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Time To Let Go

Life moves on and so should you. I know it’s easy to say that when you haven’t gone through the same ordeal as someone else. The reality of the situation is that we all get over things in our own way. Some of us are not as strong as we look, it’s a mindset that you have to adapt when trying to overcome hardship.

Some experiences in your life will be difficult and feel impossible to overcome, but you have to learn to leave the past in the past and embrace your future. Everything is not for everybody and you can lose out on so much dwelling on the past. Many situations that occurred happened to make you stronger and wiser, never neglect the valuable lesson.

Time is the one thing we can’t get back and you shouldn’t waste it dwelling on things that didn’t work out. In life you will be disappointed by people that were only meant to be temporary in your life, but don’t let that discourage you from striving for greatness. The motivation should be to always get better with time and walk into your purpose with your head held high knowing that each experience made you who you are today.

- Brian Biggs Williams

New Year, New Me

Happy New Year everyone! I know I am a few days late but I been really busy working on a few projects for the new year. We are now in 2018, the start of another blessed year and a fresh start to be great. A lot of people like to give a positive or negative recap of 2017 which is always the best way to start another year by leaving everything behind expecting amazing things in the new year.

The way you start your year is typically the way it will go, but that decision is up to you because you control what you allow in your life. If you welcome in positive energy that will enrich your life and motivate you to do more and that type of attitude will increase your value. The goal is to work for what you want and put yourself in position to be great. No one was ever able to get to their wealthy place by entertaining negativity. That brings me to my next point, everything you went through whether it good or bad was an experience that taught you a great lesson.

Some people like to use the concept “New Year, New Me” when in actuality it’s a new year, but the same you. Change starts within and you can’t post a catchy phrase on social media expecting things to change. You have to put in the work by first working on yourself. I am reminded of a quote that says “Working on yourself is the best work you can do even if you don’t get paid for it”. I am reminded every morning to work on myself on a daily basis and always look to improve on things in my character. The situations in our lives can be avoid if we think before reacting. Remember you have all the tools you need to succeed.

Have a great and productive day!

What is a Relationship?

When getting to know a person you notice the positive and negative aspects of a persons character. These things are usually discovered through conversations and interactions over the course of time. The most important thing is communication, because you will notice things that will ultimately let you know what type of person you are dealing with. The timing is everything prior to getting in a relationship because if you and the other person is not looking for anything serious you should stay friends until you both know what they truly want.

Many people get in relationships because they feel it’s the thing to do. The pressure of finding out what title to label your interaction can make you enter a situation you are not yet ready for. Establishing an understanding is key when figuring out what the next move should be. The status of your relationship with someone is solely between you and the person, not the opinions of others. Remain friends until you can both commit to being in an exclusive relationship with each other.

Many relationships go to level they shouldn’t while dating as friends and once certain lines are crossed it’s extremely difficult to change the direction of the way things are going. Nothing is more important than creating boundaries, but typically it doesn’t happen that way. Keep things friendly until you can handle more because once things get physical the emotions grow and can potentially affect the way you view the situation causing one or both parties to feel that they are in a relationship by default.

Take your time when you are getting to know a person and try to establish certain things before entering a relationship. You can think you are ready for something based on the connection you have with the person, but it’s all about timing and knowing that you can handle a committed relationship. The best relationships come from a strong friendship. You can’t force something that is not developed organically. Remember always take your time and never rush into any situation.

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You can do it too!

You can become anything you want, but you first have to work at your craft. People want success without working for it. Nothing in this life is given, but earned through hard work and dedication. You can’t have an attitude of entitlement and feel based on who you are you should receive instant success. I released my first book in 2012 and since then I have been working on my brand and understanding what life is all about. You have to be transparent if you are looking to help others. Many of us are drawn to other based on how we can relate to them and what they are all about. You can definitely see yourself in others because of what they share with you. I believe that through transparency you can help others overcome a various of things in their lives.

