Ares

Ares. illinois. he/him, 25 (4/20)💕 🌈 jjba, mha, yakuza, cyberpunk, skyrim, ofmd, the mcelroy brothers, and shitposts.✨please don’t be afraid to message me! 💘✨TERFS DNI

[bigfootmademegay]

Hii! I’m Ares/Adonis. he/him pronouns only please. my T-date is 4/01/23 ❣️ 25 y/o, i’m a taurus (my birthday is 4/20) 😋 poly+partnered and pansexual, and open 💖

terfs, transmed/truscum, detrans DNI. if you’re racist, homophobic, etc DNI i won’t be nice. also MINORS DNI!!

I love meeting new people and making new friends so if you’re a chill person, trans ppl especially, please interact 💖

side blogs of mine you may want to follow:

jjba only blog @jotarokusho

majima love/yakuza posts @majimamademegay

if ur here from my hornyposting blog u know, otherwise, ask! 😜

[schpog-art]

Fem presenting Yami and Yugi just because 🔥  10 year old me would be proud

[alicesoinions]

[shortnervouswreck]

I finished the game

[wizardnaturalist]

a book should be $5 a little drink should be $2 and museum access should be free and all hours

[girlballs]

If onion and garlic were girls, I would let them frot inside my mouth.

[bigfootmademegay]

haven’t posted face pics in a min, been feeling good tho >:3

[hugsohugs]

ok i did it. image for people who like defending caine but also want to make it clear that they Understand that He Did Bad Things. feel free to use, no credit required. enjoy

[hugsohugs]

@forestlich LOL ok sure, evil version just for you

[yorickless]

and so what if I do? it's a nice room

[chamiryokuroi]

MEXICO WIN!!! FUCK AI!!!

[lastoneout]

[k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl]

cis people can never just apologise for missgendering you they always gotta say some shit like "oh sorry i wasn't even thinking" like admitting that it takes concious effort to see me as a woman is going to make me feel better

[bigfootmademegay]

and when they do apologize, t almost always has to be some big performative ally show because they can’t even fathom apologizing to you quietly 1on1 in a meaningful manner 😭

i had a coworker who always made a huge deal of apologizing for misgendering me (constantly, she never even tried not to, just apologies after) and in doing so outed me to customers constantly, because god forbid you apologize privately. i remember a night where i’m behind the (entirely packed with customers) bar helping, and she comes up and says loudly” I’M SOOOOOO SORRY FOR MISGENDERING YOU BY THE WAY! I KNOW YOU AREN’T A GIRL, YOU ARE A GUY AND I TOTALLYYYYYY SEE YOU THAT WAY, I SUPPORT TRANS PPL”

like- if this is the only way you can apologize for misgendering me, i’d actually rather you just be transphobic and misgender me. take the performative allyship elsewhere

[snailkites]

2007 eBird gem

[jisuto]

[kidzbopdeathgrips]

i'm not sure if anyone else has ever fucked up the spelling of "jealous" more than dj khaled did that one time

[kidzbopdeathgrips]

genuinely impressive

[judgemyname-deactivated20181205]

[3hkowalski]

Just leaving a little star right here ⭐

you can claim it after ep8…

UPDATE: THIS AGED BADLY

[bigfootmademegay]

I remember having a long chat w/ my brother a few months ago, about ADHD + autism spectrum things.

in my mind, he has always been further on the autism side, he has a speech impediment, super smart, socially anxious, didn’t understand social cues, he used to pace around tables as a kid. he literally didn’t speak until age 5. it’s always been very clear to me something was up with him, but he was the golden child and our parents were the type that had a hard time acknowledging even my diagnosed ADHD.

anyways, we get to talking about how i felt i didn’t really need a formal diagnosis at this point in my adulthood because, what would it really help, i’m already diagnosed ADHD. i asked him, if he’d ever thought about having an assessment, since he doesn’t even have that ADHD diagnosis me and our other brother has.

y’all. this kid broke my heart. he said, he thinks it would break his dad (my stepdad) to find out he has autism. his dad already kinda broke at him having depression issues and needing counseling too because all of our mental health, me + my mom + other brothers are all wonky in one way or another, but he thinks it would really ruin him to know he has a neurodivergent kid…

what do you even say to that? it wasn’t, no he doesn’t think he’d benefit from it whats the point. it was some version of “i think my dad will go crazy and/or not love me” and thats been haunting me.

[bigfootmademegay]

i’ve been sick as fuck but i think the worst part has passed. feeling myself enough today to commit to a final bleach and i actually feel hot again