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A 36 anni compro ancora intimo audace ma senza nessuno a cui mostrarlo.

E anche quando qualcuno c’era, non lo vedeva perché era più importante inscenare un litigio che fare l’amore

Io e i miei completini siamo pieni di polvere.

“I’m happy sometimes. When I’m feeling loved, you know? When I walk home and my husband is there and he’s so happy to see me. I was really hesitant about getting married. My parents had a bad marriage. So my husband had to talk me into it. And I mean, he had to really push. But it’s been 40 years, and it gets better all the time. Because you grow closer together when you go through things. You understand each other more. I’ll tell you some basic things about him. He’s very, very bright. He’s always reading. He’s always learning new things and he loves to share them with me. He gets really happy when I’m happy. That’s really a big deal, you know? I mean; it really makes him happy. When I’m happy. You can see it. Just the way he looks at me. Other people can see it, but I can certainly see it. And I can feel it. He really cares, you know? That’s not something you can just put on. I’ll give you an example. It was very hard for me to get pregnant. And when our son Brian was born, he was less than three pounds. Went down to two and a half pounds. And Paul was at the hospital every day. By my side the whole time. Every single moment; it was just like absolutely unbelievable. I didn’t have to ask him: can you be there? He was just there. Because he cared. Not everyone has that. I’m really very fortunate. I have someone who cares. What more could you want, you know?”

monamoni

maneth985

I love how the horse approached for the cat to hop in

Ti ricordi? Ero un po' diversa ma gli occhi son gli stessi. C'è una cosa che capita a tutti ed è la vita. La vita è normalità e la normalità è di tutti. Anche quello che è successo a me. Ero impegnata a vivere i miei 32 anni, vivevo la mia relazione, vivevo il mio lavoro, lo studio. Poi ho iniziato a vivere anche il cancro. Carcinoma infiltrate her2 positivo che, insieme al triplo negativo, è il carcinoma più aggressivo che può colpire una donna (ma anche un uomo). Per curarlo ci vogliono le chemio. Epirubicina e ciclofosfamide prima, trastuzumab e paclitaxel poi. 4 cicli del primo cocktail, 18 del secondo, 12 del terzo. Protocollo standard per quelle che hanno la fortuna, come me, di averlo scoperto in tempo. Ho 33 anni, non vivo più la mia relazione andata in frantumi durante il mio percorso oncologico, vivo il mio lavoro saltuariamente, vivo sempre la mia vita, più intensa e più pensierosa di prima. Questa, signori, è la normalità e la normalità è di tutti, non sentitevi invincibili perché non guarda in faccia al numero che segna la vostra esistenza. Non abbiate paura perché non è nulla che non si possa sopportare.

#prevenzione #cancro #me

E se fossimo talmente tanto assuefatti dal finto da non riuscire più ad apprezzare il vero?

ljutefisk

destroymylife

lachill0na

Quella volta che ho fatto la finta ricca e finta figa in un hotel 5stelle lusso.

benzinaocenere

E niente, mi annoio.

benzinaocenere

E poi qui puzza di bufale, la cosa mi sta portando nausea.

E niente, mi annoio.

archatlas

Cats + Architecture

Cats just don’t care. They don’t care if you bought them gourmet food. They don’t care if you got them customized furniture or luxury cardboard boxes, and they definitely don’t care if they are barging into an architectural photo shoot (although, we do think it’s their way of being the center of attention).

Identified from the top:

Moenda’s House Felipe Rodrigues

The Screen DMOA architects

Habitus Boatsheds Strachan Group Architects + Rachael Rush

Open Source House studiolada architects

Fuzzy House SO

House for Booklovers and Cats BFDO Architects

Casa 50m2 OBBA

Nionohama Apartment House Renovation ALTS Design Office

Town House in Antwerp Sculp[IT]

Gwang-Gyeong-Won / Kang-il Lim + Eunmi Kim

archatlas

Casa Bruma by Fernanda Canales

When the clients approached architect Fernanda Canales to design their weekend home near Mexico City, the complexity of the project soon became apparent. Without removing any trees, Fernanda Canales needed to find a solution to build the private retreat around existing vegetation. Made in a collaboration with architect Claudia Rodríguez, Casa Bruma features nine pavilions with an inner courtyard. Every structure seems to seamlessly fit into the landscape, but the volumes have a specific orientation and design that solves several issues. The architects designed the complex with a minimalist look while also taking into account the specific climate conditions of the area.