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@bipositive
The Legend of Aethel-Vera.
There is an ancient story I'd like to share with you all, something passed down from bisexual to bisexual in an endless, unbroken line... The line now comes to you. What you do with this story is your decision.
You must face the age of not believing, Doubting everything you ever knew, Until at last you start believing, There's something wonderful, In you.
With love, Bi-Positive.
How do you figure out your sexuality??? Im 14 & im starting to think im bisexual??? Im so confused honestly. How am i supposed to deal with this & figure everything out?? Please helpp
Hello!
First of all, you need to take a breath and calm down, it's okay to be confused, it's not an emergency that needs to be addressed urgently or else something bad will happen, you have lots of time and you should be kind and patient with yourself, as you would be to anyone else.
Figuring out your sexuality can take a while and sometimes it's just small steps until you wake up one day and everything sort of clicks into place, it will happen sooner or later! Until then, remember that it's normal, you're okay and whatever happens you're a human deserving of happiness, if you're LGBT or not!
Don't rush things, it will only make you unwell and cause more stress for you, just let things develop at their own pace and all shall become clear.
With love, Bi-Positive
I'm feeling a little bit like an imposter. I'm a bi 22 yr old woman and before last year, I was too scared to be in a relationship with anyone. I had flirtations with guys and gals, but I could never make the next step. Until I met my current boyfriend. He's the loml and I could never see myself with anyone else. But...I feel like bc I never went further with a girl, I missed out on my queerness? Idk if that makes sense. I'm wishing I wasn't so scared before bc I wanted to be in relationships with different girls before I met my boyfriend. And now I don't feel as queer as I did before I met him? Any advice?
Hello!
It's not uncommon for people to feel like they're a 'fake', but it's important to remember that your sexuality isn't defined by who you're with, you can be as queer as a duck at the checkout of a supermarket and still have a boyfriend, I know how it feels to have those 'what-if' moments, what if I did this, or that.. But we can't change the past, we can only live in the present and do our best to find happiness within it, it sounds like you're in a wonderful relationship that brings you happiness! That's beautiful! And it in no way takes away from your queerness, you're just a queer woman who happened to find that kind of relationship with a man and that's okay!
With love, Bi-Positive
@bipositive My flannels
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Some Things To Remember.
Now that I'm in my 30s, I know! I'm shockingly handsome and young looking, but that's another matter.. Ahem..
I think, for the younger people here, I'm probably more of an older brother, rapidly moving towards father-figure.. Time just keeps ticking on, but that just means I've learned a bit more since I've been around longer, and these are some lessons I'd like to pass down to younger people, and maybe remind older people of them too!
1.) As a human being, you have the right to be treated with respect, people don't need to agree with you, but they do have to be respectful of you, failure to do so is a failure on THEIR part, and not yours.
2.) Your sexuality is ultimately something that is a part of you, much like your heritage or culture, if you wouldn't accept someone being dismissive or erasing your heritage or culture then don't accept them doing the same to your sexuality.
3.) Life is precious and can sometimes last well into eighty-something earth-years! Though it's a long time for us, it's also quite a short time when you think about it.. Don't allow your own fears to stop you living the life you want to live, there's not enough time to live it unhappily or falsely! Unless of course, you have to lie to be safe, then always lie.. I give you permission.
4.) It's a cliché, I know. But loving yourself is important! You will be the only person in your life that will be with you always, you'll never go anywhere or do anything without yourself being there. It might be hard to find love within yourself, I know.. But do try! You are worthy of the love of yourself, trust me!
With love, Bi-Positive.
When You're On The Way To Defend A Fellow Bi.
I'm a baddie baby, just like my mamma made me.
With love, Bi-Positive
The Things I knew.
When I was fourteen I didn't know everything, But, I knew some things. I knew that, if I let go of a pebble, it will descend to Earth, I knew about gravity, it's certainty. And I knew I liked men and I liked women.
When I was fourteen, there was some things I knew, But, other things I didn't learn about till I aged. I knew that hot and cold are the same thing, thermal energy, We experience them as separate things, but they are part of the same. And I knew I liked women and I liked men.
When I was fourteen I knew I didn't know things, But, I knew a little. I knew that space and time existed together, I didn't know why, or how.. But I knew that it did. And I knew I liked men and I liked women.
When I was fourteen, I didn't know what I know now, But I knew what I felt, and how I felt it. I knew that observation will change the outcome, But that was too much, too big an idea. And I knew I liked women and I liked men.
I've learned a lot since I was fourteen, I've seen things, read things, watched things and grown as the truths around me informed me, some things I believed to be true have turned out to not be so true and some things I never knew to be true have made themselves known to me.
But still, I know I like men and I like women.
With love, Bi-Positive.
The Art of Not Knowing.
You know, I've been thinking lately about how much we as humans just don't know, it's a huge part of being a sentient creature, being confronted by the unknown and the unknowable.
