I implore followers to take at least 3 minutes of your time to read this please.
I often talk to my best friend about how on the most basic level men in general do not like women. I truly believe after reading this they do not see women as people. As human beings.
There were way to many times in the article where the men talked about their lonliness as “no one knows my pain. I do not have a wife to make me food. To cook or clean. Or to tell me to take a shower”.
This man spoke about women as what they could do FOR him. In relation to chores and tasks.
Never in any of the interviews from the men in either India or China spoke about why they wanted a wife other than what she could do for them.
Not one man said “ I want a wife so I can spend time with someone I love, cherish or care for”.
It was always in reference to “ I want a wife bc I want children, I want someone to cook for me, who will tell me to take a bath?”.
Even for the Indian woman who had 7 sons and was at the age of 60. Described her life as hard and lonely.
I will paraphrase,“ I constantly cook for my seven sons and my husband. They eat a lot of food. They go through a lot bread. I cook four times a day. No one daughter in law to help me”.
The age of her oldest son?
38 years old. The youngest being 19 or 21.
At the age there mother was. 60 years old with back pain, tired from slaving over in the kitchen.
Did any one of her sons take the time to learn to cook or help her?
There was a grandmother who was interviewed from China. She had raised her grandson since he was a child.
The man was at least 35. She talked about how she wanted a daughter in law to help her cook and some grandchildren.
Did her 35 year old grandson help his around 70 something year old grandmother to cook? Clean? Anything.
No. He never mentioned it once.
A lot of people think dehumanization is always done in violence. Or in anger. It is physical. You can see it. Hear it.
But the dehumanization of women globally has been done to us in the little things.
A 60 year old woman who cooks 4x a day for her grown 7 children and husband. Who refuse to learn to help her. Despite her voiced concerns on the physical toll it takes on her body.
A 70 year old grandmother still cooks for her 35 year old grandson.
And these men think they deserve wives? Why? Bc they want children and someone to cook and clean for them. They want free sex.
I honestly hope all these men mentioned die bitter, alone and forgotten.
Let their bare branches. Remain bare. Let there be no seeds, no fruit to harvest. No apples that fall.
Let them all remain barren.
