getting into trouble at school with her new friends got her a hard spanking from her dad tomorrow she will find out if her old friends will accept her back
I would say we do dress up and costuming for session about once a week. He definitely reacts when its ‘bad report card for school girl’ day. It takes a while to fully get into character. Every bit of costuming helps frame us. Any suggestions for dress up day? This is different than lingerie, which is much more regular and is about being the real us.
we give a lot of attention to the idea of doms training / corrupting subs, but no one talks about how having a cute little thing whimpering and begging for you to be cruel to them basically rewires your brain.
I’ve been wanting to try figging since finding your tumblr, but have always been a touch afraid to try. I decided recently to try the ginger powder and Vaseline method someone else wrote about through anon and my word, my poor little bottom was on fire. I imagined being made to watch as my stern nanny or disappointed mother (or even you yourself Sir) mixed the punishing concoction and smothered a good sized buttplug that would be just a touch uncomfortable to put in my naughty bottom. After stripping naked, I set up my bed with under the mattress wrist and ankle restraints and strapped myself in, leaving one hand free. I put my phone infront of me playing an hour long very naughty spanking video, made sure my pillows under my hips were secure and pushed the plug into my awaiting bottom hole. My hole ached as I pushed the plug in, feeling the stretch before finally taking it all in. I loosely secured my free hand and waited for the burn as I imagined the bottom being spanked and scolded was my own. The burning kicked in quickly and it was a true punishment. The burning made my already slick slit soaked and tingle, I couldn’t decide to fantasise if I was being punished for being wet or getting wet from being punished. Either way, the stretch of the plug and new found burning made me struggle against the restraints while I desperately tried to hump the pillows under my hips to relive the desperation in my belly. I managed to get myself to orgasm twice with the burning paste and plug in my bottom after 10 minutes of struggling and finally getting the pillows low enough for my to rub my very desperate clit on. In total I spent a little less than half an hour in desperation trying to cum with a further 10 minutes laying with the plug inside listening to my imaginary spanking afterwards. Thank you very much for inspiring this experience
Thank you for sharing such a wonderfully constructed experience, I'm sure it will inspire many other readers to experiment with the burning hot delight of a ginger-smeared plug.
I loved the little details, such as using ankle restraints to keep your legs spread, and imagining yourself inside a spanking video. I applaud your creativity. Well done.
If you decide to play this way more often, I'd recommend measuring out the quantity of ginger powder you use, so you know exactly how much to use. Then you can add a few grams, or take a few away, to establish the intensity of hotness that you can endure for 30 minutes without being overwhelmed.
But next time, no rubbing. I'm sure if I, or your stern nanny, was in charge of your discipline, you wouldn't be allowed to grind your needy little clit on your pillows, or your stiff throbby nipples on the mattress. You'd just have to lie there, with your hands on your head, feeling the scorching heat of the huge plug stretching your tight little hole.
Perhaps another time you'll imagine yourself in detention, sitting on your plug in your uniform, spending your half-hour writing an essay about why naughty girls deserve ginger in their bottoms. I'm sure you'd be extremely excited by the time you got back to your bedroom.
Kink is meant to be fun. It is meant to be enjoyed by all parties involved. There's a lot of romantic symbolism in suffering for your D/s but in reality, if the s-type isn't finding joy in the scenes you do, you need to make changes to it.
Having limits or complicated feelings about certain (even common) kinks does not make you a less worthy submissive. The power exchange is granted by the sub, not taken by the Dom.
Please honor yourself and make sure your terms are being met before giving someone a right to your body that they have not earned.
Anal play adds an intense extra dimension to spanking. Whether it's with anal beads, or a stubby butt plug, or a big thick dildo, or a fiery root of ginger, or a slowly intruding finger.
It's not just the way the recipient squirms and moans because every smack makes them clench tighter against what's inside, but the long delightful ritual of filling their bottom in the first place.
Whilst this game is written with anal beads in mind, you can substitute any anal toy you own. And because everyone has a bottom, both spanker and recipient roles can be played by anyone, regardless of their anatomy. You can take it in turns if you both like to switch, though be warned, because of the nature of this game, switching might lead to a delightful escalation of one-upmanship.
Those who play solo should still find ideas here to incorporate into their own self-spanking time. But remember, to be safe, use specially designed toys for anal play, or at least items with wide bases so there’s no danger of things slipping irretrievably inside.
So, what’s involved? Let’s think of anal play like an actual play, with 3 distinct acts:
Act 1 - Before the spanking
Act 2 - During the spanking
Act 3 - After the spanking
In this game the role of the spanker is to direct this play, and this post will provide some ideas for what can be improvised.
The first act is all about building anticipation, it might start long before you’re finally alone with your partner, through teasing messages that dominate their minds with thoughts of what might lie in store.
The second act is what happens during the spanking, when the recipient not only gets their bottom smacked, but stretched and filled as well.
The final act is what happens after the spanking, because a good game never ends merely when the sound of the final smack fades.
Act 1 - Before
All good plays need a satisfying introduction. And before your partner’s bottom can be filled, they must first be prepared, mentally, as well as physically.
One way to start is to tell them what's in store, that they’re going to get a good hard spanking, with their bottom stretched. You might pronounce their sentence in the morning, before you part for work, and then keep the thrill of anticipation tingling throughout the day. You might send teasing messages that hint at your intentions, or insist they embarrassingly type back what you’ve told them about their fate.