Everyone deal with things in there own special way but that don’t mean they don’t need help in the process. Never be afraid to share your story with others and be proud of where you came from. We all have a past and we should never be ashamed of how far we came. Life have a way of putting everything in perspective and letting you know in order to grow you have to change. Trust the process and believe in yourself. Many people don’t believe that they have a purpose and feel that life is just life and nothing will change. The truth of the matter is as long as you have that attitude nothing will just for you, because change start within. Wake up every morning with the mind state of a winner. Remember you can do anything you set out to do as long as you have confidence in your ability to create.

Have a great and productive day!

Weather The Storm

Time waits for no one and if you really want something you have to go for it, especially when it seems impossible to obtain. The fear of failure will always be present and second guessing yourself at times is a normal reaction, but you have to understand that fear can’t defeat you unless you allow it to have a place in your life. Being confident in your abilities is the key to overcoming doubt.

The way you view your situation is important because many people let their current situation get the best of them and stop caring about life and all the great things that it have to offer. Surround yourself with positive people and never look down on a person because of what they are going through, but be supportive and always offer words of encouragement. A simple word can motivate someone to continue to push through while they are going through their storm.

I have learned that your life should be an example to others that you can do great things as well, but you have to believe in yourself first and always strive for greatness. Tapping into your full potential is never easy, but necessary when you want the most out of life. Never let a negative situation get the best of you. Always remember that life is what you make it.

Have a great and productive day!

Be Yourself

The idea of being someone else can be great, especially when you are on social media because the post of the others get a lot of attention. The things that the person want you to see often times are not actually the real things that are going on in their lives. Many times we praise celebrities based on material things, not realizing that none of those things hold any true value. Those items don’t build character or make you who you are.

Over the last few years, I have learned that no one’s brand should ever be bigger than yours. It’s great to admire someone, but there is a different between admiration and idolizing someone. Being the best version of you that you can be will take you further than anything else. Bring real with yourself is important because you can never be real with someone else until you are honest with yourself.

The path to greatness is not easy, but it’s worth it. I struggled for a long time with the idea that being someone else would benefit me more than anything else, but to my surprise I was wrong. You only win in life when you are being real with yourself and accept your flaws and do what you need to in order to become a better you. Always remember no one can be you and you can never be real with yourself if you are trying to be someone else.

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Follow your Dreams

Have you ever felt like giving up on everything because the pressures of life? I can speak from experience and say I felt the same way at one point. Life can get extremely stressful when you are chasing your dreams and things don’t always go according to plan because life can change it’s direction even when you didn’t plan it. You have to constantly remember yourself that you are great and this situation will pass, but in the process you can’t give up on yourself. I have learned over the years that others depend on you for inspiration. If you give up on your dreams the people around you will be affected as well, so before you quit think of the dreams of others that you will kill in the process.

When you are having difficult times just remember that if you keep God first he will help you weather the storm and overcome what you are currently going through. Never give up on yourself because your purpose must be fulfilled and you can’t do that if you stop striving for greatness. Stay positive and never settle for less. Remind yourself everyday that you can do this and never look at the past failures, but only to the future.

Have a great and productive day!

Positive Energy

Energy is contiguous and when you put out the right energy you can attract the right people and things. You ever had a bad day and notice that nothing was going right and you just don’t want to be bother with anything? That can be because you are putting out negative energy, when you do this you draw the wrong things into your environment and attract the wrong people. I have learned that you get back what you put out and nothing positive can come from a negative attitude.

Some people wake up with a negative disposition and think that life is not worth living and when you have that type of attitude nothing will ever turn out good for you. The way you perceive life is what you will make it. The greatest gift we all could have is life. You have another opportunity with each waking day to do everything you didn’t do yesterday, nothing is impossible when you put your mind to what it is you desire to accomplish. Remember to keep a positive attitude and you will attract positive energy.

