#tw misgendering

[homoeroticicarus]

Can I still teen bait even tho I'm 20? :(

[homoeroticicarus]

I want some sweaty man titties in my mouth while I get fucked deep as fuck for hours ty

I love having perverted sweaty sex and being all gooey and leak from my holes

(Can y'all tell I haven't been fucked in like 2 weeks because I'm much more feral?)

[confusedcunny]

Just minutes after making a post in which I talk about trying to avoid real transphobes in this kink, this happens.

Me: minding my business. Random dude: send me your pussy. Me: *lol. sends pic of my cat* Random dude:

See... You can call me all kinds of things. But my baby is fucking beautiful, you asshole.

It's a sad thing that he can make a bunch of extra accounts and still message people, but these dicks don't deserve trans pussy. I've had more interactions like this and usually don't bother to post, I'm sure all trans people in this kink has had them. Being a bit bratty can certainly help to weed out dicks like this, though it's not a perfect system.

I'm wondering in what ways you all manage to stay safe? Because I feel like we should be sharing tips on that!

[confusedcunny]

hi! i found one of your older audios a few weeks ago and it was the hottest thing, kind of the first time i admitted to myself that i am into detrans/misgendering and now it’s like a total secret kink of mine. i am really glad to learn the audios were made by a kinky trans guy and not some gross transphobic cis man bc i was a little bit worried about that.

anyway, i hope you’re doing well and i hope that you will make more audios in the future but only if you want to and it makes you happy!

It's fun when I hear that I helped someone discover/admit to themselves that they have a detranskink. I'm also glad I'm not a gross transphobic cis man 😂

Thanks for you sweet message. I will probably make more at some point.

[confusedcunny]

I'm curious how you deal with post nut clarity types of feelings to do with this kink? (If you deal with it. If not, I'd appreciate if any advice comes to mind. It's alright if not!). Even though I know this is just a kink, I still find myself disappointed/upset about indulging in it the moment I cum 😭 my guess is aftercare but I'm unsure.

I make a post about how much this kink has helped me and others to convince myself it's okay Jk (but not fully jk) 😂 But really, I used to deal with those feelings a lot more than I do now. Don't have as much negative feelings anymore. Part of that is that I've worked through feelings of shame in my life as personal development (though I'm far from done). If I'm playing with a partner (I only do so online for now) I try to be more careful nowadays that I find someone who will also provide aftercare. Though it does happen that I accidentally play with someone who nuts and runs, and then I can get in a down mood. I have some online friends who are sweet enough to give me aftercare if they are around, which is nice, but also have my own routines to take care of myself. Since I'm a little, regressing can help for me. I'll take a warm bath, wash off body writing if there is any, cuddle with my stuffed animals. Play a game. Pamper my cats. I remind myself that gender isn't a binary thing and it's okay to experiment in any kinda way without shame. I have the privilege of passing, so seeing my beard in the mirror helps too and so does reminding myself of other things that make me feel masculine. Bonus points for the fact that post nut clarity can be gender affirming. I've made a set of rules for myself that help avoid situations that are too nasty for me. If I get even the tiniest bad vibes from someone I'm talking to, I will first ask lots of extra questions to see if they pass the "not a real transphobe test", I sometimes have to fight my horny side, because I know it's tempting when I am horny to just say "fuck it", but I remind myself that transphobes don't deserve me. I also made it a rule to never show my face, or shave my face for kink (which I did one time years ago and that one I regretted big time). When it comes to the hypnosis files I make, there is an aftercare file. I personally don't listen to that much, but I know some people have had use out of it.

I think the shorter version of the answer is: Being kind to myself, developing an aftercare routine, setting some personal rules beforehand, being pickier with partners. And sometimes it does go wrong and I feel shitty, but that too passes. All feelings are okay and can have their use.

I'd love to hear the answer to this from others, because I don't doubt there's plenty of people with plenty of tips out here.

[geniuscomediae]

also f*ther used "it" for me in our heavily gendered native language which kinda hurts my feelings but not for the reasons he intended

[the-rats-are-partying]

i censored the usernames because I don't wanna put them on blast or anything but come on guys :/

[confusedcunny]

Noticed you said you forgot the name of your xvideos account, it's funrule34! Figured you'd want to know, even if you don't have your password anymore, if others wanted to find it too :) I personally like the spiral videos, there's something extra hot about hypno with the visual ngl

Oh haha, thank you! I don't think I'll upload there again, but good to know!