System Fuckery

★ ℕ𝕠𝕠𝕕𝕝𝕖 ☆ 𝒯𝒶𝑒𝓂𝒾𝓃 ★ 𝕭𝕭 ☆ William ★ ρнєηєχ ☆ 𝓢𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓵𝓸𝓬𝓴 ★ ᴛᴏʙɪ ☆ ค๒๒ץ ★ Måkåwï ☆ XIΛΉ ★ (Jesper???) ☆EVERYTHING IS QUEUED EXCEPT PERSONAL TXT POSTS ☆

[sodomymcscurvylegs]

What even IS heterosexual pride? Scheduled quiet sex on Tuesday nights? Having kids you have no intention of being a good parent to? Bad fashion choices?

[cloudfreed]

his and hers bathroom towel sets

[sodomymcscurvylegs]

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[gryffon]

was driving with my girlfriend and spotted a vulture with a broken wing standing on the side of the road. there was an animal hospital nearby with a wildlife unit so we pulled over and picked it up and drove it to tufts. i think its got a good chance at survival and it feels good to have been able to make the call and help an injured wild animal out

[gryffon]

the funniest part of this was showing up at the Tufts emergency room with all these average folks with their dogs sitting politely on leashes in the waiting room and us being two very sweaty, disheveled haggy dykes who are bursting in and nearly running up to the desk holding a vulture in nothing but our bare hands and the look of extreme shock and horror on everybody’s face

[atomic-darth]

Gay culture is bursting into an animal clinic looking to get medical treatment for a carrion bird

[animallovingvegan]

When your friends choose the restaurant and you’re the only vegan

[runningg-vegan]

This speaks to me

[beyondwawia-blog]

Im so ashamed of everything I want it all to go away but theres nothing I can do I cant go back in time and change the past. I have to live with all of this forever let me escape from myself let me end this please

[beyondwawia-blog]

MIKU STOP BEING A PICKY BITCH EVERYTIME I GIVE YOU A GIFT YOU DONT LIKE IT IM EVEN FOLLOWING A GUIDE AND YOURE STILL BEING A CUNT

[wellbutrinboy]

what up everybody its ya boy

depression

[beyondwawia-blog]

I hate that dysphoria worsens during summer. Im glad that Will more often than not sees himself completly different than what we actually look like because holy fuck the few occasions he remembered…. Man I think his dysphorias even worse than Taemins. Poor Will please feel better.

[beyondwawia-blog]

me, talking about my trauma: haha yeah it was no big deal tho i don’t really care it’s whatever honestly

somebody: validates my trauma and says i shouldn’t have had to go through that

me, suddenly crying: huh. weird

[lierdumoa]

To my friends on the spectrum, let me explain to you an unspoken social rule that possibly nobody has ever explained to you before

If a neurotypical asks you, “What game are you playing?” they’re not asking you to describe the game.

They’re asking you if they can play too.

If a neurotypical asks you, “What are you watching?” they’re not asking you to explain the plot of the movie/tv show to them.

They’re asking if they can watch it with you.

.

When neurotypicals ask you “What are you doing?” 

What you think they’re asking: “Please explain to me what you are doing.” 

What they’re actually asking:  “Can I join you?”

Now here’s the really fucked up part. If you start explaining to them what you’re doing? They will interpret that as a rejection. 

What you think you’re saying: [the answer to their question]

What they think you’re saying: This is an elite and exclusive activity for a level 5 friend and you are a level 1 acquaintance. You are not qualified to join me because you don’t know all this stuff. Go away.

.

This is why neurotypicals think you’re being cold and antisocial.

IT’S ALL A HORRIBLE MISCOMMUNICATION.

[bonehandledknife]

I didn’t realize, even thought it took me almost three decades to learn this, that this was such a paradigm changing realization until we had our conversation today.

But it really really is. One of the most bewildering realizations I’ve had is most people don’t talk to learn things unless its related to work or directly towards their own hobbies, all the words and questions are bonding questions if done socially. They are “lets make friends” questions.

So if I answer their question without an opportunity for the person asking the question to give a response or to join in somehow, the asker feels alienated and starts shutting down.

Example: what are you reading?

True answer but not what they’re looking for: Title of book

Best answer for social scenarios where I want to retain/create friendship: This book is about x and y but it has z that i know u have an interest in too.

Example: what are you doing?

True answer but not: drawing

Best answer for friends: I’m drawing but would u like company while I’m working?

And sometimes frankly I’m not in a headspace where I can process people so the answer is something like, “I would like to do something in a day or later, do you want to plan something?”

Tldr: communication is wierd

[survivablyso]

HOLY

SHIT

that explains so fucking much thank you

(why the fuck do neurotypicals never just day what they mean ie hey this show looks cool mind if I join you)

[bonehandledknife]

Further annoying?

They don’t realize that’s what they’re asking and they just feel rejected and go away. So you can’t even ask them what you did wrong because they can’t even put a finger on why they feel the way they do they just know you made them feel bad for some undefined reason.

[beyondwawia-blog]

Oh.

[beyondwawia-blog]

Fools: Clearly hanzo and genji's dragons are using some sort of technology to project a mystical beast

Me, a true overwatch lore xpert: The dragons are their stands as the shimadas are descendents of the Joe star family. They even have the trademark Jojo bara tiddies

[byfe-deactivated20190401]

hanzo enthusiasts riddle me this: does hanzo have those dragon sideburns because of his dragons and he cant help it, do the dragons have it because he has it, or does he fucking style his sideburns with gel every morning being like “fuck yeah dragons are awesome” 

[dilfosaur]

i’m so goshdarn soft

[jovan]

me flirting: I don’t want you to die

[ponygem-deactivated20170707]

the what? gay?

[beyondwawia-blog]

I'm starting to feel that summer time sadness coming on. The beautiful sunlight should make me feel happy but instead it reminds me of how im wasting my time and potential, that I'll never get anywhere never have anyone who cares and even if I did I still wouldn't be happy. Some if it I wouldn't even know how to explain. I feel like I was born in the wrong place at the wrong time. There must be someone or something waiting for me somewhere so far away and out of reach.

[corned-beef-hash-deactivated201]

yesterday i went to a gay bar for the first time, and I met two people. The first was a man well into his 70′s, who had only come out since his wife died. Even though he could barely walk, he knew every single person at the bar, and each one came over for a hug and to chat. The second was a transgender woman who, after two children and three grandchildren, had finally decided to live as herself. She was wearing heels and leather pants and makeup, and she was absolutely beautiful. she knew she was as well, and she was so proud and excited when people walked by and said “hey girl” without even thinking about it. point i’m trying to make is, it’s never too late to come out

[stism]

Fire stimboard ~

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