Sex n Stuff

40F - dealing with life in the best way possible! With @bcindc as my partner in crime and owner of all my bits. Collection of sex-based stories and other random interesting tidbits.

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[herdirtylittleheart]

Ethical non-monogamy and the full moon.

“Don’t look at the full moon with her. It would break my heart.” I know it’s unreasonable so I never ask, but I wish I could. I know better though, I know the moon doesn’t belong to me, and neither does he. Standing under the moon is a different thing between any two people, I know this, but it feels like mine. 

Never let her turn around and kiss you on the stairs the way I do. Never let her write stories on the back of your neck with her fingernails after you fuck. Never let her fall asleep on your shoulder, in the crook of your arm, the one that’s just the right shape for me to nestle against. I know in my heart it’s not just for me, I know it’s human-shaped, not me-shaped, but let’s pretend okay? Let’s pretend you were built just for me. What a pretty little fantasy. 

Let’s pretend that there were rules that could protect us, that if we just stayed within the right boundaries this would never hurt. Let’s pretend we can legislate our feelings, follow the red tape, let’s pretend regulations and a page of things we Can Not Do would be simple, like a grocery list. You never look at the moon with her and I’ll never let anyone brush my hair out of my face when it’s messy. I’ll never let anyone kiss my baby toes or hide my face during movies at the scary parts. I’ll never slow dance in the kitchen with anyone but you. 

Until I’m dancing, in a different kitchen, with someone who isn’t you. It’s a different dance, of course. They don’t hold me like you do, they’re cooking dinner and I touched them, it drew them to me, and next thing you know we were dancing. It doesn’t feel like a travesty or an invasion of our space, your space, my space with you. It feels like dancing in the kitchen with someone else. It’s wonderful in it’s own way, but different entirely. 

That’s why it would be a silly rule; You can outlaw an activity but you can’t control the intimacy between two people, the way any arbitrary act can feel magical, the chemistry at play. These things are not compartments you can lock up or barricade, they are life experiences, lived moments. Building blocks to connections that neither you or I can predict. We have to trust in what we’ve built together, and all the unique ways we make each other happy. The moon is going to look amazing tonight, no matter whose hand you’re holding as you look towards the sky. And if there’s fireworks between two people, you wouldn’t need the moon to see them. We can feel how we feel, that’s the deal. 

[herdirtylittleheart]

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[beludandi]

Beautifully written!

[danthomfrank]

I'm so interested. Have so many questions. When you were working things out this recent time, you said you truly communicated and now it's all good. Really interested to know what changed with a fresh level of communication to fix the issue. Also in the reasons you may decide to change from not playing with others, to playing. You wrote it wouldn't be a reason we would expect or guess. Thanks for much for sharing so much with us all.

What changed with the deeper level of communication? Hmm having issues figuring out how to answer this. It feels deep and complex so I’ve been sitting on this ask for a while.

So we realized some fundamental things about any relationship which is that it kinda comes with baggage. So my relationship with him is rife with complications, while his with Snow is so easy. So that means that anything we do is much more precarious and has a million ways it can go wrong. They are so easy together.

Once we keep that fact at the fore front of every discussion, thought, activity, it helps us avoid pitfalls by simply being aware they exist. For my part, I was able to see that he didn’t judge her as better than me and more worthy of having her needs filled, it is simply easier to fulfill her needs. I realized that she is not Better, I am simply More.

With that knowledge firmly in place, it’s no longer a comparison or judgment of me. It’s just the varying dynamics. So now we are speaking from a deeper level of awareness of how messy life can be. Of course we’ve always known it but now we’ve internalized it as part of our common vocabulary.

I would think that most people would assume that I would play to get back at him, get even, get my fair share, hurt him or some other mean spirited motive.

