we push the boundaries of shipping here

A blog to show support for ALL ships within the Big Hero fandom - or at least, the right for others to ship what they want without being condemed. Hate hurts others and while we may not be able to stop it, it's important enough to remind others that it's okay, no matter what they ship.

[crabbyyy]

*kicks down door, flips tables, and smashes plates* HELLO FRIEND I AM HERE TO TELL YOU THAT I LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT AND WHO OR WHAT YOU SHIP WILL NEVER DICTATE HOW I FEEL ABOUT YOU AND IF ANYONE DECIDES TO DEMEAN OR DEVALUE YOU FOR THOSE REASONS THEN FUCK THEM WITH A FIFTEEN-FOOT TALL SAGUARO BUT I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF OKAY *wraps you in blankets, gives you hot choco, and drowns you in all the happy and wonderful things before leaving quietly forty-eight hours later*

[crabbyyy]

all right, listen up, bh6 fandom you may not see it or you probably haven’t heard, but people are leaving or considering to leave a fandom because people are sending them hate over a ship i repeat, PEOPLE ARE LEAVING BECAUSE SOME ANONS DON’T KNOW HOW TO HOLD THEIR FUCKING TONGUES AND DECIDED TO SEND HATE TOWARDS OTHERS. AND AGAIN I FUCKING REPEAT, ANONS DECIDED TO REVEAL HOW MATURE THEY REALLY ARE (READ: EXPERIENCING REGRESSION IN MATURITY) BY SENDING OTHER PEOPLE HATE OVER. A. FUCKING. SHIP. YOU KNOW WHAT I WANT? SPEAK OVER ALL THIS HATE. LET THE POSITIVITY FLOW. DROWN OUT ALL THE HATE WITH ALL THE FLUFF AND NICE THINGS. LET THESE ANONS KNOW THAT WHILE THEY ARE TERRIBLY IMMATURE AND TACTLESS FOR SENDING HATE TO ANYONE FOR A FUCKING SHIP, LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU GIVE ZERO DIVIDED BY ZERO FUCKS AND YOU’RE STILL GOING TO SHIP THE THING. and of course, I can’t forget about the anons who sent hate. congrats, you guys. in your crusade to take a minute of your life to send hate to people with a ship you abhor, you have not only caused them to leave the fandom, some of them may be going through something in real life and you have caused their mood or self-esteem to go down as well. if i found out that these guys you’ve driven out had sunk back into depression or the likes of that, i will seriously never forgive any of you for that. as someone who’s suffering from anxiety issues, i wanna tell you that you’re not fucking helping and sending someone anon hate like that is tactless and horrible and you are tactless and horrible and you need to reconsider your life choices. and if you were ever sent hate over a ship, i just want you to know that I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND YOU ARE A WONDERFUL PERSON AND GOSH LET ME LOVE YOU AND TELL YOU THAT YOU WILL BE ALL RIGHT, OKAY. THERE, THERE. I LOVE YOU A LOT AND NOTHING ANYONE SAYS, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WILL CHANGE MY OPINION OF YOU. YOU ARE PRECIOUS AND YOU DESERVE ALL THE WONDERFUL AND PRECIOUS THINGS IN THE WORLD. thus, this has been a public service announcement from me to all of you.

[hxneylemonarchive]

PSA

sending hate to Hidashi shippers makes you a really big piece of shit :)

PSA

sending hate to anyone makes you a really big piece of shit :)

[bh6shippingpositivity]

Hate and troll blogs are dumb.

You know what isn't? You and what you choice to ship, your choices are important. I want you to be positive about what you like and no matter what you shouldn't feel guilty for liking something, for enjoying something. Never should you ever feel that way.

I want you to think about your ship, imagine them doing cute things, imagine them spending time together and enjoying it, imagine them being happy, sad, angry, whatever you want. That's your decision.

Make headcanons, make art, write stories, just keep it to yourself if you want. Do whatever you want because it's your choice. Just make sure that you're happy while doing it because that's what you deserve. 

Please be happy and healthy.

[bh6shippingpositivity]

An example of constant hate that I've noticed throughout the fandom is that hate which is directed at the two users who started shipping among their muses because they found chemistry. A very common thing to occur for roleplay blogs. Their ship is seen as a bit unconventional and that has inspired hate, that is unfair. 

It felt needed to be addressed because these two users are some of the kindest and most talented people I have had the privilege of interacting with on occasion and talking to. 

tadashii-hamada, professor-callaghan - you two are very kind. It's something I've seen and experienced and even when you two are being bombarded by the hate of your ship, you guys remain positive and that is very admirable. Thank you so much. It's a bit odd to thank you perhaps, but you've done so much for me personally by your response and I'm sure that others have been influenced because of it too. 

You are very sweet and talented people, both in your respective arts whether it be writing or drawing. You have turned an unlikely ship and character on its head and through your roleplays, through your writing, headcanons, and art - you have struck a difference. Thank you for producing your stuff and done what you've loved even through the face of adversity and the constant hate you've been getting. Neither of you have deserved it, you've been amiable and kind, thank you. Honestly just thank you. 

Please keep being the good people you are and continue on with what you love. 

[bh6shippingpositivity]

Honestly this has been a long time coming. The amount to which this fact pains me is astounding. Hating on ships have officially people away from what they love, away from the fandom, away from a stable state of mind because the constant bombardment of hate they receive stresses them out, hurts them, and makes it very difficult for some people to go on. Having been exposed to this, people are actually leaving and not anyone should feel good about that. 

Preventing hate is impossible, there's only so much you can do. Block people, ignore and blacklist negative posts, and turn off anon if you're being harassed, however the idea that people are disgusted and hate your ship enough to send you constant stream of bullshit is still stressful and hurtful. 

But let me tell you something. You are all strong and amazing people, all of you who have had your OTP's dumped on or you personally have been accused of anything derogatory - please believe me when I say that the type of people who go anonymously and perpetuate hate are not worth it. And it's very easy to say that and I understand completely that even with that as your chant, it's hard. But what you really need to understand is even when you're facing adversity, you aren't the only one. There are people who will be there for, especially in this community. There are good people in the Big Hero 6 fandom.

If you ever need to have a talk through or need support, come to this blog and you will receive it readily. We are here to help now and the intent of ours to counteract the hate with support. It doesn't matter what you ship, what matters to us is that you all who have experienced this harassment are okay. We want you to be okay and happy and feel safe liking what you like, because you deserve that.

You're all beautiful people and don't deserve this - will there still be hate? Yes as mentioned before there is a certain futility in telling others to stop hating, but what we and others can do is reassure and be there for people who are experimenting the terrible minority in the fandom.

Be respectful, show support, and just if you are at all worried about anyone, talk to them and make the effort. Or tell us, we will handle it. 

Remember, you deserve your happiness and your joy as you get involved in this fandom. You deserve that and no matter what anyone says, trust that it's true. You are loved and appreciated by the runners of this blog - even if we're strangers. Please be safe and if anything ever gets overwhelming, take time for yourself and relax. You deserve that.