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✩ 6th house stellium ✩ tarot sometimes

[cyberclouddream]

What each Venus sign will actually give up or refuse to bend on when it comes to keeping things soft, kind, or good-looking.

venus in cancer: they’ll take the hit if it keeps the bond soft. they’ll give more, love harder, hold on longer. what they can’t handle is coldness. once they start feeling like a burden instead of a home, the door closes quietly, and you don’t notice until it’s locked.

venus in aquarius: they’ll meet you where logic and feeling overlap. they’ll bend rules, question everything with you. but if they feel controlled, they ghost emotionally before they ghost physically. they need space to think, or nothing makes sense.

venus in taurus: they’ll hold steady for you, stay when things wobble, forgive the slow burn of routine. but if they have to live on edge, always waiting for the next break, they stop trusting. they’ll trade almost anything except peace of mind. if it doesn’t feel safe, it isn’t worth it.

venus in virgo: they’ll adjust every detail for you, out of care, not fear. but if nothing they do ever seems enough, resentment builds in silence. they won’t say it, they’ll just stop trying. they can fix a lot, but not being overlooked.

venus in capricorn: they’ll give loyalty, effort, consistency. they’ll build around you if you prove you’ll stay. what they won’t give is their self respect. if they feel taken for granted, they shut off warmth like a switch and move on without drama.

venus in scorpio: they’ll open every hidden part of themselves if you earn it. but if trust cracks, everything turns. they can forgive, but they can’t unknow. once they start doubting what’s real, they protect themselves by burning the bridge and watching the light die.

venus in leo: they’ll swallow pride once, maybe twice, for something that still feels golden. they want to believe in the story of you. but if they keep giving and you stop seeing it, they harden. they won’t beg to be adored. they’d rather glow alone than dim for someone else.

venus in aries: they’ll meet you in the middle if it still feels alive. they’ll fight for you, not against you. what they won’t do is shrink. once they start feeling small, they snap. they need movement, fire, proof that it’s still real. anything less and they walk before the echo fades.

venus in sagittarius: they’ll stretch far for someone who makes them feel alive. they’ll compromise on time, distance, plans, but not on the truth. if they have to fake ease, they’d rather leave. they need to believe it’s honest, or they can’t breathe in it.

venus in libra: they’ll bend their voice, their timing, their temper, trying to keep the air gentle. they’ll give you grace even when they’re bleeding for it. what they can’t take is one-sided effort though. the moment they realize they’re the only one smoothing things over, they detach so clean it feels like it’s rehearsed.

venus in pisces: they’ll take the weight, forgive, romanticize, try again. they blur their edges for you until they can’t tell what’s theirs. but when they finally see you don’t meet them halfway, they disappear into the fog they built, just quiet, kind, gone.

venus in gemini: they’ll bend their rhythm to yours, listen, learn your language. but if the room goes quiet for too long, they start fading out. they can handle change, not stillness that feels like suffocation. they stay curious until curiosity turns into confusion, then they just slip away.

[blankver]

i am always reminded that astrology is real bc why else would singapore’s icon be the merlion if they weren’t an aquarius sun, pisces moon with a leo rising.

there literally could not be anything more fitting than a half lion half fish mascot for this country.

[theskywithin]

💭 Delulu in the Streets, Settling in the Sheets: A Zodiac Love Roast 💔✨

Let’s be honest: we all say we want healthy love, deep connection, and someone who understands us… But what we actually go for? A walking red flag with good lighting and a birth chart that might be compatible if you squint. This is not astrology, this is emotional chaos dressed up in zodiac drag. Twelve signs. Twelve delusions. Zero survivors. Let’s begin.

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♈️ Aries

You say you want emotional maturity, deep intimacy, and someone who texts back. Cute. Meanwhile, you’re ignoring three perfectly decent people in your DMs because their grammar was “too correct,” and instead hyper-fixating on someone who has a criminal record, a trauma bond, and zero interest in ever replying before 3am. You call it “chemistry,” but it's just your nervous system reliving every unresolved childhood wound like it’s a Netflix special. You are "ready for healthy love" but if they like you too much, it’s “giving clingy.” If they take you out on a real date, you mysteriously lose interest. You’re not looking for love, you’re looking for someone who can survive your audition process that involves 3 fights, a silent treatment, and one emotionally charged parking lot confession at 2:34am. Admit it. At this point, you're just casting for your next emotionally unavailable co-star. And when they don’t give you main character energy back, you break up with them via Instagram story.

♉️ Taurus

You say you’re holding out for someone stable, emotionally intelligent, and ready to commit. Adorable. Meanwhile, your actual type is anyone who gives you one (1) forehead kiss, disappears for two weeks, and then comes back like nothing happened and you accept them back like they’re a seasonal menu item. You call it loyalty, but let’s be real: it’s romantic Stockholm Syndrome. You’re not looking for a partner, you’re looking for a scented candle with attachment issues. Someone you can “fix” with your love language, home-cooked meals, and passive-aggressive silence. You talk about high standards but get emotionally entangled with people who think a relationship milestone is “sharing a playlist.” Your idea of foreplay is building a five-year future with someone who hasn’t even asked what your favorite color is. And when it all crumbles? You sit there in your emotional recliner like, “Wow. Can’t believe they did this to me,” while ignoring every single warning sign the Universe personally mailed to your doorstep in calligraphy.

♊️ Gemini

You say you want deep conversations, mental stimulation, someone who really gets you. But let’s not lie, your actual vetting process is:

1- Are they hot? 2- Are they chaotic? 3- Do they talk in cryptic emojis? Perfect. You’re “done with inconsistent people,” you say, as you triple-text your ex while canceling plans with the one emotionally stable person who was actually nice to you. You’ll ghost someone for using the wrong “your,” then catch feelings for a walking Tumblr quote who smells like impulse decisions and sounds like a conspiracy podcast. You say you want real connection, but if they don’t send a voice memo with emotionally questionable subtext at 2am, you feel nothing. You’re not in love, you’re conducting a social experiment you forgot to log out of. You’ll complain that people don’t take you seriously while actively falling in love with someone who thinks astrology is a cult and “communication” is a meme account. But it’s fine. You’ll just overthink it for six hours, talk to three other people, and end up dating someone new before you finish reading this paragraph.

♋️ Cancer

You say you want a soft place to land. A partner who feels like home. Someone who texts good morning and goodnight, listens to your dreams, and brings you soup when you're sad. Beautiful. Stunning. Pure. But baby… you don’t want love. You want emotional custody. You want to be the CEO of someone else’s healing. The moment they trauma-dump in your lap, you’re like, “Finally! A project.” You’ll call it a soul bond, but really, it’s a codependent internship with no pay and unlimited crying. You want home, but you keep dating human escape rooms. You say you’re done with emotionally unavailable people, and yet, the second someone love-bombs you with 3 days of attention and a sad backstory, you're already mentally naming your future children. You say you're not looking for drama, but if there’s not at least one mildly concerning power dynamic and a playlist involved, you simply can’t get attached. You’re not settling, you’re building imaginary lives with people who haven’t even followed you back yet. And when it ends? You’re “healing” by baking cinnamon rolls and casually checking their birth chart every three days just to “see if they’re okay.”

