Get A Life

Belinda Dwilestari, 25.

[belskeyy]

still wondering what it feels like to have a normal & functional family

[bakwaaas]

you must teach your heart to accept what cannot be changed.

[7cl-deactivated20180331]

i love skin care culture. i love the idea of putting effort into maintaining your beauty & working on it to enhance your natural look, & working towards self-acceptance & mindfulness instead of chasing impossible standards. i love practicing sustainable ways to keep up your confidence & comfort via self care rituals that make you feel good about yourself and comfortable in your own skin. i love skin care culture.

[belskeyy]

If someone ever asks you a favor “jangan bilang-bilang ya”, well they mean it, they have trusted you. It is completely my fault to tell people about the story I should have kept to myself. And I am sorry for that, I got that fuckin karma right now.

Lessons learned: it is so hard to trust people, don’t ruin it.

[jahminican]

Praying for the woman I’ll be in 5+yrs I hope she’s happy, and loved, living life unapologetically, doing what she loves.

[bepeu-deactivated20171202]

you ever been so stressed that youre calm

[belskeyy]

It’s frustrating.

[belskeyy]

It’s the lowest point of my life. I hate my life.

[meditationsinwonderland]

Autumn was her happiest season.

Harper Lee (via elenamjacobs)

[belskeyy]

It is exhausting, having a toxic mother.

[jewlsies]

those little things on ur nose aren’t blackheads, don’t try and get rid of them they’re sebaceous filaments and they’re permanent and literally everyone has them

every girl has that little pouch of fat on her lower tummy, despite what magazines try n show u, you have important organs there that need to be protected don’t try and get rid of ur pouch

ur body is smarter than u think and it knows what to do when u eat more than normal. one bad day, or even week, of eating poorly isn’t gonna ruin anything at all I pinky promise

if u think u look good up until u try taking a selfie, it’s not ur fault - our faces are asymmetrical and when u see ur face flipped it will look unnatural to u, since u don’t see it that way when u look in the mirror. to everyone else it looks perfectly fine

no one’s stomach looks the same at 8pm as it does at 8am. no one has a chiseled six pack after a day of eating, not even the super fit people u see on tumblr, because ur stomach naturally expands after eating and expecting to have a flat tummy before bed is very unrealistic

no one notices if the bags under ur eyes are bad today. no one pays attention to the bump in ur nose or the zit on ur chin or the piece of hair that u missed when u were straightening. literally no one notices these things except you so stop worrying about it ur gonna be fine

sometimes u just gotta get over urself

[thegoodvybe]

[existential-celestial]

It was the first of June; yet the morning was overcast and chilly; rain beat fast on my casement.

Jane Eyre, Charlotte Brontë (via existential-celestial)

[belskeyy]

Lesson Learned 101

Makin dewasa makin berkurang temen adalah benar adanya. Harusnya makin tambah umur makin dewasa juga cara bersikap. Jangan mentang-mentang temen, ngerasa deket, sering ke sana ke sini bareng, jadi makin seenaknya.

Salah, makin deket justru makin ngehargain temennya. Udah tau segala yg baik buruk soal temen harusnya makin dihargain temennya. Bukannya malah dikata-katain yg jelek-jelek dari temennya. Terus udah ngatain masih minta berani juga minta tolong karna ngerasanya yg diomongin itu bercanda. WELL, YOU’RE GONE TOO FAR. Penyakit manusia jaman sekarang kadang lupa atau malah pura-pura lupa kalau orang lain bisa sakit hati. Gak tau ya makin dewasa itu emang berubah juga personalitynya atau ternyata mulai nunjukin true color-nya I HAVE NO IDEA.

Hati-hati, makin banyak temen yg ngerasa dirinya baik padahal sebenernya taik.

[belskeyy]

Waaa 23! I’m so old. A fresh graduate(?), an unemployed and struggling with quarter life crisis.

I hate it when people told me what I have to do with my life. “You should start working, don’t be picky”, “You should start thinking about your love life”, “You should this and that”. Believe me, I know exactly what I am doing right now.

But thank you for advices y'all gave to me. All I need right now is a supportive friend who not trying to judge me.

I really want to be a better person in this new age. Do not complain & be grateful.

[belskeyy]

Hang in there

[belskeyy]

Everybody needs time for their own selves...

Belinda : Nonton sendiri itu asik banget lah

Alifa : Ngopi sendiri lah

Riri : Apalagi karaoke sendiri harus nyobain banget