do you have a boundaries list or chart :3
hiya! thank you for asking! i don't have a chart like a lot of folks have done, but i can make one sometime soon. it all boils down to:
my characters are totally fine to be shipped!
feel free to engage with my characters in art/fanfic/etc however you would like, i just ask that it's tagged correctly (or not tagged at all? i'm honestly new to this, specifically tumblr, and am open to feedback on the best course of action! if there are tags i should block to give the fandom their proper space, please let me know)
if i can be candid and a little personal, i think i was struggling with some character bleed and taking things a bit hard mentally for a bit, just due to how i share a name with my character and play her alllll the time. but ultimately that is on me to handle and navigate on my own! i am infinitely grateful for the support and love for my character and don't want to get in the way of anyone engaging with the media i create. how i've been letting things weigh on me is not for anyone else to fix, just for me to work through on my own!
i'm incredibly sorry if my feelings on it have ever been unclear, i've been thinking a lot about it recently and realized a lot of it boils down to me just needing to take a step back and stay in my lane. i think i've given the wrong impression at times, and i apologize for that. a lot of my feelings have just been spurred on by external anxiety and pressures, it has nothing to do with how any of the fandom has interacted with my characters. it's just stress that was weighing on me and the pressure i put on myself! i want to create stories and a space that people feel they can engage with, so if there is anything else i can do to facilitate that, i am very open to feedback.
i'm so sorry for such a hefty ramble, i hope this all makes sense! and again, if you have any further questions or want more clarification please ask me! i want to support this space however i can.
EDIT: to tack on because i don't want to re-edit this post every time i overthink about my wording (it's a perpetual problem for me, i'm a chronic overthinker)
i don't go looking for posts or anything about my characters and content that isn't tagged, so if it doesn't have #graecie (or anything adjacent to that), i don't think i'll see it! if you don't want me to see or engage with something, you'll be in the clear of me finding it.