♌️ Leo

You say you want someone real. Someone grounded. Someone who sees the true you, beyond the glam, and loves you for your soul. But let’s be honest, you also want them to fall in love within 3 business days, write poetry about your aura, and clap every time you walk into a room. You say you’re not high-maintenance, but if they don’t hype you like a Grammy-winning pop star during your mental breakdowns, it’s giving betrayal. You don’t want a partner, you want a full-time emotional hype team with a minor in devotion and a PhD in flattery. If someone doesn't make you feel like the sun itself blessed them with your existence, you simply cannot thrive. Your standards are: “loyal, obsessed, poetic, and just a little damaged for edge.” You’re casting lovers like background actors in your biopic. And if they forget their lines? You block them and dramatically post a selfie captioned “some people just can’t handle the light.” Don't worry, you'll fall in love again right after someone worthy learns how to spell “center of the universe” without autocorrect.

♍️ Virgo

Everything’s fine. Really. It’s fine. You only spent three hours analyzing their text for tone, two hours deep-diving their Instagram for inconsistencies, and fifteen minutes rewriting your reply so it sounds effortless but also like you’re emotionally stable and slightly superior. No big deal. You asked for clear communication, mutual effort, and emotional maturity and then caught feelings for someone who responds once every lunar eclipse and calls emotional intimacy “weird vibes.” But that’s okay. You can fix them. Or organize them. Or at least ghost them politely with perfect grammar and no typos. It’s not that your standards are too high, it’s that no one understands how to be exactly the person you imagined after one flirty conversation and a glance at their bookshelf. And that’s not your fault. It’s theirs. For not being psychic. For not using punctuation correctly. For not responding with the enthusiasm your emoji deserved. Don’t stress, once your nervous system finishes reorganizing the emotional data, they’ll be downgraded to a learning experience.

♎️ Libra

You say you want something real. Deep. Reciprocal. A love that feels like poetry and emotional intelligence had a baby. And yet somehow, you keep falling for people who give you one compliment, share a vague opinion about art, and suddenly you’re like, “wow… we just get each other.” You say you’re looking for alignment, but let’s be honest, if they make decent eye contact and vaguely resemble a character from your favorite indie film, you're already spiraling into soft-launch territory. You don’t want love, you want someone to validate your feelings, pick the restaurant, and disappear before it gets complicated. You’d rather stay in a 3-year talking stage than risk disrupting the potential of the relationship with actual needs. You’re not settling, you’re just accidentally dating people you forgot to say no to. You confuse attraction with destiny, silence with mystery, and bare minimum attention with a “deep soul connection.” And when it inevitably implodes? You’re heartbroken, confused, and somehow still replying with “haha no worries!” while dissociating.

♏️ Scorpio

You say you want honesty. Depth. Someone who’s emotionally available, spiritually attuned, and ready to dive into the abyss with you. Okay, sure. Meanwhile you fall for people who respond in lowercase and haven’t processed a single emotion since 2014. You swear you're done with liars, but if someone’s mysterious, avoids eye contact, and smells like a walking trust issue, you’re like: finally, my soulmate. You don’t want a relationship, you want a slow-burn psychological thriller with kissing. You say you're looking for emotional safety, but also you’ll block someone for replying “lol.” You think giving someone your trust is “too soon” if it happens before they’ve bled, cried, and proven they’d die for you in a metaphorical fire. You want vulnerability, but only after they pass twelve invisible tests, three ego deaths, and a psychic reading. You're not dating, you're single-handedly funding the red flag industry because therapy is boring and revenge is character development. And when it ends? You don’t cry. You just disappear, emotionally regenerate in the shadows, and re-emerge hotter and slightly more suspicious than before.

♐️ Sagittarius

You say you want honesty, freedom, intellectual connection, and a love that feels expansive. Beautiful. But in reality you want someone who makes you feel something intense and then immediately leaves you alone so you can overthink it in peace while booking flights. You say you want a deep, meaningful relationship but you’re currently in love with someone you met once on a group trip to Lisbon who had good cheekbones and vague political opinions. You don’t want a relationship, you want a cross-cultural fever dream with inconsistent Wi-Fi and zero emotional accountability. You say you’re afraid of being trapped, but somehow you’ve been stuck in the same toxic situationship for three solar returns because “the timing just isn’t right.” You want truth, but only if it’s wrapped in banter, existential dread, and a meme about healing. You’re not settling, you’re just emotionally unavailable with excellent taste in snacks and spontaneous road trip playlists. And when it ends? You don’t grieve. You write a reflective Instagram caption about growth and immediately fall in love with someone from a different country, timezone, and belief system.

♑️ Capricorn

You don’t fall in love. You accidentally develop a six-month emotional obsession with someone you “weren’t even that into” while pretending to be chill and unaffected the entire time. You say you want loyalty, maturity, and a partner who knows what they want but the second someone actually does, you panic and go into witness protection. You're not afraid of love, you're afraid of anyone seeing you emotionally flinch. Which is awkward, because your type is “hot disaster with no boundaries and a mildly concerning past.” You'll ignore red flags like it's an Olympic sport, call their avoidant behavior "mysterious," and then act personally victimized when it turns out they suck. You don’t date, you slowly spiral into a fake situationship out of politeness, overthink your exit strategy for three weeks, and finally leave when Mercury retrograde gives you permission. And when it ends? You don’t cry. You journal vaguely, stare into the void, and re-download the dating app just to feel in control again.

♒️ Aquarius

Dating you should come with a warning label: May experience sudden emotional outages. You say you want deep, meaningful connection but if someone actually likes you, you immediately assume it’s a social experiment and detach for observational purposes. You want love, but it has to sneak up on you while you're discussing the fall of capitalism or making a playlist with songs that don't exist yet. You’re not avoiding relationships, you’re just extremely busy dating someone in your head while being completely unreadable in person. You flirt by oversharing random facts, referencing an obscure theory about soulmates, and then casually disappearing for 72 hours “to reset.” If they don’t intellectually stimulate you within five minutes, you mentally ghost them before the check even arrives. You're not settling, you're just emotionally orbiting situationships where no one defines anything, there’s zero accountability, and somehow it's still “really special.” And when it ends? You claim you're fine, then post a meme so specific it might legally count as a restraining order.

