Lê-se Dêjota

she/her 24yo

[sappho-of-suburbia]

not everything always has to have a sub/dom or top/bottom dynamic btw, despite what the internet tells you

sometimes you can just bury yourself into her cunt, lose yourself completely, obediently following her whispered requests because all you want is to make her feel good, meanwhile she's giving herself over to you completely, gifting you her softness and vulnerability, melting into you

what I'm saying is: smash the binary

[butchonarock]

I want to submit to a femme whole heartedly. I want to follow her to the ends of the earth and protect her the way a dog protects its owner. I want to open her doors and polish her shoes. I want her to tell me how to please her and I want to abide completely.

Where ever she goes I will follow.

[butterflyfemmme-deactivated2025]

I want butch femme porn, and I don’t mean like just the fucking, I want the build up, I want the performance and the lingering stares. I want the soft giggles and the little touches, a femmes nails brushing over the butches’s shoulder. The silence filled with only desire. I want the animalistic undressing, kissing down their body and hitched breath. I long to see a depiction of our sexuality centred to the reality of lesbianism. Strap slips out. We laugh, we kiss a lot, we stumble a bit (it’s not easy getting into those positions) I just want *realistic* butch femme porn.

[switchblade-angelic]

I’m CRAVING to eat pussy.

My mouth feels the need to drool and salivate over someone’s perfect pussy, to use the flat of my tongue to lick their slit and savor the surface wetness of their arousal, to bury my face in the softness of their flesh so I can get drunk on their scent.

I want to use my hands to spread their lips open so I can admire how beautiful their cunt is and how wet and drippy their needy hole is before I take a proper taste and I can hear the initial gasp that is followed by a gentle moan that will 100% make me so wet it’s embarrassing.

I want to get so drunk on their taste that I just keep licking and sucking and eating them out because I can’t get enough of how their hard clit feels against my tongue and it makes me moan into their cunt.

My hands just griping their hips or waist or tits or just holding their hands because I feel the NEED to be even more connected to them as I enjoy giving them the upmost pleasure.

I just, fuck, I really want to eat someone out.

[blushedfemme]

a butch doing that cute drunken excited overexplaining thing, so into whatever they’re telling me about that they don’t notice me unbuttoning their shirt, as i keep my eyes in theirs, nodding and going ‘mhm’ and ‘uh huh.’ they don’t notice until my hands slip under their t-shirt and slow across their stomach, around, up, to rake my nails into their shoulderblades. and they trail off mid-sentence, with a choked little whimper. i just giggle and start kissing their neck. murmur into their flushed skin that they gotta keep talking, i wanna hear the rest

[silver-lining-storms-deactivate]

Listen, I’m all for having perfect fantasies for sex where they’re very perfectly planned out, but sometimes I wish we focused more on the genuine sex experience because fuck some things are hot.

Like slipping out of them and needing to get guided back in, having to take my tcock out of their mouth to laugh at me stuttering when I'm praising/shaming them, taking breaks to breathe, having to stop to clean toys, giggling together at the silly noises bodies just make, etc. etc. etc. Like sure fantasies where everything goes perfectly right are hot, but when you add the realness of sex to them, they send me into orbit.

[aucprivt-deactivated20250404]

wish i could be a free use top. like yes, suddenly pull down my pants and take my cock into your mouth because you're bored, grab my hand and guide it into your cunt when i'm reading a book because you need something in you, tell me to go slow or fast while panting and i'll do as you say because it's my job, right? pull my dick out when we're out with friends and sit on it because there wasn't enough seats, grind against me and feel me grip your thigh as i try not to make any noise and listen the conversation going on, not even realizing another guy is taking my hand and taking my fingers into his mouth and sucking them, another bunny joining in by making me lay down on my back and sitting on my face, asking me to please eat him out and then i feel a pup humping on my shoe and hugging my leg and whining like the pathetic dog he is and i just let them. it's my purpose of service to pleasure them, right? who am i to deny such desperate behavior from my pretty pets?

[floralfemmes]

blows my mind that there are femmes that don't compliment their butches

you're telling me you don't butter them up to see them blush?? you don't make them feel like the most loved and cared for butch in the world?? you don't flatter them and cover them with kisses until they can't stop smiling?? weak

[butchdyk]

Butches. Touch yourself while eating your femme. She'll find it hot

[airspud]

i need to spoil a femme so bad... pay for her nails, make her dinner. surprise her with her stuffies and matching pajamas for us. buy her flowers, new books, clothes, shoes, anything she wants. and spend hours, days, lifetimes worshipping her body in every way possible

[selfmadeheathcliff]

It’s so strange to me when people try to portray butch4femme as a heteronormative dynamic.