Actually, there’s a few things at play. One is that we changed our marriage four years ago and decided to try new things. Three years ago the biggest new thing was the discovery of CQ. I latched onto it as my new identity and I’m proud to be the best CQ, the best wife, submissive and martyr. Over time that has led me to become more and more down on myself and lose my self esteem. So we are changing many things to help my self esteem and one is to explore me with other guys (to get that validation that all my LS friends get). The other is simply that our goal four years ago was to do new things and we’ve done many but sexually for me, most of it’s been about him and me or him with others and I have interests in some areas of sex that he can’t fill. So I may try BDSM with an experienced person, play with a female alone, try BBC, maybe some group play and also full swap with my hubby. Most of those things he can’t provide or provide alone.

[beludandi]

This is an awesome response and very insightful. I've taken a break from the cq stuff with @bcindc because I've been having issues with it. Mainly that our limits around activities were different and it was leading to relationship issues. My flippant response has always been if cq didn't work out, there's always swinging. Lol.

[spicenwolf]

Submission and the Aging Sub

I turned 56 this summer. Some times I feel much younger, but other days I feel every one of those years. I guess that's normal.

What isn't normal is an old submissive. Or at least that's what Tumblr would have you believe. Older men, sure. Because they get distinguished. But female subs over the age of 35 or so? As scarce as a single Dominant at a kink weekend!

We attended one such weekend this summer. It was different than most of the events we've been to, because most of the people were our age, or even older. There were walkers, oxygen tanks, and even a wheelchair. People way past the age of 35, and still getting their kink on. It was encouraging in a way, but also a bit depressing. I'm not ready to think of breath play as Wolf hiding my Oxygen tank.

Wolf and I just had an anniversary of sorts. We've been a couple for eight years, and living together almost three. Our relationship is so much different now than I would have predicted. Granted we've had a rough couple of years health wise, but it isn't just that. Our power exchange is very understated now. Maybe that's inevitable at our ages. I find that my pasion for submission fluctuates with my sex drive. Vaginal hormone cream has helped a bit, but menopause takes its toll, for sure. Sadly, if I'm not jonesing for sex, I'm likely not in the sub frame of mind, either.

Sometimes I mourn the loss of all the outward trappings of D/s. We still love each other and enjoy being together, but we rarely observe the rules that once seemed so importantl. I can't remember the last time I slept in my collar. It aggravates the acid reflux that plagues me. I don't often ask for permission before sitting. It just seems silly and intrusive. The one rule I am still religious about is not buying clothes for myself without his approval. Why that one stuck when the others faded away, I don't know.

Am I asking you to feel sorry for me? Maybe. Sometimes I feel sorry for myself. Aging can really suck. Here's the thing, though. I have a Dominant partner who loves me dearly. I trust him to make decisions for me, even when I'm capable of making them for myself. If we aren't fucking like bunnies anymore, he knows my body inside out, and is willing to persevere no matter how long it takes to bring me to climax. I can tell him anything in the world, and know without a doubt that it won't shake his love for me. Just because I don't often kneel for him doesn't mean that he isn't in charge. Any problem that ever comes up in my life, I go to him for a solution, secure in the knowledge that he'll have one. I am his and he is mine.

Do I recommend being a 56 year old submissive? Nah, be 25 forever if you can manage it. If you can't, here's my advice. Age as gracefully as you can manage, with a Dominant who loves you no matter how old you get.

[beludandi]

I've been on Tumblr hiatus for a while, but this is the type of content I adore finding here.

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THE 10 BEST POSITIONS FOR ANAL

All you faithful readers know I’m a big fan of knocking on a girl’s back door.   It feels great.   It’s naughty.   What’s not to like about it?

Nothing… for the guy.

For the girl, anal can often be traumatic.   I’ve posted a bunch of times on how to prepare for anal sex.   You can type “anal” in my search bar and get a ton of info.  But let me highlight some things:

Anal sex requires preparation to keep it from being messy.

Anal sex requires relaxation and trust.  If the girl isn’t relaxed… if she tenses up… that’s when it hurts.

Anal sex requires a lot of lube.   LOTS of lube.

Anal sex requires you to begin small.   A finger in the ass.  Then two fingers.  Then your cock.