Or they might get home to find you have a little present for them. Excitedly, they’d open your giftbox to find some anal beads, with its ends tied into a loop of string. You’d tell them to put it on, and wear it proudly around their neck. What a pretty necklace! Just like a string of pearls, you’d say admiringly, (but much more practical). You can teasingly state you’re looking forward to them wearing their new necklace in public. You’ll take it off later, when the time is right, but in the meantime it can hang heavily around their collar, a lewd dangling reminder of what you have in mind.
Or the realisation that they’re about to be spanked and filled might come as a complete surprise, only becoming apparent when you lead them to the bedroom, and they see the beads and paddle already on the bed.
Or you might suddenly instruct them to fetch the beads and the lube straight away. You did not invite a discussion, they should know if they’re hesitant or augmentative, they won't get the benefit of the lube.
When you’re ready, you can instruct your partner to undress, then you can place the beads in their mouth to suck like a pacifier. Not going straight for the bottom is an under-appreciated power move. Instead, you’ll build up slowly, inspecting her (or him) thoroughly, paying careful attention to how arousing they’re actually finding their predicament.
Next, give them a thorough Bottom Wiping - remember, slits should be wiped from the hood of her clit, all the way down deep between her folds, and up to the top of her bottom crease. Then you can examine the sticky mess gathered by the tissue in front of her.
Now, it's time to fully inspect their bottom. They’ll be expected to obediently hold themselves apart as you examine their buttocks and everywhere in between. Naturally, special attention will be paid to their crinkly little hole. Use a dab of lube on a fingertip, circling and dipping into it, and listen to how their moans are muffled by the big round beads filling their mouth.
You will of course be teasing your partner during this act, pointing out how aroused they’re getting, all from just being inspected, without needing to apply any stimulation at all. This is a good time to threaten the prospect of making them anal-only for a while, as genital stimulation seems so unnecessary and crude.
When they’re truly squirming and yearning to have their bottom smacked, the second act is ready to begin.
Act 2 - During
This act exploits the anticipation you’ve so meticulously established. Begin by putting your partner into your preferred spanking position.
For anal play, the legs-up position is particularly good. This is where your partner lies on their back (fully supported on a bed or couch is best) and you lift up their legs, allowing you to look at both their bottom hole and their face in a single glance. How cute they'll look, that last protruding bead making their lips pout. In this position, slits will trickle her wetness onto her bottom hole, so you'll obviously want to pause during her spanking to rub that sticky slick there.
You may have noticed that even after all of this, we still haven't inserted anything in their bottom. The beads are still in their mouth, muffling their pleas, keeping them quiet. Try giving the end of the beads a gentle tug, do they let them slip easily from their mouth, or grip them behind their teeth, trying to resist the inevitable penetration to come? Not to worry, a hard smacking and a finger in the bottom should open even the most uncooperative mouths.
Now, as the drama of the play reaches its peak, it’s time to fill their bottom, pressing the first ball against their tight lubed hole, pushing it gently but firmly until it pops inside. Follow the insertion of each ball with a good spanking, so they can experience the unique sensations of clenching against the intrusions after every smack.
The great advantage of anal beads over a plug, or a smooth dildo, is that it intrudes in discrete increments, allowing the bottom to relax after each ball has been pushed in. Those who appreciate such things know the best beads have progressively larger sizes, so each intrusion stretches them ever wider, making the sensations increasingly intense.
Perhaps your partner once told you they could never come from anal play. How silly! But now after all of this, they’ll have reached the very brink, about to convulse deliriously as you whack and stretch their throbbing bottom.
Perhaps they’ll come, perhaps they won’t. But making them climax was never your objective anyway, there’s still another act to play.
Act 3 - Afterwards
All stories need a satisfying conclusion, as drama is resolved and emotions savoured, and your anal play is no exception.
A smacked bottom feels delightfully different when it's filled, so afterwards, never be in any hurry to take the intrusion out. By keeping their bottom filled, they can properly savour the gift you've given. They can stand in the corner with the beads still inside, dangling between their smarting cheeks, dreading that you might pull up their underwear over the beads before you go out for the evening.
Or maybe if they’d been good and you were feeling generous, you could replace the beads with a plug, to be more discreet under their clothing. There's nothing quite like enjoying a meal with someone who's sitting on not just a sore spanked bottom, but is secretly plugged too. Their floaty mind dominated by thoughts of what's going to happen when you both eventually do get home, when you finally pull their underwear down again.
Or perhaps you’ve no intention of leaving your bedroom. You might decide to dress them in their nightie or pyjamas, and put them to bed. Or have them lie face down on the bed, straddling a pillow that’s between their legs, as you massage them all over, smacking their inner thighs if they start to grind against the pillow too disgracefully.
If you decide to fuck, it’s best to leave the beads in, and choose a position where you can reach between their legs and tug on the tail of the toy between thrusts.
You get to decide the ending of this particular play.
And the curtain is sure to fall to rapturous roars.
An arousing prospect? Perhaps you should do something to make it come true. If you do have a partner, you should send them this post, and plant the seed of the idea in their mind.
Or, if you don't yet have some anal beads, you could buy them as a surprise gift, and print this post and slip it into the box. Bonus points for toys that look like trendy chunky beaded bangles or necklaces when stuck end-to-end, and which can be worn openly in public before you return home to do filthy things with them.
Maybe your own anal play will begin by simply sending a single message:
“Your next spanking should be with your bottom filled.”
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