♓️ Pisces

You don’t date, you emotionally attach to whoever makes prolonged eye contact and has a tragic backstory. You say you want honesty and spiritual alignment, but your dating history looks like a casting call for emotionally unstable poets with commitment issues and nice hands. You’ll meet someone once, feel a “soul connection,” and suddenly you’re picking out baby names based on your synastry chart and a dream you had where they were a medieval knight. Boundaries? You’ve heard of them. Not interested. You prefer to merge instantly, share childhood trauma over coffee, and then get personally offended when they don’t intuitively know how to love you forever. You think heartbreak is a personality trait. You think vague compliments are marriage proposals. You think texting someone “I miss your energy” after two dates is completely reasonable. You’re not settling, you’re romanticizing a deeply confusing situationship that technically never started, but ruined your life anyway. And when it ends? You do the healthy thing: write three poems, cry in the bath, consult your birth chart, and say you’re healed. Then spiral again when they post a blurry photo with someone vaguely hand-adjacent in the background.

[cazshmere]

Aries in the Houses and What Ignites Your Inner Child’s Rage 🔥

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DISCLAIMER: These are just my personal observations and are meant for entertainment purposes only; it may not resonate with everyone due to the nuances of astrology. Please respect my work and avoid copying or stealing it. Enjoy reading!!

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 1st House :

you had to be strong before you even knew what strength was. people saw your fire, your passion, your bold way of showing up, and just assumed you didn’t need comfort. so you rarely got it. you weren’t held the way you needed. you weren’t met with softness. just expectations.

your anger began as a form of defense, not aggression. you lashed out because it was the only way to say “i matter” when no one else was saying it for you.

you were punished for reacting, even when someone crossed a line. your reactions were labeled as overreactions. your “attitude” was the problem, never the disrespect you received.

you felt invisible unless you were loud, and when you were loud, you were told to tone it down. nothing you did felt right. your very being was treated like it needed adjusting or needed to be modified in order to be “acceptable”.

you weren’t allowed to just exist, you had to earn your space, justify your emotions and constantly prove that you were good enough to be heard :(

underneath all the rage is grief baby. grief from never being treated with the tenderness and kindness you deserved to be treated with. grief from being called difficult for simply having a sense of self

your inner child burns with fury anytime someone tries to define you, limit you or suggest that your essence is “too much” to be loved as it is.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 2nd House :

you were made to feel like wanting was wrong. that needing something meant you were a burden. your desires were treated like inconveniences to others.

you learned early that your worth was tied to what you could give and how little you needed in return. so you stopped asking. but over time, that silence turned into quiet resentment. your self-worth became wrapped up in your achievements and your inner child started to believe that being loved meant being useful, not simply being you.

any time someone dismisses your needs now, it reopens a wound. because you remember what it felt like to want safety, comfort, attention and be told “no” without care.

you may have had things taken from you without consent, your belongings, your choices, your time and it taught you that what’s “yours” can disappear in an instant.

you were taught that love should be earned and that even basic needs come with guilt. so now you guard your worth like a fortress, ready to fight anyone who tries to devalue you. you often equate even gentle criticism with personal rejection, because your inner child still remembers what it felt like to be blamed for simply having needs. to be told you were too much, too emotional, too demanding, when really, you were just asking to be seen.

you feel your inner child rage when people act like you should be okay with crumbs. because deep down, you know how it feels to give everything and still be told it’s not enough.

your fire is not greed. it’s the flame of someone who knows what it’s like to have to prove you deserve what should’ve been yours by right.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 3rd house :

you were interrupted more than you were heard. every time your curiosity sparked, someone dimmed it or mocked it. your thoughts weren’t seen as important, they were dismissed, corrected, or silenced.

you were told to “calm down” when you were just excited, to “speak nicely” when you were simply passionate, and to “think before you speak” when all you were doing was trying to express yourself. and if you have mercury retrograde too, the overthinking and self-doubt that followed probably became unbearable.

you may have had to compete for attention in your own home - siblings, noise, distractions and so you learned to speak louder, faster, sharper just to be noticed.

your rage stems from the belief that no one ever really listened to you. and when they did, it was to find fault, not to understand.

you carry anger from being underestimated. you had so much to say, but were treated like you were just talking too much. too fast. too out of line.

you feel a deep fury when you’re ignored or cut off because your inner child still remembers what it felt like to speak into a void.

your mind became a battleground between needing to be understood and fearing that no one ever truly will.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 4th house :

you were raised in an environment where safety came with conditions. maybe you were protected physically, but not emotionally. maybe you had to fight just to feel seen inside your own home.

you felt like you had to toughen up early and be the strong one, the independent one, the one who didn’t cry even when it hurt. there wasn’t space to be soft or be vulnerable but only to survive. so when you did need to cry, you did it in secret. because somewhere along the way, you learned that vulnerability made you weak and weak wasn’t safe.

your anger lives in your chest. it flares when people talk about “family” like it’s automatically nurturing, because to you, home was often a place of tension, not peace.

you were told what to feel and how to feel it. emotions like anger were unacceptable, unless someone else in the house was expressing it. your own feelings were either dismissed or punished.

your inner child doesn’t trust easily because they had to build their own emotional armor. they were taught love could be withdrawn without warning, so now they expect to be abandoned before they can feel safe.

you hate when people try to control your inner world, because that’s exactly what you fought to reclaim. your emotions, your space, your truth - you had to earn them.

you still burn with rage when someone tries to invade your peace because you remember a time when you didn’t have any.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 5th house :

you were told to “be careful” when you were just trying to be joyful. your spark was policed before it had a chance to grow. your creativity felt like a threat to those who didn’t understand it.

your passions were either ignored or treated like a phase. when you got excited about something, you were told to tone it down, not get your hopes up, or focus on something more “useful”.

you carry a deep, quiet anger about not being encouraged. about having to fight for your joy. about having to explain why what lit you up mattered or why something makes you feel happy.

you may have been shamed for taking up space - for being loud, expressive, emotional, theatrical. you were made to feel like loving yourself or being proud of yourself was arrogance

your inner child burns with rage when people act like your joy is frivolous, your art is childish, or your voice is “too much.” because you remember what it was like to be dimmed

you became protective of your self-expression. you learned to create in private, love in secret, or laugh only when it felt safe. but the fire never went out. you wanted romance to feel fearless, like you could love out loud without shame. but instead you were made to feel embarrassing for how openly you cared. your inner child still aches at being told their passion was too much to be loved back.

you get angry now when someone tries to shrink the very parts of you that once saved you, your passion, your confidence, your ability to feel deeply and loudly.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 6th House :

you grew up thinking rest had to be earned. that you had to do something to deserve peace. love felt like something you had to work for, like if you weren’t being useful, you weren’t worthy. so even now, slowing down makes you feel guilty, like you’re not allowed to just be.

you feel rage when you’re expected to keep going even when you’re so exhausted and tired because that’s what you were taught as a child: that tired wasn’t an excuse, and pushing through was expected.

you may have been forced into routines or responsibilities too early. the weight of being reliable was placed on you before you knew how to ask for help.

your inner child isn’t angry about working hard, they’re angry that no one noticed them unless they were achieving something. they’re hurt that love came with conditions. that they were only cared for when they were useful, never just because they existed.

