bows or perhaps put in a box and/or giftwrapped like a present because SANTA ALWAYS DELIVERS, MOTHERFUCKER!!! YOU'RE GOIN UNDER THE TREE!!!!!
complimenting f/o in a way that makes them flustered and can't hide how they feel about it... they try to act nonchalant but it's clear that they could be giggling and kicking their feet about it
Fun activities to do with your F/O or fictional oshi
(cheap version: using little to no money!)
this is kinda long so beware. Feel free to suggest other things in reblogs or my inbox for a second part (if you want)
Edit pictures:
You can use an editing app like Ibis paint x or Picsart to put your oshi or f/o in your pictures, making them cute also.
Listen to their favorite music:
Make a playlist of songs you think they’d like or that they canonically listen to, maybe they have a theme song? Or you can make a playlist of songs that represent you both.
Make an AMV:
If theyre from a series or movie, you can make an amv to a song you think fits their vibe! Really fun and easy to do with programs like alight motion, kinemaster or capcut.
Scrapbook:
you dont need much for this, you can do it either digitally or physically, just get some stickers, pencils or markers draw your f/o and theme a page around them. For digital, you can use Ibis paint x, photopea or any similar drawing program.
Make a 3d model:
This one is tricky because you need a high end device so it doesnt lag, but you can make your very own 3d (oshi or f/o) in Vroid. Be warned its mostly for humanoid body types, so if your f/o is any other kind of build, it might be difficult.
Write them a note:
Write a note about them, it can be about how pretty, smart or interesting they are, or even more specific about any part of their lore or interests. Maybe write something theyve helped you with?
Add them in a game:
You can make them in a game like Gacha life, Papa louie pals, Poca mate (this one is good for couples), or Toca life.
Make a list of videos they’d enjoy:
Whether it be on tiktok or youtube, you can make a list of things theyd enjoy and add to it! Can be edits of them, things related to them, anything with their vibe or even inspiration for drawings.
Make an animation meme:
If you can draw, this will be easier but you can also do this with official arts if your f/o or oshi is 2d. You can do this with any drawing app and then with alight motion or capcut, you can also use this in scratch, where there are already templates free to use
Make a dress up game of them:
This is more complicated, but its easier to understand with a few tutorials, which there are many of. Use scratch and draw some of their outfits! It doesnt have to be perfect, it just needs to exist! Make code and dress them up! You can even add props or maybe add options for music? Its all at your will.
Eat with them:
When you have your breakfast or dinner, you can put up a picture of them on your phone / computer or get merch of them beside you (with carefulness not to stain it!) and eat as if it were a date.
Make a moodboard:
You can make a pinterest board of things they like, that fit their vibe, or things you would like them to wear, truly anything you can want!
Get into their interests:
Watch a documentary of things theyd like, there are many free documentaries on YouTube, so dont be afraid to watch and learn. Whether its victorian sewing or marine biology, there is a lot of information you can learn to be closer to them.
Make a paper doll:
Draw them and some clothes, cut them out and get to playing! If you have a printer you can also draw it digitally. Find clothes inspiration from their source or from pinterest and get to drawing!
Asmr:
Find asmr that fits them, maybe its wax sealing? Or card shuffling, there are many kinds of asmr out there.
Internet page:
Dedicate an internet page to your selfship / oshi! It can be a carrd, rentry or a strawpage. You can request graphics for it or make them yourself (which in my opinion is more fun!) and edit them into your page. It might look confusing at first but once you figure out how to decorate the website, it becomes suuper fun!!
Date outside:
Carry an object representing them (it can be a keychain, jewelry, a picture in your wallet, etc) and when you go on about your day, you can think about them or what they’d say about the activities youre doing in the moment! Afterwards you could write it down.
Match outfits:
Find any outfit they have worn and try to dress similarly, it makes for a lot of fun if you got time to spare. If they dont have any matching ones, consider editing / drawing them into an outfit. You could also draw you both matching!
imagine your f/o(s) holding you close as you weep, your head buried into their shoulder ... they nuzzle the top of your head and you take comfort in their contact. it's alright, they've got you, you're safe, everything will be alright.
whatever you do, do NOT imagine your f/o after coming out of the pool, shower, tub, or beach.
do NOT imagine how their body would look in a swimsuit, so soaked that it’s clinging to their body, or how they would look in nothing but a towel, showing off every curve and dip in their frame.
do NOT imagine their hair absolutely soaking wet and how each strand frames their face so nicely, even the few that dangle in front and drip all the way down to their chin.
do NOT imagine the water droplets trailing down each inch of their exposed skin.
I feel like people don't talk enough about depressed s/i (despite all us being mentally ill lol) so here's some prompts!!
Imagine your f/o drawing a comforting bath for you, scrubbing at your back and threading their hands through your soapy hair
Imagine your f/o making a soothing and healthy meal for you
Imagine your f/o letting you sleep in as they do chores around the house for you
Imagine your f/o gently replacing your caffeinated drink with soothing tea
Imagine your f/o massaging your back and pushing out any pops from your tense body
Imagine your f/o helping scrape off any makeup from your face or change you of your clothes
Imagine your f/o doing any skincare routine for you if you feel too exhausted to do it
Imagine your f/o reminding you to take off your binder if you're trans and helping with any needles or necessities
Imagine your f/o reminding you to take your pills before you leave or head off to bed
Imagine your f/o taking you out to a quiet restaurant or cafe if you're a bit more energized
Imagine your f/o praise your body up and down or fawn over your personality if you feel insecure
Imagine your f/o rubbing your hand or offering silent comfort as you rant about your annoying day or how you've been feeling
Imagine your f/o rapidly decorating your face with kisses to block out your tears
Imagine your f/o waking you up early for breakfast and watching the sunrise together
Imagine your f/o renting out one of your favorite movies and making some popcorn as you curl together underneath a blanket
Imagine your f/o reading you a book or humming you off to sleep, their hands unconsciously intertwining with yours
Imagine your f/o kissing at the scars on your wrists or thighs, or anywhere of that matter, and murmuring against the skin how happy you make them
Imagine your f/o saying how proud they are of how far you've come and loving you will never feel like a bore
Your f/o loves you. They love you and they'll never get tired of it! No matter how much time or space you need, they're not afraid to shout it out!!
In conclusion. Shout out to all my depressed s/i and go do any of the things I mentioned! Go take a walk or call your friends or talk about how long you've been clean. You are worth it and I looooveee all of you so so soo muchh🫶🫶🫶
mm.....your f/os helping you sleep by humming your favorite song and stroking your hair gently.... theyll continue to do it until you manage to fall asleep, willing to lose sleep if it means that you get the rest and recharge you deserve...
