Open Letter
It's always a bit hesitant having 4 family's (my side of family and brothers girlfriends side of family) come together, will the other family enjoy the others. Will they get along? You always have those questions right, but hey things could be worse right??? You could know there is major termoil. Anyways Family's have children , we had nearly 15 kids swimming in the pool. I was cooking over 100 burgers and hot dogs, not complaining yes I was hungover sitting in heat but I was pounding water. Finally after 3 hrs of getting food out it was fine to swim. I love kids most had left but some kids from my sister in laws family where there I call them my niece and nephews because they are that awesome, well my nephew Cole was born deaf he lives with his aunt because his mother is who knows. ( I really don't know much on that situation ) anyways disabled child calls for a more hands off situation. Today I witness his aunt and uncle treat him like crap, need I say I felt so bad. But I'm not 100% apart of this family, I only met Cole 1 other time. His step aunt threw him into the deep end in which he struggled as she yelled st him to leave her alone (need I remind he's a deaf child) he's not retardted he just can't hear you! He almost downed but made it to the edge, he comes over to sit next to me I pat his back sign if he's okay and he nods. This all happened because he motioned he was cold and showed his hands where prunes. Now here I am still thinking of it why? Because I felt bad for Cole because he's normal he just can't communicate like a normal person with hearing, and there he is with a family who seems to not work with his disability and that he's just unwanted baggage. Up that's the word I've been looking for they treat him like unwated baggage my heart hurts for what I witnessed :/ My rant of jumble is over this only really for me to write out to get it off my chest