you were made to feel like your needs got in the way. so now when someone tries to micromanage you, fix you, or make you feel broken for struggling, it angers you.

you feel a deep anger toward people and systems that expect so much from you but give nothing back. because that’s what you grew up with, being pushed to perform, to show up, to stay strong, with no space for how you actually felt. it still stings, being treated like a machine instead of a person.

you’re not angry because you hate structure. you’re angry because it was forced on you before you even knew who you were. you didn’t get to choose your pace, your path, or your needs and you just had to fall in line. and that pressure still lives in your body.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 7th House :

you were taught to play nice. to keep the peace. to not make things harder for anyone else. so you started shrinking yourself, holding back your anger, your truth, your needs all just to keep things smooth. and now a part of you still feels guilty for taking up space, even when staying quiet meant losing yourself.

you didn’t just crave love baby, you fought for it. you chased people who made you feel seen, even if only in fragments. your inner child still aches from the effort it took to feel chosen.

you were made to believe that being “too much” would drive people away, so you softened yourself to be accepted. and when they left anyway, the rage started to burn.

your anger isn’t about others leaving, it’s about what you gave up to make them stay. it’s about the way you betrayed yourself just to be loved.

your relationships became battlegrounds where you either lost yourself or fought to be understood. you were always either chasing or defending.

your inner child gets angry when love feels one-sided. when needing closeness is called “clingy,” or being independent pushes people away. all you ever wanted was to be loved without having to change who you are.

your inner child doesn’t fear love, they fear disappearing in it. they get angry when being in a relationship starts to feel like losing yourself. like your needs, your voice, your fire slowly fade just to keep the peace.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 8th House :

you were forced to deal with intensity before you knew what to do with it. secrets, power struggles, emotional undercurrents, you felt them all, but no one taught you how to name them.

you weren’t allowed to be fragile, even when life broke you open. people expected you to “handle it,” to not fall apart, to be strong for others while your own wounds were ignored.

your inner child rages when people try to pry you open without earning it. because you remember what it felt like to be emotionally invaded, violated, or exposed before you felt ready.

you had to deal with your emotions on your own from a young age. no one was there to hold you through the hard parts, so you learned to stay quiet and handle it yourself. now, when someone ignores your pain, it brings up all those old feelings of being unseen.

and yes even though you’ve always had to take the lead or be bold in some way or the other, there’s still fear in doing things on your own. deep down, you worry that if you fall, no one will be there to catch you.

you carry rage for every time someone took from you without giving back, be it your energy, your trust, your body, your secrets. now you guard yourself because you had to.

you burn when people treat your silence like consent, or your strength like invincibility. because your inner child still remembers what it’s like to be strong and terrified at the same time.

you’re not cold my love, you’re a fire that’s been contained for survival. and anyone who tries to control your emotional power will feel the heat you buried long ago.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 9th House :

you were told what to believe before you even knew you had a choice. you didn’t get to ask “why” , you just had to accept it, even when it didn’t sit right. deep down, your inner child still aches for the freedom to think for yourself, to explore, to believe in something that actually feels true.

your curiosity was mistaken for rebellion. your need to explore, challenge, and curiosity were treated like a threat instead of a strength.

you were punished for thinking differently, maybe not directly, but through subtle disapproval, shame, or being made to feel like your dreams were unrealistic, immature, or selfish.

your inner child still rages when people try to box you in, when your beliefs are belittled, or when your vision is met with cynicism.

you learned to hide how big you really are. how much you want. how far you’d go if no one held you back. and that suppression built into resentment.

you feel a deep anger when people assume they know more than you just because they’re older, more “qualified,” or louder, because you’ve always known your truth, even when no one else respected it.

you were born to roam, to question, to reach for more than what you were handed. but growing up, every time you wanted something different, you were told to settle down, to follow the rules, not your heart. your inner child still burns with anger when your freedom is treated like a flaw, or when your curiosity is met with shame instead of support.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 10th House :

you were expected to succeed before you even had the chance to mess up. the pressure started early, to get it right, to be the best. and somewhere along the way, you started to believe that being loved meant always performing, always achieving.

your identity got tangled with productivity. you were praised when you got it right, but not held when you got it wrong. so you learned to equate mistakes with failure of character.

you became the strong one, the driven one, because it felt like the only way to be safe. like if you slowed down or showed weakness, everything would fall apart. now it stings when people call you “too much” or act like your ambition is just about ego, they don’t see what it’s protecting.

your inner child burns with rage every time someone calls you “intense” for simply caring. for giving your all. for wanting to be more.

you were never allowed to slow down without feeling like you were falling behind. now, you carry a fire in your chest that never cools, even when you’re exhausted.

you’re angry because no one saw how heavy it was to carry so much alone. they just applauded the outcome, never the sacrifice.

you don’t rage because you want to dominate. you rage because you never felt free to define success on your own terms.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 11th House :

you always felt like you had to earn your place in the group. friendships didn’t come with ease, they came with performance, people-pleasing, or being the one who took initiative every time.

you felt invisible in spaces where you wanted to belong the most. the rage didn’t come from rejection - it came from being overlooked, underestimated or used when convenient.

you were the one who fought for the friend group, who planned, who showed up but rarely felt like anyone would fight for you back.

your inner child gets furious when people treat you like an afterthought. because you know how deeply you craved community, and how painful it was to be excluded from it.

you get angry when people only like parts of you. when they love your energy but ignore your truth. when they want your spark, but not who you really are. it makes you feel used, not seen.

you learned that being authentic often meant being alone. and that made you furious, not because you wanted to fit in, but because you had to choose between being seen and being accepted.

you still carry rage for every space that made you shrink yourself just to be part of something bigger and now, your soul refuses to do it again.

❤️‍🔥 Aries in the 12th House :

you weren’t allowed to show how angry you were. or how afraid. or how loud your inner world was. so you buried your fire where no one could reach it, not even you.

your inner child doesn’t throw loud tantrums, it stays quiet and burns inside. it shows up in your overthinking, in your random mood swings, in dreams you can’t explain. the anger is real, even if no one sees it.

you were always told you were too much, and too sensitive at the same time. so now, when people say “don’t take it personally” or “just let it go,” it stings because no one ever made it feel safe to feel that deeply in the first place.

you’ve carried battles you couldn’t name. inherited wounds. unspoken grief. emotional weight that was never yours to begin with. and your inner fire has been used to keep others warm at your own cost.

you feel anger at your own silence. at how long it’s taken you to speak. at how many times you swallowed truth to keep peace. you didn’t want peace, you wanted to be heard, your inner child wanted to be heard.

you rage quietly at the way people romanticize being “low-maintenance” or “chill,” because you know what it’s like to suppress your needs until they feel like ghosts.

you are a storm disguised as stillness. and the world doesn’t know how lucky it is that you learned how to control your fire but your inner child still wonders why you ever had to.