When it comes to sexuality, sometimes we just don't know, and that is okay! I know that we humans always need to seek out knowledge and we hate not knowing things, especially about ourselves, but I think it's important to remember that the first step in coming to know something is to find yourself not knowing.
I think, there's great liberty in not knowing, you have so much to explore and to consider, so much to experience! Not knowing can be in itself a wonderful way to feel free! Yes, you may be confused and I know confusion can be scary, I've been there.. But the horizon is beckoning and you're going to be okay.
There is a Latin phrase, it translates roughly to "through hardships, to the stars" and I think you're all headed to your own stars right now.
With love, Bi-Positive.
Would Anyone Mind If I Just Came Back?
Some of you may remember that a while ago I decided I was pretty much done with this blog, I felt I had done all I could do and that essentially it would be just me repeating myself over and over again, but that was some time ago, and now I feel maybe.. I could be useful again!
It would be a honour if you would accept my return to aid you in your journey, whether it's in the early stages of confusion and fear or if you've been out as bi for years and just looking for a sense of acceptance, I'd like to be here.
I look forward to continuing where I left off, if you'd have me back!
With all my love, Bi-Positive.
I think I don't just speak for myself when I say that we love to have you back. There are so may things that don't really go right at the moment and every single source of light is needed and you, my friend are a firework for the bi's. You were one of the first blogs I followed when i first came here and I haven't left since. So with joy I am happy to say:
Welcome back, friend
Aw, that's so sweet! Thank you!
A Rose By Any Other Name...
I have a proposal, no, calm down, I'm it's not a marriage proposal, we've been over this, I like you as a friend.. ahem, yes, well.. I propose we make an effort to adopt the rose as our symbolic flower, no, not because of it's romantic connection, but because of Shakespeare! He wrote in Romeo & Juliet that a rose by any other name would smell as sweet, meaning that regardless of what name you name it, the rose is still symbolic of beauty, love and tender affection and regardless of your surname, whether you're a Montague or a Capulet, or as I intend to use it, a male or a female, woman, man, person.. It doesn't matter, the rose no matter, is sweet.
I've set aside the.. more troubling things about the story of Romeo & Juliet, it's a very old story and the ideals of a relationship or what is and isn't considered okay has changed dramatically, so that's not what I want to focus on. Just the pretty roses will do.. And yes, Romeo was a fu-k boy, as we all know.
What do you think? Please let me know!
With love, 🌹
Bi-Positive.
Would Anyone Mind If I Just Came Back?
Some of you may remember that a while ago I decided I was pretty much done with this blog, I felt I had done all I could do and that essentially it would be just me repeating myself over and over again, but that was some time ago, and now I feel maybe.. I could be useful again!
It would be a honour if you would accept my return to aid you in your journey, whether it's in the early stages of confusion and fear or if you've been out as bi for years and just looking for a sense of acceptance, I'd like to be here.
I look forward to continuing where I left off, if you'd have me back!
With all my love, Bi-Positive.
Oh, Hey.
It's been a while, hasn't it? How are you? How's things with you?
Even though the world can be a little bit overwhelming, it's important to remember that you matter, you have value! No matter if you're LGBT+ or not, remember, you have value. That's all I wanted to say for now. So, how's things? With Love, Bi-Positive.
Bi-Positive turned 10 today!
From One Candle, To Millions Of Candles.
Each of you holds a candle. It's got a warm glow. You might not be able to see it, but it's there. When people come together to help each other through difficult times, the glow grows bigger, brighter.. That's how light works. For a long time now, I've tried my best to be a little candle to help brighten up the way for people who felt lost, or just needed some warmth and safety. And I'm glad I've spent that time doing what I did. But.. Maybe it's time now, for my little glow to go elsewhere. But! You're not alone, ever alone! There's millions of candles out there, millions of warm little glows. You can help each other, support each other, find friendship and comfort in each other, too. You're going to be okay. If this is the end of.. This, this project? I suppose.. Then, thank you. All of you. You have shown me such warmth and kindness, such love to a person you've never met. It warms a heart.. It has been a privilege and a pleasure to know you, to speak to you, to listen to you. May your life be one of beauty and fulfilment, may your endeavours forever be fruitful. Agh, I've never been very good at expressing emotions clearly.. You know what I mean! I like ya' face! You're gonna go far, kid! As always, perhaps for the last time, with love. Bi-Positive.
Hello, just wondering if your blog is still active?? The content is absolutely wonderful.
Hello there!
The blog is currently.. Hibernating? To be honest with you, I'm not sure what to do just yet about the blog or the future of it.. I won't delete it or anything so it'll be here until, well, whenever the rest of the blogs go, so it'll be around ^_^ Thank you for your kind words, I'm glad that even after so many years it's still helping people! With love, Bi-Positive.
Hi I'm bi and I'm not out and it feels very lonely. It good that you're positive, I dunno that's all thanks!
Hello there! I know it can feel lonely when you're not out and trying to figure out a way to be 'you', but you're not alone! There's many people just like you going through the same thing!
It's going to be okay. Okay? ^_^ With love, Bi-Positive.