Anal sex requires you to start slow.   Slide it in and pump with short, slow strokes.

Anal sex requires foreplay.  Because again, a woman needs to be really relaxed and into it before her ass will open.   

What I haven’t written about in much detail is good positions for anal.  I’ve said, “If it hurts, try the woman on top.”  But beyond that, nothing much.  That changes with this post.  

I want to share with you ten positions that can be great for anal.  They’re great for a variety of reasons: intimacy, pleasure for him, pleasure for her, comfort, etc.   I’ll spell out the benefits of each one.  They are listed in no particular order.  But if you read the articles about preparing for anal that I have written and then learn these ten positions, I guarantee you that you can comfortably (and erotically!) add this very enjoyable aspect to your sex life.  

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THE REVERSE COWGIRL RUMP RIDER

He lies on his back, legs together.  She straddles him, facing away and bounces with his dong-a-long in her bonk-a-donk.

This position is great for her, not only because it lets her control how deep and fast her ass is being fucked, but also because it provides a great angle.  He’s going straight in, with a slight upward press.  Should be comfortable.

It’s a great position for him because of the view - her bulbous back pillows being split by his love meat.   

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THE SPHINCTER SPOON

The key to this spooning technique is that the girl pulls her legs up close to her chest, maybe using her arms behind her knees to hold them.  When the legs are pulled up like that, the external spincter muscle (i.e. the asshole) loosens some.   

When the guy slides in, he goes as deep as possible.  But motion is limited.  

This position is all about intimacy.   There is a ton of body contact.  He can whisper in her ear or kiss her neck.   Guys, you also can play with her nipples or even reach between her legs and rub gently.  

This is a great starter position for the first anal of the night, precisely because there isn’t much motion.   It lets her slowly relax her booty.

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THE SUPER SODOMY SIDE SLIDE

In this position, the girl lies facedown, then pulls one leg up some.  So her one leg is straight down.  With her other leg, she’s pulled her knee up close to even with her waist.  This tilts her slightly onto her side.  The guy then straddles the one leg that is straight down.  He spreads her cheeks, and slides in.   

What makes this position great for her is how relaxing it is.   He can rub her back while he’s fucking her ass.  It also doesn’t allow for very deep penetration.   

For him there are two pleasures.  First, as he pumps, his scrotum is going to be rubbing against the smooth skin on the back of her leg.  It feels amazing.  Secondly, each time he thrusts in, her one butt cheek - the one of the leg that is straight out - is going to hit him right in what is sometimes called the “inguinal canal” area, where the guy’s leg meets his torso.  The firm but soft tush pressing in there… fuck!  Feel so good!

Guys, an added little treat for her…  She she first gets in this position, get down there, slide a finger in her vajayjay, palm facing down, curling the finger slightly.  That will place your fingertip on her g-spot.  While you work the finger in and out, let your tongue press on her asshole, just causing it to spread a little.  She’ll love it.   

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THE DALLYING IN HER DERRIERE

This is a lovely, slow, lazy way to pump her rump.   You are on her side.   She is on her back, with her legs hitched over you.  She can keep them together or spread them apart, depending on what she finds more comfortable.   

This is also a very intimate position, as it allows you to see each other’s faces.   Motion is limited, as her legs hooked over him prevent him from pumping too hard.   He can play with her chest or her clit.  She can reach down and rub his balls while he fucks her.    

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THE ASS-N-CLITTY

Another variation of women-on top.  The girl straddles the guy, cowgirl style, facing him, her knees wide apart.   She puts his hotdog in her buns, then leans back, using her hands for support.   And she bounces and bounces and bounces.  

The plus for her is that she gets to control tempo and depth.   And again, it’s a great angle - straight up her dark tunnel.  

In addition, in that position her guy has clear access to her clitty-cat.   He can pet it.  Guys, in this position, I recommend using your thumb.  Lick it so it’s slick.  Then press it down on top of her clit and roll it, like a pea bring rolled under your finger.

