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Baby blanket #1

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i know we're all sick of self-care being a marketing tactic now, but i don't think a lot of us have any other concept of self-care beyond what companies have tried to sell us, so i thought i'd share my favorite self-care hand out

brought to you by how mad i just got at a Target ad

[silkarth]

Here's a pdf version from TherapistAid that also lets you identify the stuff you need to improve upon. (Edited for better link).

Self-Care Assessment (Worksheet) | Therapist Aid

Self-care activities are the things you do to maintain good health and improve well-being. Some self-care activities might already be part o

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🖤💕🖤💕

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I'm about to have a power hour of therapy because shit is changing starting today, no exceptions.

This poor lady, she's about to regret her career choice so hard.

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God damn I'm so good with these 💕🖤💕

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I really fucking am💕

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I'm a fucking witch and cards are my divination. Not one single doubt in my brain.

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WHATS UP ANXIETY BRAAAIIIIINNNNN

Okay I'm going to watch the Thanksgiving episode of Bobs, The Great North, and King of the Hill and I'm going to knit and finish some little books and do some sunshine yoga and hang out with Clem.

Everything is fine. Everything is okay. Everything is better than okay.

Traditions change and it doesn't mean everything is falling apart. This is out of an abundance of caution and self preservation and everything still exists.

Rinse, repeat.

[cryptonature]

Learning to delete/mute/block before a negative comment takes root in your mind is a modern survival skill. If you're going to wander the overgrown countryside of the internet, you need to develop a quick eye for ticks.

It's deeply tempting to respond to the "well, actually," to the cruel assumption, to the unjust accusation, to the odious viewpoint. It's tempting because you're defaulting to the etiquette of dinner conversation. This isn't a dinner conversation. Someone is shouting at you from a moving car. Turn away.

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Book order so far💕💕

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It's driving me absolutely insane that these aren't perfect but, c'est la vie.

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WRONG BLAHG

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Book order so far💕💕

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Little spellbooks💕📚🧙🏼‍♀️🔮

[redbudbutch-deactivated20221003]

I want everyone to know that there are queers in the hollers of Appalachia, in the bayous and marshland of the Deep South, in Southwestern deserts, through the Ozark mountains and up to the Rockies. There are queers in the Great Plains, there are queers in rural America, in trailer parks of the Osage foothills. In the places you least expect us to live, we are here, carving out community and fighting for liberation with pride despite it all. Stop forgetting about us. Stop overlooking our experiences and our impact just because we don’t live in a Big Gay City. And for the love of God, stop looking at us with pity.

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Also, there are ALLIES out here.

I live in a no-stoplight town in the south. There are three tractor stores and two animal supply stores within 25 minutes of my house, and we finally got a grocery store, apparently some time this year. We have no McDonald's or any other kind of chain restaurant.

I saw a redneck at the country store face down a guy whining about the trans menace and tell him to act like he had fuckin' southern manners, or move up north.

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And that redneck was a better ally than most people online

[lesbrarians]

queer existence is part of the human condition. queer people exist everywhere, in every community. queer people are part of LGBTQ history. and it's way too easy to overlook the experiences of queer folks who live in regions where, for one reason another, other people think they can't exist or don't belong. i fully think that everyone should read about the lived experiences of people outside of their origins. so. i have (America-focused) memoir and nonfiction recommendations!!!

Memoirs Another Appalachia: Coming Up Queer and Indian in a Mountain Place by Neema Avashia

Honor Girl by Maggie Thrash

Prairie Silence by Melanie Hoffert

Like Me: Confessions of a Heartland Country Singer by Chely White

Saving Alex: When I Was Fifteen I Told My Mormon Parents I Was Gay, and That's When My Nightmare Began by Alex Cooper

How We Fight for Our Lives by Saaed Jones

Punch Me Up to the Gods by Brian Broome

¡Hola Papi!: How to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life Lessons by John Paul Brammer

Mama's Boy: A Story from Our Americas by Dustin Lance Black

Boys and Oil: Growing up Gay in a Fractured Land by Taylor Brorby

Diary of a Misfit by Casey Parks

General

Real Queer America: LGBT Stories from Red States

Sweeter Voices Still: An LGBTQ Anthology from Middle America

Queering the Redneck Riviera: Sexuality and the Rise of Florida Touri

Men Like That: A Southern Queer History

A Night at the Sweet Gum Head: Drag, Drugs, Disco, and Atlanta's Gay Revolution

Y'All Means All: The Emerging Voices Queering Appalachia