TalkHack: Unleash your Communication Power.
As we all know, communication is the process of sharing and exchanging ideas and information between sender and receiver in order to establish understanding. To ensure effective communication, both parties must be active listeners to avoid possible conflicts, build trust, and make better life decisions.
I've learned that communication isn't as simple as asking a Yes-or-No question, where the sender receives only one answer without the recipient elaborating on their response. Communication involves analyzing its various aspects to achieve understanding, including verbal and nonverbal communication, listening skills, interpersonal dynamics, cultural variations, and the influence of technology on communication. It is also important to understand the various models and theories of communication, such as the Shannon-Weaver model, transactional model, and social penetration theory, which provide frameworks for understanding how communication functions. Additionally, understanding communication barriers and how to overcome them is essential for effective communication in a variety of contexts and circumstances.
In light of this, I've slowly discovered ways or tips to make speaking easier, at least for me.
First, I give myself time to analyze and plan what I'm going to say, as well as time to practice my confidence.
Second, I practice various techniques before speaking, such as breathing and tongue exercises, and practicing my smile.
For someone who stutters a lot when speaking in front, a lot of practice is needed to deliver information without stuttering, as it could be one of the communication barriers. If not delivered properly, the audience may misunderstand and interpret it differently.
Third, after knowing the type of audience I'm going to address, engaging with them is crucial. I think of ways to make the audience interested and engaged with me.
Fourth, I also practice body language, as it's part of non-verbal communication. Facial expressions, unnecessary movements, posture, and focus need attention, as recipients observe these when you're speaking. With multiple recipients, they may have different interpretations, so one wrong move could lead to varying understandings.
Fifth, if you get nervous easily like me, it's best to hold your hands tightly to put pressure on them, as you can't hold random things or other parts of your body when speaking. Just hold your hands, either intertwined and placed on your abdomen or at your back to hide shaky hands. Also, it's okay to pause; it gives the audience time to digest what you've said.
Lastly, their feedback is essential for improvement. Alternatively, watching others' speeches online can provide tips for good speaking skills, which I do when practicing my speech or speaking skills.
In conclusion, these tips are based on my experience to help me speak effectively. While everyone's methods may differ, you can consider the mentioned tips to see if they work for you. Remember, communication doesn't solely rely on speaking; it also requires active listening, considerable effort, comprehension, and meaningful interaction.
So, are you picking up on the vibes between the lines?