Or you can take a finger and curl it in, making a “come here” motion.  That puts your finger on her g-spot.  Again, roll it around like a pea under your fingertip.     

For guys, not only do you have an amazing view, but it actually is a very tight fit.  With her knees apart like that, her glute muscles get pushed together.  Thus, your shaft is cradled in soft butt cheek.  Feels amazing.

True story.   I have had a girlfriend squirt all over my abs in this position while I was in her ass.  

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THE CATHOLIC BIRTH CONTROL

You wouldn’t think missionary position would be great for anal, but it really, really is.   However, you probably need to have her hips tilted up.   You can do this simply by placing a few pillows under her hips.   

This is another position aimed at intimacy.  The couple can kiss and caress even as he’s tapping her tushie.   

This position also allows for only shallow penetration, thus it’s great for a girl who, try as she might, believes she can only take the tip.  It’s also great for a guy who is well endowed, as maybe only the first two or three inches will get in.

Guys, be careful in this position.   It’s easy to slip out.  And what can really hurt a girl is when you slip out and then don’t aim carefully when you slide back in.  It forces her anus to stretch in funny ways!   No bueno.   

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THE HERO, POOTER-POUNDER STYLE

In the kamasutra, “the Hero” position is woman on her back, with her legs pulled up to the degree that her pelvis tilts up.   This can be done a variety of ways.  She can grab under he knees and pull them back.  He can grab her ankles and push them back.   The point is, her legs are in the air, spread apart, and her hips are tilted up.  This gives him a straight shot to her pooter-palace!

After six positions which were more gentle, we now get to the ones which will be a bit harder.   Thus, it requires a bit more experience.  These are anal positions you might try after you have being doing one of the first six for awhile.  So your rump is all relaxed and ready for a good ramming.  ;) 

For the girls, the fun part of this position is that as well as any of them, you have access to your sugared almond.   While your man drills your dumper, rub that thing like you are a DJ and it’s god-damned New Years Eve.  You might cum.  

Guys, you need to understand that with her hips tilted and legs spread, you could go really, really deep.  That’s great, if she says it’s great.  If not, then this is a position where you have to exercise self control and only use the first four inches or so.    

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THE DOGGY IN THE DONK

I don’t want to exaggerate here, so I’ll say it carefully.  This is the biggest fantasy of every man on earth.    There is nothing like getting a hot girl face down, ass up, and smashing her onion.   

What does this give to the guys?   The best site on earth.  When you can see your cock sliding in and out, wedged between those breathtaking cheeks… when that booty meet shakes with each thrust, a slight ripple working through each one… wow.  I have a tear in my eye just thinking about it.   

In addition to the view, if the girl has warmed up to anal and can handle it, this is the position in which the guy can go his hardest.  The angle of his cock in her ass, especially if she puts her chest down on the bed, is such that it is a very, very smooth fit.   Her rectum is in its natural position.   So he can grab her hips and pound away.

For the girl, doggystyle anal can be either heaven or purgatory.   He’s going to be deep in your ass.   But in this position, he stimulates some of the nerves that are actually located in the vaginal wall.    If a girl is going to cum during anal, this position will probably be it.  While the guy is reaming her from behind, she’ll reach down and play with her clit.   If she can cum this way, it will be so intense her back might break.   

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THE BEST LAP DANCE EVER

This is yet another woman on top position.   The man sits in a chair.  Guys, use a kitchen chair, not a big ass recliner.  It gives you more range of motion.   The woman come and sits on his lap, with his man-meat in her moneymaker.  

There are two variations to this. The woman can put her legs between his legs.  If she does this, she can put her hands on his knees and bounce.  Or the woman can put her legs outside his.   Unless she has really long legs, she might not be able to bounce as well.  But she can grind and rock.    It’s a amazing sensation when you grind in that position, ladies!  It’s like you are trying to break our cock off inside your can.   

Guys, if she goes with her legs outside yours, why not reach around  and flick her on-off switch lightly.   It’s ether that your you make it rain!  