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[em-1245]

Certain Issues that may come with your Chiron placement (Pt. 2)

Chiron in Libra/7H:

- Feeling like you only get into relationships that force you to grow (even the most traumatizing ones)

- Always being more focused on healing other people rather than helping yourself

- Unconsciously trying to heal your own wounds through your closest relationships

Chiron in Scorpio/8H:

- Carrying your past with you

- Learning to let go of what you can’t control

- Learning to not let betrayal and past hurt completely harden you

- Issues surrounding intimacy/your sexuality

Chiron in Sagittarius/9H:

- Higher education may not work for you so you will learn to take other routes in order to achieve success

- Learning to not follow religious beliefs that do not suit you. If you come from a very religious family, you will want to stray away from that and lean more towards spirituality

- Feeling restless if you’ve been in one place for too long. As a result, you never really feel “at home” anywhere in the world

Chiron in Capricorn/10H:

- Burdened by your career and reputation; How the public perceives you greatly affects how you view yourself

- Issues with the father (or father figure)

- Work/Career expectations are placed upon you and you are usually forced to take on great responsibility

Chiron in Aquarius/11H:

- Feeling like you can never find the right friends or friend group because you always feel like an outcast

- Friendship brings painful lessons for you

- Coming to terms with the fact that you really are different so a lot of people aren’t going to “get” you

- Having great ideas from a young age that people judged you for, just for someone else to act on it and then it becomes widely accepted

Chiron in Pisces/12H:

- Mental health struggles

- Tortured soul

- Feeling lost & alone

- Suffering from all the losses you’ve endured

[cupidlovesastro]

why i believe and evolved and unevolved signs

just like how we go through changes and high and low points, so do the traits we present at our lowest and highest

ex: taurus at their lowest are huge procrastinators, isolate theirself, use food as a coping mechanism, and won’t listen to others advice, unbalanced, and won’t change. taurus at their highest are hardworking, open to constructive criticism, grounded in their beliefs but listen to others, and calm in nature.

and this does vary planet to planet and even house to house. there is a reason that every sign, planet, and house has good and bad traits. at our lowest we tend to show mostly bad traits, and at our highest we show good traits

[novy2sirius]

THE MOON DEGREES

based on numerology

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 1°/10°/19°/28° ₊˚⊹

People with their moon at these degrees are more likely to have impulsive emotional instincts. They may have been raised in a home where they weren’t listened to or heard and had to raise their voice or be aggressive to get their parents to listen to them which in turn has caused them to not be able to control their emotions well or handle arguments well. These people may come off as intimidating to others but deep down they’re just emotionally wounded from their childhood. The positive to these degrees is that you have strong manifestation abilities (especially 19°) and are capable of manifesting your desires into the physical reality. This is also considered a beauty indication as the moon can be associated with the face and 1 one of the numbers of beauty in numerology which all these numbers reduce to. These people are also ride or die for the people they care about and will never be afraid to stand up for their loved ones. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must work hard for the things they want and be ambitious

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 2° ₊˚⊹

People with their moon at this degree are typically very peaceful and kind souls. They’re well liked by a lot of people and don’t prefer to burn bridges with people or create drama. They avoid conflict at all costs as it causes them a lot of anxiety and they don’t like hurting others. These people may amazing writers/authors as well as actors. They also tend to have a very admirable feminine beauty. The only downside to this moon degree is sometimes people with it can be a bit gossipy. If people with this moon degree want to create stability in life they must not get into too much conflict or gossip a lot

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 3°/12°/21° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees are not afraid to tell everyone how they’re feeling emotionally. They are great at communicating how they feel, however sometimes if they don’t learn to control it this can be a negative thing. Sometimes they share too much about their negative emotions towards other people and gossip a lot which can cause conflict in their life. These people tend to have very childlike energy which sometimes can manifest in a good way if they’re at a higher vibration and just make them fun to be around, but other times if they’re at a lower vibration in life, manifest as them being childish or immature. The positive thing about these moon degrees is they always know how to make people laugh and cheer them up. They’re also good at speaking up for things they have strong emotions towards. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must learn to maturely communicate their emotions rather than immaturely do so

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 4°/13°/22° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees are very hard workers when it comes to things they care about and have emotional desire for. They may have had a challenging childhood and had to work really hard early in life. At times they can be aggressive or struggle with anger issues as well. The positive to people with these moon degrees is that they can become extremely wealthy through hard work. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must surround themselves with others who have their life put together but also make sure they’re mentally and physically well on their own without the help from others. They should also try not to intimidate others in a negative way

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 5°/14°/23° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees tend to be very good looking as they all reduce to 5 and 5 is the number of societal beauty in numerology. They are quite sexual but not just with anyone. They must have an emotional connection with you to desire you sexually but when they do have that strong emotional connection and care toward you they are extremely sexual people. Be careful though if you do have these degrees because you can get pregnant more easily and unexpectedly than others. The challenging part of these degrees in your moon is that you may move on fast romantically and not be able to settle for one person easily. These people are also very entertaining people and could do really well in the entertainment industry. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in their life they must travel when they’re down and never surround themselves with people who restrict them in life. They need lots of freedom to be happy/stable

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 6°/15°/24° ₊˚⊹ - tw: weight

People with these moon degrees are very family oriented even if they happened to have a rough upbringing they still have unconditional love for their family that’s hard to let go of. These people are amazing friends and really good parents. They have an extremely nurturing aura and caring nature that makes others very comfortable around them. The only challenges that may come with these degrees are emotional pain involving weight, stubbornness, or just laziness at times. These people tend to be homebody’s and usually just enjoy chillin at home with their pets (if they have any). If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must be responsible and surround themselves with people who appreciate them. These degrees can also be a beauty indication since 6 in numerology is ruled by venus

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 7°/16°/25° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees may have lots of struggles in their relationships with their family and unfortunately often take the bad habits they learn from their parents into their romantic relationships. They sometimes can struggle with living in the past as well. They usually don’t want to have their own children and probably shouldn’t (other than 16°). They naturally do well emotionally spending majority of their time alone and focusing on themselves. On a more positive note though they’re extremely intelligent and analyze others quickly. These people tend to be very spiritually connected as well and may even be psychic. They tend to be more on the introverted side. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they should let go of the past, pay close attention to their intuition, and stop gambling with things they shouldn’t

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 8°/17°/26° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees live a very karmic life. More karmic than most. Any time they hurt someone without reason of defense they will receive karma back very quickly emotionally. The same also happens when others hurt them. They will receive lots of emotional karma fast. These people can live a great life or horrible one depending on how they choose to treat people. They should kill people with kindness for the most part though. These people can be very materialistic and care a lot of materialistic things. They tend to have very good judgment and are easily able to tell if someone is a good person or not or if they’re in a challenging situation or not. They at worst can be vengeful, greedy, controlling, or abuse their power at times. On a more positive note though they make great business men/women/etc and are very powerful people. They tend to be poor when young but as an adult become wealthy. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they should stop taking advantage of people and never be abusive or cruel toward others