Have a great and productive day!

Consistency

Following your dreams can be amazing when you love what you do and don’t consider it to be work. We all have a passion for something, but the thing that make you stand out from the crowd is your willingness to pursue the things you want to do in life. Most people are afraid to chase their dreams because it’s not guaranteed that you will make it to the level where you can support yourself and the people around you, I’ve learned to remove fear from the equation and simply work hard for what you want. The most important thing when working towards a goal is consistency, when you are focus and always ready to create something new, you will always have the upper hand. You get what you put out and if you are only doing the bare minimum that is what you will get in return. This week I really understand how important it is to stay consistent and never get comfortable, because it will pay off in the long run. Use today as an opportunity to get active and focus with a level of commitment to your dreams you never had before. Have a great and productive day!

Keep Running

When you feel like giving up, just think about where you came from and use that as motivation for the next chapter in your life. Life can be hard and sometimes discouraging, but always remember that you have more to lose when you quit after working so hard. Things will not always be easy and every step will require a sacrifice. You have to know that when you are uncomfortable you are more effective. I learned through the years that adversity is good for you because it teach you how to adjust properly when things get difficult. You should always be ready to accept the challenge and rise to the occasion. We all have the tools we need to succeed because life provide us with them, through experiences that build character. Stop looking at things as impossible and start viewing them as possible. Always approach things with the attitude of a winner knowing that you can do anything you put your mind to. Remember to believe in yourself or nobody will. Have a great and productive day!

No Risk, No Reward

The best business opportunities come from taking risk. You will never know what you truly can accomplish if you don't take risk. Many times out of fear we don't make certain moves because we are afraid that things are not going to work out, my theory is that without taking risk you never will reach your full potential. Being uncomfortable is the best way to work because when you are in a state of comfort you get less work done. Before writing my first book I use to send daily quotes to everyone in my contact list, this method was extremely effective and created attention for my brand which is now a movement based on inspiration. I had doubts about things and often times I use to ask myself was this something people need? Later discovering that those people I sent daily quotes to really appreciated them and looked forward to receiving them every morning. Remember all small things grow into bigger things when you are consistent and you avoid getting comfortable. I learned my worth and understood how impactful my brand could and would become. Don't let the people around you discourage you from achieving greatness. Through the years I learned so much about life and how to approach every situation better. The key focus should always be to learn something new everyday and get better with time. Give yourself a fair chance and take the necessary risk, knowing that you put it all out there in order to achieve greatness. Have a great and productive day!

Love Yourself or Nobody Will

Knowing your worth comes from different situations in your life where you felt like you were being taken advantage of or mistreated. Certain situations happen to create self awareness and let us know our worth. When you think about worth the first think that could to mind is value. Your value should be established by you and no one else. People will never see your worth, if you don't see it first. Many people undervalue themselves because of the words and actions of others. Never let anyone cause you to question who you are and what you bring to the table in any situation.

We all have certain level of insecurities that we struggle with on a daily basis. The best way to work on yourself is by finding time to identify all the things that cause you to doubt yourself and your worth. I remember being in a certain place in my life where I didn't think I could write my first book, but it made me realize that doubt will always be present, but it's up to you if you allow it to consume you. Thinking on a positive level can you overcome any situation. Love the person you are and always know your worth. Don't let the insecurities of other become your own.

Have a great and productive day!!!

Everything Happens for a Reason

Reflecting on the past is the best way to guide you into your future. We all have experienced disappointment, heartbreak, and being let down by people you love. These type of things can give the average person a negative attitude towards life. Situations happen to show you things that you didn't see before. I am a firm believer that everything happen for a reason and you have to go through things in order to grow. You cross paths with certain people for a reason but you have to identify that reason and know that not everything is for everyone. When it comes to a relationship some people are just not good for each other but that doesn't mean you have to dislike the person, instead embrace things and look for the message in the situation. When things don't work out know that it's for a reason and don't force the issue. On the other hand you have people that are connected and brought together for a greater purpose to add value to each other's life. The relationships you build in life will last a life time and can grow into so much more. Never hate any situation you went through because it was meant to happen. Remember God has a plan in all our lives and questioning things are a natural human reaction, but know that it is a reason behind everything happening in your life. Remain positive and consistent when it come to your interactions with others because we are all connected one way or another. Have a great and productive day!!!!

