Ludivine,

25. I love mozzarella; am more often than not trying to pretend I'm not French; own too many candles. She/her. #Ravenclaw

[bough-keeper]

dismantle the idea that you should love your body because "it works". bodies that don't work deserve love too. disabled and chronically ill bodies are just as deserving of love as abled bodies.

[pleckthaniel]

Favorite genre of post

[kimbapisnotsushi]

ACTUALLY it fucks me up soooo bad that like. nekomata is FROM miyagi. like. his connection to miyagi isn't just one out of nostalgia for an old friend it's because he lived there and loved there and called it home it's the fact that he knows the same miyagi ukai does the fact that he wasn't there to watch it change and grow but ukai did it all just makes my heart ACHE because, yeah, he's old now and he lives and breathes tokyo but i bet there were days he used to be so homesick it made him sleepless there were days the skyscrapers of the big city weighed him down like stone there were days when the hole in his heart where the mountains used to beat loud and proud felt so empty and wide and threatened to swallow him whole and the only connection he had left was when ukai NEVER gave up on him and they promised to find each other and defeat each other and god nekoma has always BEEN about connections it's been that way since the BEGINNING it's been that way since nekomata left the small towns shadowed by the mountains behind because he could not, even for a moment, forget the place that forged his blood and bone

[justablah56]

hey hey you there. yes you. you look like you could use a lil dragon. so here you go :)

He's coming to give you good vibes :)

(yes I drew this based off that one cat meme)

[jupiter-suggestion]

i want to be inconvenienced by you. i want to wait for you, i want to hold your things while you do something else, i want to make adjustments to my plans to make space for you. someone at your side who takes up no space and has no needs of their own is not a person, but a shadow. i don’t want a shadow, i want you. i want my life to be altered by your presence in it. please, inconvenience me.

[pikogofret]

if toxic, why sound endearing?

[flagellant]

do you seriously consider someone saying “my love for you is unconditional and based in the trust that we are permitted to need and want the other in small everyday ways; never feel ashamed to ask me for help or for being a part of my life”

as being toxic?

[the-seelie-court-official]

Having needs and expressing them is good actually, and it’s tragic that people are so willing to swallow themselves so as to not be a “burden” on each other. My girlfriend and I lend each other our metaphorical spoons all the time. That’s not toxic, that an honest relationship, where we ask for help when we want it- not just need it. When we want it.

May the people who think taking up space is toxic or co-dependent find healing. Because y'all… it ain’t good to think that way. You have needs. I hope you feel safe enough to stop hiding them one day

[deathgasmic]

“are you okay” no bro i constantly feel like i am too much but simultaneously not enough

[arshynn-deactivated20230404]

“I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers” - Anne of Green Gables.

[va1-kyrie]

[self-absorbed-pretty-boy]

it's so bitter to watch how many people are only now realising that the censorship of "morally bad" things will never stop at just the things they personally find repulsive. the problem with morals is that they're not a fixed norm that everyone agrees on and that they're a very easy argument to be used by bigots against marginalised groups. that's why it's dangerous to call for censorship on moral grounds - whose morals exactly?

all you people campaigning for a boycott of ao3, wanting them to censor "bad" content, i am begging you to wake the fuck up and understand that for many people "bad" things include queer people's existence, any form of sexual content, minority-representation and criticism of the government.

don't open the door for them.

[ispyspookymansion]

someone who likes the same media as you in a way you disagree with is more annoying than someone who hates that piece of media

[visit-ba-sing-se]

i hate you private jets i hate you bitcoin i hate you cars that go 200 mph i hate you golf parks i hate you yachts i hate you huge mansions with a pool i hate you luxery resorts i hate you exessive wealth causally killing the planet and using up ressources we all need

[visit-ba-sing-se]

“okay but it’s their money! They can decide how to spend it!” Yeah okay but it’s our atmosphere! and water! and no amount of wealth should give you free reign over that!

[bananafishiguro]

the thing about kageyama is that he was never mean. and the show works really hard to make it clear that he was never malicious or mean spirited. and so he doesn’t have to have a redemption arc, his character arc becomes centered around understanding, trust, and love. he isn’t learning how to be kind, he’s always been kind. he is learning how to see other people and learning how to know other people. he always loved volleyball but now he loves his team. and he really really loves hinata

[what-even-is-thiss]

I know that cis men are capable of being great people which is why it’s so frustrating when they suck. Your gender isn’t inherently bad at doing the dishes. You’re just a thoroughly unpleasant person.

[what-even-is-thiss]

When I started taking T I didn’t magically forget how to use a broom, which my single dad taught me how to use. There’s nothing about testosterone or having male bits that makes your brain incapable of comprehending super duper complicated concepts such as boiling water or not being sexist. You’re an adult. Put the curry in the glass container, change your son’s diaper, and don’t harass your waitress. It’s not that complicated.

[what-even-is-thiss]

It also frustrates me when I hear women say stuff like “You know how men are” no, I don’t actually. I know how your man is being right now and you don’t deserve to have to put up with that kind of behavior. If your man fakes incompetence when doing the dishes, leave his ass. There are plenty of men who don’t do that.

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

the worst part of my job (standing around at college orientations being Visibly Queer) is when parents nervously alter their entire walking trajectory to stay out of range as if I’m going to bite them and pass on my infectious homosexuality.

this is wildly eclipsed by the best part of my job, parents who are such wildly enthusiastic allies that their children seem a little embarrassed about it. I’m talking parents to eagerly point out my little rainbow-draped table and urge their kids to come over, parents who excitedly pick through my button box offering up the relevant pride flags and pronouns to their kids, parents who have detailed questions about harassment policies and gender affirming care while their kids are trying to wander away, parents who rush over with open arms and obvious glee on their faces knowing there’s a space on campus dedicated to keeping their kids safe.

the ferocity with which these parents love and affirm their queer kids is so humbling and wonderful.

[thenatsdorf]

Cheetah calls for his sibling. (via)

[nokhushionlygam-deactivated2023]

who called it emotional baggage and not griefcase

[mrspider-deactivated20221213]

the weirdest thing about nonbinaryism is that people will get told they dont ‘look nonbinary’ because theyre just wearing plainclothes and dressed comfortably. instead of like. idk gothic eyeliner or fangs or a cape or flowing, long, gorgeous hair,

[mrspider-deactivated20221213]

i got distracted. anyway why did we make nonbinary the third gender where everyones supposed to be sexier. its funny and like in theory correct but what about the normal people. what about the sweatpant wearears

[neomedievalist]

sorry for adding a comment on your post but literally this. i want nonbinary to be boring. i want it to be mundane. i dont want people to look at me and go wohhh so androgynous swag. i just want people to go oh thats a person. stop elevating us higher thn others bc thats just othering us more. can we support nonbinary people who dont want to be special hot and sexy tiktok stars or whatever

[mrspider-deactivated20221213]

actually thank you you made me realize this was because ive been on tiktok too much

[holytrohmanempire]

Also we should perhaps let nonbinary people be fat