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THE 3AM AT DANIEL’S HOUSE

This is a variation on doggystyle - doing it while standing, with the woman bent over something.  It’s one of my favorites, hence the name.  (Back off!  When you get your own blog, you can name sex positions after yourself too!)

It’s a really comfortable position for the woman.   She’s braced on a chair or couch.  She might even be able to rest on it.   A variation is if she picks up one leg and rests her knee on the object.  A good example of that is a bathroom counter.  She leans over it and puts one knee up on it while I explore her third-entry.   

It’s great for the guy for the same reason doggystyle is.  It’s a nice view.  He can grab the hips and go hard.   Because it’s a comfortable position, it’s also great for prolonged anal.   There’s no need to pound out your nut in 30 seconds.  Get her in this position and spend a good 20 minutes working her bubble over.   

This position can also be very pleasurable for the woman too.  There is a muscle cluster that starts in your lower back, runs through the glutes, and down the back of the legs to the heel.  That’s why if you walk funny in a bad shoe, it can hurt your back.  It’s the longest muscle cluster in the human body.  When a girl is bent over like this, that muscle cluster is tight.   And so as she tenses her anus slightly (which is natural to do as your ass is being fucked), she’ll feel that through her entire lower body.   And guys, if you can reach around and play with her clit and make her cum in this position, she can collapse.  The shudder it sends through her legs literally floors her.  

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And there you have it, faithful readers.   Is this every anal position I know.  Please!  I’m Daniel Fucking Davis.   This is the tip of the iceberg.   But hopefully if you like these, you can put your own spins and variances on them, and have plenty of variety to your hot, hot booty sex!

Now, if you like this, please reblog!   Cause let’s face it.  This is good advice.  

Credit for all the illustrations goes to wewomen.com.  They have their own take on “best of” positions.  I just used their illustrations, which I thought were cute!  

[42ddd-bbw-deactivated20200709]

Doggy is my favorite for anal 😍

[peacecat83-deactivated20190925]

Oh my fuckin God!!!! The positions in this are to DIE FOR!! I would love to try these!♡

[her-heart-in-her-eyes-deactivat]

Definitely a reblog! This is great info. *adds a few of these positions to my to-do list *

[hecallsmeharper]

Sharing….💁‍♀️

[nurseaware]

Always a reblog! Still need to check a few of these off my list 😉

[beludandi]

Im not certain how many of these we've done @bcindc...

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Types of cuckquean

A cuckquean is a girl who gets off on her man having sex with other girls but there are several different types. The girls he has sex with can be referred to as “vixens”, “other women”, “mistresses”, “girlfriends” or the slightly awkward “cuckcakes”. Note that while I talk about sex here some cuckqueans can focus more on the relationship and romance element. Here’s a list of some common types. It’s not unusual for an individual cuckquean to share traits from different categories.

Compersive cuckquean

Takes pleasure in the pleasure of her man, other girls, or both of them together. Focused on their happiness and enjoyment in a sexual or altruistic way. You could describe it as the opposite of jealousy although in practise both will mix.

Humiliation cuckquean

Sexually aroused by humiliation and has found her man having sex with other girls to be an effective way to achieve it. Can be based around just her man or the girls, both in combination, or the idea of being in some way publicly shamed for being cheated on or taken advantage of.

Voyeuristic cuckquean

Her main enjoyment comes from voyeurism and so simply likes to watch her man have sex with other women. Not always directly watching but listening to, watching video or even just hearing a description.

Submissive cuckquean

Sexually submissive and explores that through the potential power imbalance between her man and herself as a cuckquean.

Raceplay cuckquean

Primarily focused on raceplay and interracial sex. She either likes her man to have sex with girls of other races, or if the relationship itself is already interracial may like to see him have sex with girls of the same race as he is. Sometimes there will be a focus on one particular race, other times it will be a broader interest.

