Rotten to The Core

A safe space where parental abuse survivors of any kind can interact and submit anything. Let's support eachother here. Don't interact if TERF, MAP, DDLG or Exclusionist.

[addminds]

what she says: im fine

what she means: adhd is incredibly underdiagnosed in women due to the heavily dangerous stereotype that adhd is a disorder that is present in only young males and this is a stereotype that is harmful to absolutely everyone with adhd, including young males that have been diagnosed because it makes the entire disorder seem fake as if it was created to allow lazy little boys to get out of trouble. it also causes the underdiagnosis in women with adhd, which leads to undiagnosed women feeling inadequate and as if they are broken and alone when in reality it really is out of their control. in this essay i will-

[liliomlany18]

[notesforselflove]

The abuse is not your fault.

The abuse is not your fault.

You do not deserve how you are treated.

The abuse was not your fault

The abuse was not your fault

You did not deserve how you were treated

Even if you don’t get out of the situation.  Whether you can’’t or didn’t realize how bad you were treated until you were out of it, IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT.

You did nothing wrong.

[systemdiscourseiguess]

hmm so i know a lot of things are signs of fake system but some of the stuff y’all are saying are impossible for people with DID/OSDD aren’t actually impossible, just somewhat uncommon and calling them impossible rather than stating that they are unlikely is very damaging. things like:

recent media fictives. DID/OSDD has to form in early childhood but alters can form after you have it at any age. If you developed DID at age 6 you could get a new alter at 16 or 20 or 35. Therefor recent media fictives aren’t impossible even if having lots of them is suspicious.

controlling who fronts. I don’t know any systems that can always control who’s out but it’s not completely fake to have an alter who somewhat controls who is out and when nor is it impossible to switch on purpose. 

in-system death. while this is technically, yeah, impossible, it can defintely look like it’s happening. if someone in a system thinks another alter is dead or saw them “die” it can just mean that they are now dormant and that their brain’s interpretation of that is to make it look like death.

new alters forming without new trauma. while a truly new alter isn’t going to just split for no reason (if it seems that happened they may be an alter who’s been around a while) you don’t necessarily have to have something severely traumatic happen. it can happen simply from high stress rather than trauma (although i know the line can be quite blurry). some people with DID/OSDD are more prone to splitting. Also the whole “you’ll only get a new alter with new trauma AND when the other alters don’t fill a roll to handle it” is just… purely made up. It’s especially an insult to large or polyfragmented systems. i doubt that all of my like 150ish alters were created to have a unique job that no other alter could possibly fill.

there are others but really those are ones i see really often and it’s… it’s not good. It’s always good to be aware of what about systems is something made up by tumblr (system hopping, endo systems) but its also good to know which things are being said to be impossible when they aren’t.

[peachyyguts]

𝖆𝖓𝖌𝖊𝖑𝖘 𝖔𝖋 𝖕𝖔𝖗𝖓 - 𝖓𝖎𝖈𝖔𝖑𝖊 𝖉𝖔𝖑𝖑𝖆𝖓𝖌𝖆𝖓𝖌𝖊𝖗

[imsoofuckingsad]

every day is halloween when you’re dead inside

[spockoandjimjim]

If your vegan “activism” involves holocaust comparisons you owe me a $50 Amazon gift card and a 2,000 word essay explaining why you think Jews are comparable to cattle Goyim reblog (esp. if you’re vegan)

[mr--link]

I need help.

I’m not even gonna mince words here: I NEED MONEY. I’m running out of food, and I have only $5 on my debit card. Please, if you can, donate to help a broke-ass college student out. Every little bit helps. I’m willing to start doing commissions, if anyone’s interested. (I’ll set up a separate post for that later)

Donate to me, please.

[maredilacrimee]

[bethyneville]

I honestly believe that people who lost their childhood, teenage years to mental illness and/or trauma are so strong for still being here. Especially once you’re about 18-25 and trying to relearn how to be in society and healthy and human.

Especially when you decide to work towards getting better.

Especially when your life isn’t where you wished it would be.

Stay alive okay? If you lost your youth, I’m sorry and I’m so proud of you for still being here. Keep fighting. Your best years are ahead of you.

[aliensfromhell]

[furiousgoldfish]

Having abusive parents, you learn to only care about things in secret. Liking things openly becomes unsafe, because your parents notice, and it’s the first thing they’ll take away from you the second they need to blackmail you. After a while it only feels safe to not care about anything, to not want anything, and to not be attached to anything, because then it can’t be used against you, they can’t use it against you. You have to be apathetic if you don’t want to be openly vulnerable to abuse. Eventually you learn to hide everything from everyone. Even your friends don’t find out about it. Every pleasure feels like guilty pleasure, like you’ll pay for it later. Your entire life becomes a secret that feels too dangerous to tell anyone.

[dankmemeuniversity]

[tamascotchi-deactivated20190101]

wait did he just say for someone else to come get his own dad

[just-positivity-stuff]

[above-average-gravy-deactivated]

Gender-neutral abuse awareness? On this hellsite? Nice. 👏👏👏

[thegoodvybe]

[waterrgenasi]

hi uh this is just a psa

IM ANTI-PEDOPHILE IM ANTI-MAP IM ANTI-KINDERGENDER OR WHATEVER THE FUCK IT IS

PUT ME ON THE ANTI MASTERLISTS!!!!

IF YOURE A PEDOPHILE BLOCK ME!!!! IF YOU’RE A PEDOPHILE APOLOGIST BLOCK ME!!! IF YOU BELIEVE PEDOPHILES BELONG ANYWHERE NEAR THE LBGT+ COMMUNITY BLOCK ME!!!!! IF YOU’RE A MINOR ATTRACTED PERSON OR WHATEVER BLOCK ME!!!!

BASICALLY IF YOU’RE AN ADULT WHO IS ATTRACTED TO MINORS AND/OR BELIEVE YOU BELONG ANYWHERE NEAR THE LBGT+ COMMUNITY SMACK THAT BLOCK BUTTON!!!! I DONT WANT YOU INTERACTING WITH ME OR MY POSTS!!!!!! BYE!!!!

[maplecatra]

I’m sick to my fucking stomach

The map flag had the same color scheme as the pan flag and now they’re switching to the bi flag

If you see anyone with this flag or any variation

Run

Don’t fucking hesitate to block because pedos are now using this new “flag” and other forms of it

Can I get a signal boost from larger accounts? Start tagging people so this will spread

[spookiibuggii-deactivated202209]

this is especially important for you kiddos following me, if you see someone with this flag on their blog, DON’T interact with them. don’t even try to pick a fight with them, its not worth risking your safety over. please stay safe..