Do they not know a butch will cook her femme a three course meal because butches are caretakers?

A femme will stand in front of her butch at the bar, acrylics bared like a lynx, ready to cut the throat of anyone who criticises her partner’s masculinity or questions their right to space.

A butch will spend quiet nights hunched over a laptop learning how to sew and then hunched over her femme’s favourite dress, fixing it as she sleeps?

A femme will take charge and tell her butch to lie down, go and have that shower, go and get that errand done, because she knows what her baby needs?

There is nothing heteronormative about butches and femmes seeing and validating each other in a way the world refuses to. There’s nothing wrong with butches and femmes slow dancing in the speakeasy they’ve created on the kitchen tiles, the only place that’s ever been created for people like them.

[daddys-loyal-sub]

[rosy-puppy]

make! your! sub! speak! positively! of! themselves! before! you! let! them! cum!

adjust language for pronoun, title, and pet name preferences as needed but things like

- “who’s my beautiful girl”

- “i am, i am”

- “you’re what?”

- “i’m your beautiful girl”

- “say it again, what are you?”

- “i’m - ah - a beautiful girl”

- “that’s right, beautiful girl. now be even prettier and cum for me.”

are everything, don’t let up on asking, repeat the phrase you want them to say often, and don’t let them cum until they’re kind to themselves. you can work as much teasing as you want into this, make them say it until they convince you they mean it, make them say all sorts of good things about themselves. the point is for your sub to associate loving themselves with the dopamine rush of their orgasm (i would not recommend doing this if you plan on ruining their orgasm, let this chemically play out all the way through for your sub), and this can be such a gift for dom’s too because you’re helping your sub see themselves the way you see them and making them more confident in themselves, especially as a creature of beauty, pleasure, and desire - not to mention the wonderful bonding opportunity this all can be for you both

tl;dr: take the praise kink to the next level by pulling an uno reverse card and making ur sub praise themselves

[clumsykami]

How to: Aftercare your Sub

Ideas and Tips

These tips may vary depending on what your sub likes/enjoys or doesnt like/enjoy.

Try taking these into consideration before anything else:

Always ask how they feel, does anything hurt?

Make sure they know they are safe and you care about them

Simply ask if they need anything, Reassurance? A glass of water? Cuddles?

Respect if your sub needs some space, doesn’t feel like talking, or just wants to sleep

After Care Ideas

• Holding/ Cuddling your sub

• Praising them: ex. ‘You were such a good girl’, ‘You did so well’

• Treating any wounds: ex. from spanking, rope burn, etc.

• Putting a cold/warm wet compress on any welts, cuts, or bruises

• Kissing any welts, cuts or bruises

• Running them a warm bubble bath

• Wrapping them into a warm fluffy blanket

• Massaging them

(w essential oils, sensitive skin lotions)

• Watching their favorite movies, shows

• Listening to their favorite music*

*preferably soft, calm music

• Giving them a treat they enjoy

• Carrying them where ever they might need to go

The Importance of Aftercare

Aftercare is not only very important but essential, for both vanilla and kinky sex.

Sub drop is how a sub might feel depression/anxiety or even considering their self worth after sex, especially BDSM/Hardcore Sex.

It is very important to be there for your sub as well as reassure them that they are safe, and you care for them.

This is also when you tend to any wounds that may have occurred during sex, like welts, bruises, cuts or rope burns.

DO NOT:

Immediately leave your sub alone or unattended to for an extended amount of time after sex! especially after hardcore/rough/bdsm sex scenes.

Leave any wounds received by the sub unattended to

Try to jump into some unrelated activities THAT CAN WAIT, without proper after care; ex. asking them to do chores, get ready to go grocery shopping.

Failure to comply with essential aftercare risks the trust you and your sub share and your subs mental security after sex,

especially after Hardcore/BDSM/Rough Scenes; ex. Rape Play, Bondage, Spanking, Anal Play and many more.

[crying--is--okay]

[gentledom089]

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[cloverzbandit]

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[sunflowerseedsandscience]

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