Pragmatic cuckquean

Uses the cuckquean fetish as a way of solving a problem like being too controlling or jealous or confronting feelings of paranoia about being cheated on or betrayed. She might not actually become a cuckquean in real life because just exploring the idea can be enough to resolve her issues. If she does though, it’s likely that she’ll naturally find herself falling into one or more of the other categories here.

Lesbian cuckquean

Usually in denial about being a lesbian she finds herself extremely attracted to other girls but lives vicariously through her man’s vixens. Jumps at the first opportunity to have sex with them, rationalising her feelings away by calling it “just a threesome” or that she’s being “forced” to serve other girls by them or her man. Sometimes not in denial at all but deliberately and purposely trying to live as a straight girl using the cuckquean fetish as a kind of pressure release valve or even to avoid straight sex.

Non-consensual cuckquean

Not a cuckquean naturally but forced into it as part of a consensual non-consent relationship. Forced meaning compelled by her own committent. In other words she’s agreed to hand over control of her sexuality and consent to a man and one of the ways he expresses and tests that control is by having sex with other girls.

Cheating cuckquean

Trying to learn how to be a cuckquean in response to being cheated on. For whatever reason has decided that she doesn’t want to end the relationship just because of her man’s infidelity. Could be because she loves him too much or even blames herself for his affairs. Sometimes his cheating triggers the realisation she was a cuckquean all along.

[beludandi]

Hummmm.... I've gotta think about what type I am...

[harrysquean]

After our night at the club I finally got cuckqueaned, properly. 

Harry and I took a separate taxi but we all ended up back at Blondie’s. Apparently dancers and customers sharing a ride home does not go down well, hehe. There’d been plenty to drink already in the club and no one was under any illusions as to why we were there so we moved immediately to the bedroom. 

Harry asked Blondie if she wanted me to join them and she replied that she wanted Harry to herself. So Harry told her to tell me that to my face and she smiled, looked at me and said “I want Harry all to myself.” I blushed and said ok. Harry told me I could kneel and wait while they had fun. So I knelt. 

Keep reading

[beludandi]

Another story from another cq. :)

[queandove]

[edgecwene-deactivated20240702]

I’m InferiorWench on Fetlife and Bdsmlr :)

[dominantlife]

If I can get an adult version of something kinda like Tumblr up and running, would you guys be interested?

Mostly same features but with extra features like…

No bullying.

No kids.

No one under 18.

Stronger blocking tools.

All the female associated nipples you can handle.

Please let me know and PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD!!!

[dominantlife]

All genders and orientations would be welcomed.

More like Tumblr and less like Fet.

[fae-kisses-deactivated20201120]

Yeeeees!

[enscenic]

Go on…

[the-new-sysco-deactivated201812]

I’m interested

[naughtychef6969]

Go on …

[mymmm]

Run with it! Sound idea

[dangerouswomanxxx-deactivated20]

Yes please!!

[thealphawithin-deactivated20230]

Reblog this.

[crusoesampersand]

More like Tumblr and less like Fet? Sign me up!

[belfast62]

Agreed! @crusoesampersand….. Tried Fet once, scared the beejeesus out of me…..

[auroradragon1]

@crusoesampersand keep me informed! 

[sweet-but-spicy-girly-deactivat]

i’m in

[itsallprimal]

Let us know how we can help

[dominantlife]

For now, get the word out! I have the domain registered and the corporate site. I will reveal them here once they have propagated and I have something for you guys to see.

[prettylilredhead]

Absolutely

[streetdoc15]

For sure!!!

[sutherngent66-deactivated202005]

Absolutely

[yessiraustralia-again]

I’m keen

[girlfrommydreamsofyou-deactivat]

Yes yes yes!

[snowsongs91]

Absolutely!

[little-kitten-lotti]

Yesssssssssssssssss GO @dominantlife

[beludandi]

Just in case...

[beludandi]

Tumblr non-adult pic friendly...

Is terrible. I will be cleaning up my posts to comply by the 17th. I am however on fetlife. Feel free to pm for details if you'd like to stay in touch.

And boo. The whole reason I am on Tumblr is for porn. Time to find a new site, but maybe can still post some text stuff at least...