Accountability

Fear have no place in your life and doubt should be a thing of the past. This past weekend was very interesting I got a chance to really think about several things that could potentially hold me back from being successful. The number thing is PEOPLE, understand who should be around and who should be left alone, this is essential to your success. Many of us are afraid to leave some people based on the history you have with the person, understand that everything has history in your life, but you have to ask yourself a question What good is history, if you are not learning from it? Mistakes can be costly when you are keeping the wrong connections, there are certain things and people you should isolate yourself from when you are working on your future. Making excuses for others only mean you agree with their actions, when you consider someone a friend that gives you a responsibility to be honest with them and let them know when it's time to step up their game. We all have the potential to be greatness, but if we are not apply our greatness to our lives, we are not living in our purpose. Many people look at other successful person and feel that they got there by luck or that it was very easy, but the truth is we all have the same 24 hours in a day. Never blame society for your inability to succeed, you can only blame yourself and the things you allow in your life. It's all about accountability and owning the things you have done and understanding that it's never too late to get things right. Use the lessons in your life as a blueprint and make the best out of every situation. Have a great and productive day!

Grown up

Life is a journey that we all have to take and along that journey you will learn along the way or fail in the process. I can't help but notice that some situations help you mature and get better. Most people make it to incredible heights and others remain on an average level never really reaching their full potential. Learning from your mistakes are what make those experiences worth it. The progression of life includes overcoming a situation and let's those lessons help you grow up. Many do mature on their own time, but as for me I believe that some mistakes will continue to befall you until you grow up and take accountability for your actions. For every action there is a equal reaction. Life isn't always fair so you have to learn how to fail and get it right the next time around without being too hard on yourself knowing that it will make you learn from your mistakes and get it right the next time. It takes confidence to be successful and have the drive know that you will be great. Have a great and productive day!

Pittsburgh

This past weekend I went to Pittsburgh for a tour stop for the Dream On Fest with a few super talented artists. It was my first time visiting the city and the experience was very interesting and I got to meet a lot of great people with amazing energy. The experience really inspired me to do so much more and showed me how much support real art is celebrated. I am seeing things different especially when it comes to doing business and operating at my maximum potential. The reason a lot of things fail is because of fear, you cannot be afraid to take risk and put yourself out there in front of the masses. The goal in life should be to be happy and love what you doing everyday, not saying that all days will be easy, but as long as you are not giving up you are half way there. Dreams are just dreams without actions. The decisions you make doesn't just affect you, but the people around you as well. Remember to always remain consistent and never quit on yourself. Have a great and productive day!

Remember......

You are motivated by the things and people around you and settling is basically giving up on what you really want. Life is a journey that we all must take. Don't come from a long way only to quit. I woke up this morning with a question that only I can answer for myself and that question was "How do I do something great today?" After some thought I came to the conclusion that simply waking up in morning is an accomplishment and a great thing, because some people didn't even make it to see another day. This thing we call life that we often times take for granted is the greatest thing you have. Reflecting on all the things that happen to others during the course of the day really help you appreciate life. I was going through social media and looking at all the R.I.P post and empathize for those who loss their lives over nothing because of someone's jealousy or senseless violence. We have to do better as a people. When I was growing up we had no social media with several community programs to go to after school and during the summer. The youth today turn to the streets and glorify these entertainer who are basically actors because most of them don't even own the things they are seen with. We are at a state of emergency and need to do better for the generations to come. Have a great and productive day!!!!!

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