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 0°/9°/18°/27° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees adapt super quickly to their surroundings/who they surround themselves with. If they hang out with losers they will become a loser. If they hang out with successful people they will become successful. These people are either the best people you’ll ever meet or the worst. There’s never an in between. They hold the power to whether they’ll have a good life or not. At worst they could struggle with addiction, be too much of a follower (in a negative way), be violent, lie a lot, or be hurt others because of their ego. They also tend to be the black sheep of their family. On a more positive note though these people are very intelligent and extremely powerful manifestors. They are very good at art because they often can use their emotions toward it with success. They’re extremely good looking if they don’t have lots of negative karma. They also tend to be good at acting because they’re good at pretending to be someone they’re not. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must surround themselves with people that have what they want and never try to scam others

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 11°/20°/29° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees are extremely spritual souls. They often have dreams that will tell them things about the future. They are the most likely to be psychic out of all the other degrees as well. At worst they can be overly sensitive or violent due to emotions. On a positive note though they tend to be very charming and kind people, old souls, and they often make good athletes. If these people want to create stability in their life they need to learn to control their emotions more

₊˚⊹ BONUS MOON DEGREE NOTES ₊˚⊹

— The moon at 25° or 29° can indicate being seen as extremely beautiful to a lot of people

— The moon at 27° can make someone extremely spirtual and intelligent. The downside is they could struggle with things like addiction or romance

— The moon at 5°/14°/15°/23°/25° can grant good physical health or mean you care a lot about your health

— The moon at 24° can also grant wealth

— The moon at 23° can sometimes indicate being unfaithful to your partners

— 18°/28° live a more karmic life than 8°/17°/26° people

as always please do not copy my work and remember that your entire chart matters. this is about isolated placements alone

[aeth-eris]

Ghosted vs. Ghostee Moon Signs Emotional Reactions.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Aries):

Initial Reaction: When initially ghosted, individuals with Moon in Aries might feel a surge of emotions, including confusion, frustration, and even anger. Aries is a sign associated with action and independence, so they might struggle with the sudden lack of closure and direct communication.

Resilience: Despite the initial emotional impact, Moon in Aries individuals are resilient and quick to bounce back. They have a proactive approach to life and are unlikely to dwell on the situation for too long. Instead, they prefer to focus on moving forward and pursuing their own goals and interests.

Self-Focus: After being ghosted, individuals with Moon in Aries are likely to prioritize themselves and their own needs. They may channel their energy into activities that boost their confidence and independence, using the experience as motivation to assert themselves even more in other areas of their life.

Direct Communication: While they may initially feel hurt or frustrated, Moon in Aries individuals value honesty and directness. They may eventually seek closure by reaching out to the person who ghosted them or by expressing their feelings openly and assertively.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Aries):

Assertiveness: When in the position of ghosting someone else, individuals with Moon in Aries are likely to be direct and assertive in their actions. They prioritize their own needs and desires, and if they feel a relationship is no longer serving them, they won't hesitate to cut ties.

Guilt vs. Rationalization: While they may feel a sense of guilt about potentially hurting the other person, Moon in Aries individuals are adept at rationalizing their actions. They may justify ghosting as a necessary step for their own personal growth or independence, especially if they feel the relationship was holding them back.

Moving On Quickly: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Aries are unlikely to dwell on feelings of guilt or remorse for long. They prefer to keep moving forward and may quickly throw themselves into new experiences and opportunities, focusing on what lies ahead rather than dwelling on the past.

Potential Regret: Despite their assertive nature, Moon in Aries individuals may occasionally experience moments of regret or doubt about their decision to ghost someone, especially if they later realize the impact it had on the other person. However, they are unlikely to dwell on these feelings for long, choosing instead to focus on their own personal growth and independence.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Taurus):

Deep Emotional Impact: Moon in Taurus individuals are deeply rooted in their emotions and value stability and security in relationships. Being ghosted can deeply wound their sense of security, leading to feelings of rejection and abandonment.

Slow to Recover: Unlike some other moon signs, Moon in Taurus individuals may take longer to recover from being ghosted. They are slow to adapt to change and may struggle to let go of the emotional attachment they had to the relationship.

Need for Closure: Individuals with Moon in Taurus crave stability and closure. They may find it challenging to move on without understanding why they were ghosted and may seek closure through direct communication or introspection.

Self-Worth Issues: Being ghosted can trigger feelings of self-doubt and inadequacy in Moon in Taurus individuals. They may question their own worthiness and attractiveness, struggling to understand why the other person chose to end the relationship abruptly.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Taurus):

Struggle with Decision: Moon in Taurus individuals value stability and security in relationships, making the decision to ghost someone challenging for them. They may wrestle with their emotions and feel guilty about causing pain to the other person.

Prioritize Comfort: Despite their guilt, Moon in Taurus individuals may prioritize their own comfort and well-being when choosing to ghost someone. If they feel the relationship is no longer fulfilling their needs or providing emotional security, they may opt for avoidance rather than confrontation.

Avoidance of Conflict: Moon in Taurus individuals dislike confrontation and may choose ghosting as a way to avoid difficult conversations or conflicts. They may struggle to express their true feelings and may opt for silence instead.

Potential Regret: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Taurus may experience feelings of regret or guilt, particularly if they later realize the impact of their actions on the other person. They may seek to reconcile or make amends, but their fear of confrontation could prevent them from reaching out directly.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Gemini):

Curiosity and Analytical Approach: Moon in Gemini individuals are naturally curious and analytical, so when ghosted, they may respond by trying to understand the reasons behind the ghosting. They might analyze past interactions, looking for clues or signs that led to the abrupt end of communication.

Fluctuating Emotions: Gemini is an air sign known for its duality, and individuals with the Moon in Gemini may experience fluctuating emotions when ghosted. They may alternate between feelings of confusion, curiosity, and even indifference as they try to make sense of the situation.

Desire for Closure: Despite their adaptability, Moon in Gemini individuals value communication and intellectual stimulation. They may seek closure by attempting to reach out to the person who ghosted them or by engaging in self-reflection to find their own answers.

Quick to Move On: While being ghosted can initially be upsetting, Moon in Gemini individuals are adept at adapting to change and may quickly shift their focus to other interests and activities. They may view the experience as a learning opportunity and move on without dwelling on the past.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Gemini):

Rationalization and Detachment: Moon in Gemini individuals are skilled at rationalizing their emotions and may choose ghosting as a way to avoid uncomfortable or confrontational situations. They may detach emotionally from the relationship, prioritizing their own freedom and independence.

Avoidance of Confrontation: Gemini is a sign associated with communication, but individuals with the Moon in Gemini may struggle with direct confrontation when it comes to ending relationships. They may choose ghosting as a way to avoid difficult conversations or conflicts.

