Day three of finding my purpose
A series where I take one step every day in the direction of my soul in order to find my purpose. Many motivational speakers and spiritual talks are fast and furious in telling us how we need to be disciplined, motivated, and stop at nothing to achieve our dreams, goals, and desires. Success stories are filled with rock bottom encounters and building their way to the top with pure grit and determination. I think this is inspirational and good encouragement for those who are wanting to begin up that ladder to success. The problem is, in the midst of discipline, the world around us can become foggy, and anything outside of our tunnel vision of dreams becomes a waste of time for the dreamer.
In my pursuit of finding my purpose, I don’t want to World around me to become misty. I don’t want to fight for it so hard that I lose touch with myself on the way. Therefore, I will be incorporating as much fun and experience into this journey as possible. I am a child at heart, and fun is my love language. The closer I remain towards that version of me, the quicker I will find what I am looking for.
Why? Because experiences bring us closer to who we are at our core. The essence of us is pure love, from a pure pool of consciousness. Having fun connects us to that love. When we are having fun, our thoughts become back ground noise and our hearts take centre stage. When we are playful, We strengthen that cord of connection with our soul. Having fun and creating new memories means that we are in the present moment. And the present is the only place that you can locate dimensions deeper than the third. Having fun is who we are, it’s what we are meant for as human beings.
If you are ever feeling scared, alone, sad, unworthy; then do something fun. Play, knit, walk, dance, laugh, crochet, bake, make, cook, clean, run, sing, watch, see. Different things spark a feeling of joy in different people. What’s chaotic and fun for one person might be boring and dull for another. So do something fun for you.
So, it’s day three of finding my purpose and I ticked rock climbing off my 2023 fun list, and here is what I learned about having fun. When we prioritise fun, we build trust with not only ourselves but with the people around us. When we try something new and put ourselves out there, we must rely on our friends to push us and help us. Ultimately strengthening connections. When we put fun in our diary, alongside meetings and appointments, we anchor ourselves into the present moment, we build on relationships, but most importantly… we feel the fear and do it anyway. We dive into the arms of fear and teach our bodies growth and evolution. So if you get one takeaway from this, it’s to schedule in some fun in your life.














