I’m going to be so for real right now, if you want to date a butch person, a they/them masculine individual, a trans masc person, a trans man, basically anyone who is gorgeous and stunning and has a masculinity crafted by the gods…do not fucking compare them to cis men all of the time or at all. Do not constantly tell them about your ex cis man boyfriends. Do not ask them when they are going to get the “surgeries” to be “like” your ex cis man boyfriends. Do not relegate them to a lesser status in your life (a secret, a shame) than your cis man boyfriends.
If you cannot love GNC masculine people for exactly who they are and with pride, don’t come near us. You are not a safe partner. Stick with the cis men you so adore (which is allowed btw!)