[beludandi]

B was here again today

Evidently she is getting more comfortable with being here for the sex, she wanted it right after her ritual coffee and before eating. It makes me glad she's getting more comfortable with it. And not sure what was different for her, but she didn't have to stop; they kept going for almost 2 hours. @bcindc said he really enjoyed her moans - she's so tight and this time she just kept taking it without stopping, deep moans and creaming on him pretty hard.

@bcindc and I had a little bit of fun before I left for work, it's amazing how hard his cock gets in the days leading up to her visit. 😍 I got caught in being turned on for a while, wanted his cock, but he told me no more. I think I came 1x from his hand and 2x from his cock. It was nice being that turned on and funny because I knew I wasn't going to be sated unless I got his cum. I really wanted him to save it and he knows it, so you could say I denied myself.

I definitely dont think I can live this life everyday, but I do enjoy some things about it. There's the opportunity for him to have sex with a friends wife (they're non-monogamous), I told him we should invite them over to dinner sometime. I'd watch that. 😉

And there's another lady we both know - we got invited to go on vacation with her in the spring. Considering they kissed when we parted last, I think she's interested. I told him if we do go with her, I want him to do it - I want to hear them from the other room. 🤩

Life is good. Love you cutie!

[kidkitthekingslayer]

The fact that nobody is talking about Secret’s new commercials pisses me off

[softwhorecore-deactivated201812]

This makes me so happy ☺️

[iamhannalashay]

Yesssss😭 I damn near cried

[jaxuhmillion]

I LOVE THIS OMFG

[taylorzrealm]

YOOOOOOOOOOO THATS AMAZING!!!!!

[saiasus]

[trufflebootybuttercream-deactiv]

Can someone help me understand I wanna cry to ..I feel something went over my head

[writingsandwonders]

The woman in the bathroom is trans and is scared that if she comes out of the stall the women that walked in will insult or harass her. but when she comes out they compliment her on her dress instead. The add ends with saying “stress tested for women.” It means Secret is including trans women in their definition of women. 

[viragon]

I have reblogged this three times now, each one mentioning the fact that Secret not only included a trans woman, but that they /had the other women compliment her dress and treat her with respect/. I will reblog this every time I see it because it’s so important. More companies should involve trans people in their marketing - we do exist. Props to Secret for getting in on this movement. It makes me really happy to see more of the trans community represented in daily television.

[beludandi]

Holler!

[creativecuckquean]

Harsh Reality

I don’t know where to begin… I have enjoyed this Lifestyle for well over 15yrs. My husband an I were having strange on a regular an it was HOT!!! I am particularly fond of just the watching, but several women would always want me to join an they would be somewhat more in to me, & that made me turned off. I think that it was because my needs were not being met by watching,& now I was a part of it.

I don’t know if any other CQ’s experienced this? Anyway fast forward to 2016… our last rendezvous was in 2013 & she was a regular. I never worried about her having alternative motives or feelings for him. To me that is what I always fear. But never had it happen.

So 2016 comes I find us a chick on Tinder, an explain what we are looking for & what the rules are an expect no feelings involved. I am a straight shooter an very straight forward so there was no misunderstandings. My 1 rule is no kissing. Mind u this has never been an issue b4.

We went away for a weekend with our new cuckcake, it was literally her 3rd time being with my husband an apparently in those two nights she had tried to kiss him 2x. One of which i caught on video because I like to record our flings. But she also mentioned to him that she was falling in love with him. He told her that she was drunk & would not remember next day. (Ok, so at this point 2 very negative things had occurred an my husband had failed to tell me yet!!) we drove home an while at gas station she told him again.

My purpose is writing this is because this incident has altered my reality in being a cuckquean. We just had one this past weekend (9/22/18) it was overall great. She was not new to this nor was she confused about my rule. But because of the 2016 chick I am very insecure an ask a lot of questions afterwards. My hubby says he would rather not continue to do this because of all my questions afterward but our sex is so hot afterwards & I love to talk about it sooooo much. 😫.

