Ben Windsor.

Ben Windsor 💼 Editor for Vogue International 💼 bisexual, divorced, father of deaf daughter. Currently single. Male Dominatrix with Dungeon INDIE RP- SEMI EXCLUSIVE- SEE RULES.

[purplebuddhaquotes]

Life is too short to spend it at war with yourself.

(via purplebuddhaquotes)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Every one says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something to forgive

C.S. Lewis

[purplebuddhaquotes]

I realize, for the first time, how very lonely I’ve been, and how comforting the presence of another human being can be.

(via purplebuddhaquotes)

[purplebuddhaquotes]

[purplebuddhaquotes]

I love kissing. If I could kiss all day, I would. I can’t stop thinking about kissing. I like kissing more than sex because there’s no end to it. You can kiss forever. You can kiss yourself into oblivion. You can kiss all over the body. You can kiss yourself to sleep. And when you wake up, you can’t stop thinking about kissing. Dammit, I can’t get anything done because I’m so busy thinking about kissing. Kissing is madness! But it’s absolute paradise, if you can find a good kisser.

Sufjan Stevens (via purplebuddhaquotes)

[defineyourgrind]

[roleplaymemed]

Finish in my ask: ‘You’re like a...’

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

What are the Qualities of a Great Friend?

1. They tackle problems with you. A true friend is someone who can see through your smile and can tell when you’re in pain by the look in your eyes. They totally accept you and will always be there.

2. They give, and don’t just take, from the relationship. A good relationship is a negotiated one. It’s based on give and take – and thinking of each other.

3. They make time for each other. True friends always value the time they spend together; and though their lives are busy, they make time to stay in touch.

4. They communicate well. This is at the heart of any good relationship. It means that both the people are open and real so problems don’t get buried - but are dealt with right away.

5. They accept other people unconditionally. True friends accept each other as they are – warts and all. They are free to be themselves, and are free to change and grow. They don’t control each other, or judge and criticise.

6. They believe in each other. A true friend feels your passion and can visualise your dream. They believe that you can do it, and will cheer you the whole way.

7. They listen carefully, and aren’t quick to give advice. We don’t need advice; we simply want a listening ear. That is, someone we can vent to, and then move on with life.

8. They are loyal and dependable. Your word is your bond when you’re a trusted, faithful friend. You never share a secret or breach that sense of trust.

[benedictwindsor]

What does your ex husband do and do you talk at all?

We talk through nannies and assistant’s in regards to our co-parenting of our daughter Elizabeth, But as for contact with each other, None at all. 

He is an actor.

[benedictwindsor]

Would you ever get back with your husband?

 You must be new here.   I never left him…My husband left me. He doesn’t want me and feels he is better off with someone else. So it is irrelevant. I believe that marriage is for life. You are a team and you are bonded by love till you die.  I loved him more then you could possibly fathom and I always saw how talented he was. When things get tough you wether the storm together, he didn't agree. I took my marriage very seriously and I will always love him, but I will always regret being naive enough not to notice the signs. My divorce was incredibly painful for me and if it hadn’t been for my friends and family and daughter, who knows where I would be right now. I hit rock bottom but I patched myself back up and got on with things. 

[henrycavilledits]

Tom Cruise talking about Henry’s fighting scene “I love this….when he does this (reloading biceps gesture), that’s just awesome. Reloading his biceps, that was awesome.” 

[benedictwindsor]

would you ever marry again?

Not right now but maybe in the future. I am still getting over my ex and although I have moved back to London and got a group of people who now love me and care for me. I don’t think I could put myself through another divorce. It's heartbreaking and painful and I almost lost my self-confidence. 

[benedictwindsor]

favourite place on earth?

London. It's my home. It's elegant and classical, but eclectic and fun. It has nothing but great memories for me, a few painful ones but mainly a good one. 

[purplebuddhaquotes]

I like people who dream or talk to themselves interminably; I like them, for they are double. They are here and elsewhere.

Albert Camus (via purplebuddhaquotes)

[defineyourgrind]

[benedictwindsor]

ASK ME ANYTHING IS OPEN  FOR 24 HOURS! I WILL ANSWER ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING!

[benedictwindsor]

Late night visit. Rusty & Ben.

Ben hadn't been in town for a few months as he had been traveling abroad for work. He finally got back into town and was told by his brother that Rusty was now living at her own place. Ben really wanted to see her but couldn't tell his brother that, so while his brother was out of the room, Ben took a screenshot on his phone of her address. He made his excuses of jetlag and told his brother he was heading back to his hotel for some much needed rest. 

Once in the car, he typed her address into the sat nav and headed her way. After he parked he walked up to the door and knocked. “Hey, it's me.. Ben... Umm.. I just wanted to say hi.” He waited for her to answer the door and smiled. “Hi.”