Guilt and Inner Conflict: Despite their rationalization, Moon in Gemini individuals may experience inner conflict and guilt about ghosting someone. They may recognize the impact of their actions on the other person but struggle to address their feelings directly.

Potential Regret: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Gemini may experience moments of regret or doubt about their decision, especially if they later realize the emotional toll it took on the other person. However, their adaptable nature may allow them to quickly rationalize their actions and move forward.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Cancer):

Emotional Vulnerability: Moon in Cancer individuals are deeply attuned to their emotions and value emotional security in relationships. Being ghosted can trigger intense feelings of abandonment and rejection, causing them to retreat into their shell to protect themselves from further hurt.

Need for Emotional Connection: Cancer is a sign associated with home and family, and those with the Moon in Cancer prioritize emotional bonds and connections. They may struggle to understand why they were ghosted and may yearn for the emotional closeness they once shared with the other person.

Seeking Comfort: When ghosted, individuals with the Moon in Cancer may seek comfort and support from loved ones. They may turn to close friends or family members for reassurance and validation, needing to feel safe and loved during this vulnerable time.

Difficulty Moving On: Moon in Cancer individuals may find it challenging to move on from being ghosted, as they tend to hold onto memories and emotions deeply. They may ruminate on the relationship and what went wrong, struggling to let go of the emotional attachment they had to the other person.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Cancer):

Inner Conflict: Despite their nurturing nature, Moon in Cancer individuals may find themselves in a position where they feel compelled to ghost someone. They may experience inner conflict and guilt about hurting the other person, as they value emotional connection and empathy.

Fear of Confrontation: Cancer is a sign associated with sensitivity and avoidance of conflict, and individuals with the Moon in Cancer may choose ghosting as a way to avoid uncomfortable conversations or confrontations. They may struggle to express their true feelings and may opt for silence instead.

Protecting Emotional Boundaries: When ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Cancer may prioritize their own emotional well-being and boundaries. They may feel overwhelmed by the intensity of their emotions or the demands of the relationship and choose to retreat into their shell as a form of self-protection.

Potential Regret: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Cancer may experience feelings of guilt and regret, especially if they later realize the impact of their actions on the other person. They may struggle with the decision to cut off communication and may seek to reconcile or make amends, but their fear of confrontation could prevent them from reaching out directly.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Leo):

Emotional Impact: Moon in Leo individuals take pride in their relationships and invest a lot of emotional energy into them. Being ghosted can deeply wound their sense of pride and self-worth, triggering feelings of rejection and hurt.

Need for Recognition: Leo is a sign associated with pride and recognition, and those with the Moon in Leo crave attention and admiration in their relationships. Being ghosted may make them question their own worthiness and desirability.

Dramatic Response: Moon in Leo individuals may have a dramatic response to being ghosted, expressing their emotions openly and seeking validation from others. They may be vocal about their feelings and may even resort to dramatic gestures to get attention.

Seeking Reassurance: When ghosted, individuals with the Moon in Leo may seek reassurance and validation from others. They may turn to friends, family, or even social media for support, needing to feel admired and appreciated during this vulnerable time.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Leo):

Conflicted Feelings: Despite their outgoing and confident demeanor, Moon in Leo individuals may experience inner conflict when ghosting someone. They may struggle with feelings of guilt and remorse, as they dislike causing pain to others and value emotional connections.

Protecting Pride: When ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Leo may prioritize their own pride and ego. They may feel the need to assert their independence or protect themselves from perceived rejection, choosing ghosting as a way to maintain control over the situation.

Avoidance of Confrontation: Leo is a sign associated with courage and confidence, but individuals with the Moon in Leo may struggle with direct confrontation when it comes to ending relationships. They may choose ghosting as a way to avoid uncomfortable conversations or conflicts.

Potential Regret: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Leo may experience feelings of regret or guilt, especially if they later realize the impact of their actions on the other person. They may seek to reconcile or make amends, but their pride and fear of rejection could prevent them from reaching out directly.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Virgo):

Analytical Response: Moon in Virgo individuals tend to approach emotions with a logical mindset. When ghosted, they may analyze the situation meticulously, trying to understand the reasons behind the ghosting and scrutinizing past interactions for clues.

Self-Criticism: Virgo is a sign associated with perfectionism, and those with the Moon in Virgo may be prone to self-criticism when faced with rejection. They may question what they did wrong or how they could have prevented being ghosted, leading to feelings of inadequacy.

Desire for Closure: Despite their analytical nature, Moon in Virgo individuals value closure and clarity in relationships. They may seek closure by attempting to reach out to the person who ghosted them or by engaging in introspection to find their own answers.

Emotional Withdrawal: When ghosted, individuals with the Moon in Virgo may withdraw emotionally as a way to protect themselves from further hurt. They may become more reserved and cautious in future relationships, hesitant to open up fully.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Virgo):

Rationalization of Actions: Moon in Virgo individuals may rationalize ghosting as a logical decision based on practical considerations. They may believe that ending communication abruptly is the most efficient way to avoid conflict or discomfort.

Avoidance of Confrontation: Virgo is a sign associated with modesty and a dislike of confrontation, and individuals with the Moon in Virgo may choose ghosting as a way to avoid difficult conversations or conflicts. They may struggle to express their true feelings and may opt for silence instead.

Self-Protection: When ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Virgo may prioritize their own emotional well-being and boundaries. They may feel overwhelmed by the intensity of their emotions or the demands of the relationship and choose to retreat as a form of self-protection.

Potential Regret: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Virgo may experience feelings of guilt and regret, especially if they later realize the impact of their actions on the other person. They may seek to reconcile or make amends, but their fear of confrontation and discomfort with emotional expression could prevent them from reaching out directly.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Libra):

Emphasis on Harmony: Moon in Libra individuals prioritize harmony and balance in relationships. Being ghosted can disrupt this sense of harmony and trigger feelings of confusion and imbalance.

Desire for Closure: Individuals with the Moon in Libra value clear communication and fairness in relationships. When ghosted, they may seek closure and understanding, wanting to know why the other person chose to end communication abruptly.

Fear of Rejection: Libra is a sign associated with partnerships and cooperation, and those with the Moon in Libra may fear rejection and abandonment in relationships. Being ghosted can amplify these fears and lead to feelings of insecurity.

Seeking Validation: When ghosted, individuals with the Moon in Libra may seek validation and support from others. They may turn to friends or loved ones for reassurance, needing to feel valued and appreciated during this vulnerable time.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Libra):

Avoidance of Conflict: Moon in Libra individuals value peace and harmony and may choose ghosting as a way to avoid uncomfortable confrontations or conflicts. They may struggle to express their true feelings and may opt for silence instead.

Inner Conflict: Despite their desire to avoid conflict, individuals with Moon in Libra may experience inner conflict when ghosting someone. They may feel guilty about causing pain to the other person and may wrestle with feelings of indecision and uncertainty.