Anyone else experience this? He makes me feel like #1 an all that but b4 this incident I was a lot less overbearing an emotional. Sorry it’s not a hot & heavy post but here’s a pic from our get together. I am on the left!!

[beludandi]

I also have some insecurities about the lifestyle; and things I just don't like. It sounds like your husband didn't instigate any of the problems; and if the gal was saying she loved him after sleeping together only a few times, she sounds like she had her own issues.

My question for you is: what upset you so much? I've found that if I think really hard about it, I can narrow down exactly what bothers me. I think it's commendable that your husband would rather quit the extra fun on the side than keep it and have issues in your relationship - he's prioritizing what you have together.

I would say if you want to keep the dynamic, then maybe try and talk over the issues with him, and be as specific as possible. If it's you were upset he didn't tell you right away, then address that. If she expected more than you were comfortable with, or whatever, try and talk it through. Maybe you just need to both realize when it's time to cut the fun before it goes too far in a future encounter? Good luck!

[beludandi]

Countdown...

To his next encounter with B. He's meeting her in two days again, and the lead up has been more relaxed. Due to scheduling and travel we're only going to see each other for something like 7 out of 40 days - we've got 5 more days together before he's leaving on travel again. This time trying to tease and get worked up about it is harder. It's something that is going to happen, it's fun, but not in a super exciting way. So we'll have fun tonight and tomorrow. And maybe I'll put his cock in my mouth Thursday before I leave and she comes over. But mostly I'm just enjoying his company.

The happy hour with J didn't occur two weeks ago; it was tentatively rescheduled for this week. But when talking about it I really didn't want to give up one of my 6 nights with him for it. So it's off for now; maybe they'll get together after the holidays...

[curiositykilledthecuckquean]

I rush in, concerned there is an issue. Jay never calls me home in the middle of the work day.

“Hi baby, is everything -“ I say, only to stop when he raises his hand.

“Hi baby. Get on your knees, I need you to get me ready for Dana - she’ll be here in 15 minutes and she always runs early.”

I fall to my knees. “You need me to get you ready? For Dana? Wasn’t Other Sue JUST here? And Tanya before her?”

“Yes.”

I smile. “Are you going to fuck me? It has been a few days….”

“No baby, just a blow job.”

I fall to my knees, nice work clothes on. I lick and move and work until I hear Dana walk in, her clothing dropping to the ground around me.

She moves to straddle him, hovering over my head. I hold his dick with my right hand, and twist my body so my face is between her legs. I use my tongue on her, before placing my left hand on her big bottom to encourage her to fully sit on his dick. I don’t let go dick until she’s fully on.

I suckle her nipples until she’s coming on him, then quietly excuse myself and drive back to work.

[beludandi]

#fantasy?

[beludandi]

This time not so good...

@bcindc is meeting up with another lady today, and due to my Responsibilities we haven't seen each other in 3 days. And this one sucks. Hard. Bad enough I've already said we won't ever do this again. Bad enough where I'm having bad dreams and I can't separate what happened in my dream from what he's told me. Bad enough where I am even torn on wanting to see him after.

So I know that without getting the sexy part of the dynamic, it doesn't work for me. And realistically I don't believe in doing this just for his enjoyment locally (that's what free passes while on travel are for). So now have to figure out my way through the muddle - I'm super off about this one to the point of tearing up.

And in my dream I wouldn't even have sex with him 30 mins prior to meeting her, and his schlong had magically doubled in length. I just kinda said you need to leave and don't bother coming back tonight. And thus my sleep is now ruined as well.

[your-babygirl-16]

[obedience-is-the-law]

No doubt

[ride-my-face-and-cum]

Oh if she hasn’t tingled at the thought she damn well should

[sloptown]

Yep..

[greedyagain]

It’s @sonorablue

[beludandi]

@greedyagain I am surprised to see you didn't include @curiositykilledthecuckquean here. Your posts back and forth get me chuckling.