Idealization of Relationships: Libra is a sign associated with idealism and romance, and individuals with the Moon in Libra may struggle with the reality of ending relationships. They may hold onto idealized notions of love and partnership, making it difficult for them to acknowledge when a relationship is no longer working.

Potential Regret: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Libra may experience feelings of regret and guilt, especially if they later realize the impact of their actions on the other person. They may seek to reconcile or make amends, but their fear of confrontation and discomfort with conflict resolution could prevent them from reaching out directly.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Scorpio):

Intense Emotional Response: Moon in Scorpio individuals experience emotions deeply and intensely. Being ghosted can trigger feelings of betrayal, abandonment, and vulnerability, leading to a profound emotional reaction.

Desire for Truth: Scorpio is a sign associated with depth and investigation, and those with the Moon in Scorpio have a strong desire to uncover the truth. When ghosted, they may obsessively analyze the situation, searching for hidden motives or underlying reasons behind the ghosting.

Fear of Loss of Control: Scorpio is also associated with power and control, and being ghosted can challenge their sense of control in relationships. They may feel powerless and exposed, struggling to accept the sudden loss of connection.

Potential for Vengeful Thoughts: While not all Moon in Scorpio individuals will act on it, being ghosted can sometimes trigger vengeful thoughts or behaviors. They may feel a strong urge to seek revenge or retaliate against the person who ghosted them, especially if they perceive it as an act of betrayal.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Scorpio):

Guarded Emotions: Moon in Scorpio individuals are highly guarded with their emotions and may choose ghosting as a way to protect themselves from vulnerability. They may fear being hurt or rejected and may use silence as a defensive mechanism.

Fear of Confrontation: Scorpio is a sign associated with intensity and confrontation, but individuals with the Moon in Scorpio may struggle with direct confrontation when it comes to ending relationships. They may choose ghosting as a way to avoid difficult conversations or conflicts.

Desire for Closure: Despite their inclination towards secrecy, Moon in Scorpio individuals may still desire closure in relationships. They may struggle with feelings of guilt and inner turmoil, wanting to end the relationship cleanly but finding it difficult to express their true feelings.

Potential Regret: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Scorpio may experience feelings of guilt and regret, especially if they later realize the impact of their actions on the other person. They may seek to reconcile or make amends, but their fear of vulnerability and emotional exposure could prevent them from reaching out directly.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Sagittarius):

Optimistic Outlook: Moon in Sagittarius individuals tend to have an optimistic and forward-thinking attitude. When ghosted, they may initially feel disappointed, but they are quick to bounce back and maintain a positive outlook on life.

Desire for Freedom: Sagittarius is a sign associated with freedom and independence, and those with the Moon in Sagittarius may not be as emotionally attached to relationships as others. They may see being ghosted as a sign that the relationship wasn't meant to be and may embrace the opportunity for new experiences and adventures.

Seeking Understanding: Despite their optimistic nature, Moon in Sagittarius individuals value truth and understanding. When ghosted, they may seek closure by attempting to understand the other person's perspective or by reflecting on the lessons learned from the experience.

Focus on Personal Growth: After being ghosted, individuals with Moon in Sagittarius are likely to focus on their own personal growth and self-improvement. They may see the experience as a valuable learning opportunity and may channel their energy into pursuing new interests and expanding their horizons.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Sagittarius):

Desire for Independence: Moon in Sagittarius individuals value their freedom and may choose ghosting as a way to assert their independence. They may feel a need to explore new opportunities and experiences without feeling tied down by a relationship.

Avoidance of Confrontation: Sagittarius is a sign associated with directness and honesty, but individuals with the Moon in Sagittarius may struggle with direct confrontation when it comes to ending relationships. They may choose ghosting as a way to avoid uncomfortable conversations or conflicts.

Rationalization of Actions: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Sagittarius may rationalize their actions as necessary for their own personal growth and freedom. They may see it as a temporary disruption in the pursuit of their goals and may prioritize their own needs and desires.

Potential Regret: Despite their rationalization, Moon in Sagittarius individuals may experience moments of regret or doubt about their decision to ghost someone, especially if they later realize the impact of their actions on the other person. They may seek to reconcile or make amends, but their fear of commitment and need for independence could prevent them from reaching out directly.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Capricorn):

Emphasis on Stability: Moon in Capricorn individuals value stability and security in relationships. Being ghosted can disrupt their sense of stability and trigger feelings of insecurity and abandonment.

Reserved Response: Capricorn is a sign associated with reserve and self-control, and those with the Moon in Capricorn may not openly express their emotions when ghosted. Instead, they may internalize their feelings and may appear stoic on the surface.

Focus on Practicality: When ghosted, individuals with Moon in Capricorn are likely to approach the situation with a practical mindset. They may analyze the relationship for signs of instability or issues that led to the ghosting, seeking to understand the situation logically.

Desire for Control: Capricorn is also associated with control and authority, and being ghosted can challenge their need for control in relationships. They may feel powerless and frustrated by the lack of closure and may seek to regain control by focusing on their own goals and responsibilities.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Capricorn):

Sense of Duty: Moon in Capricorn individuals are responsible and conscientious, and they may choose ghosting as a way to fulfill their sense of duty or obligation. They may believe that ending communication abruptly is the most efficient way to move on from a relationship that is no longer serving them.

Emotional Reserve: Despite their practical nature, Moon in Capricorn individuals may struggle with expressing their emotions openly. They may choose ghosting as a way to avoid uncomfortable conversations or confrontations, preferring to maintain emotional distance.

Focus on Goals: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Capricorn are likely to redirect their energy toward their own goals and responsibilities. They may prioritize their career or personal ambitions, using the experience as motivation to achieve success.

Potential Regret: Despite their rationalization, Moon in Capricorn individuals may experience feelings of regret or guilt about ghosting someone, especially if they later realize the impact of their actions on the other person. They may seek to reconcile or make amends, but their fear of vulnerability and emotional expression could prevent them from reaching out directly.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Aquarius):

Intellectual Response: Moon in Aquarius individuals tend to approach emotions with a rational and detached mindset. When ghosted, they may analyze the situation objectively, focusing on facts rather than emotions.

Emotional Detachment: Aquarius is a sign associated with independence and detachment, and those with the Moon in Aquarius may not be as emotionally invested in relationships as others. They may respond to being ghosted with a sense of detachment, viewing it as a natural part of life rather than a personal rejection.

Seeking Understanding: Despite their emotional detachment, individuals with Moon in Aquarius value understanding and acceptance. When ghosted, they may seek closure by attempting to understand the other person's perspective or by reflecting on the lessons learned from the experience.

Focus on Individuality: After being ghosted, individuals with Moon in Aquarius are likely to focus on their own individuality and independence. They may see the experience as an opportunity to explore new interests and ideas, embracing their freedom to chart their own path.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Aquarius):

Desire for Independence: Moon in Aquarius individuals value their freedom and independence, and they may choose ghosting as a way to assert their autonomy. They may feel a need to explore new opportunities and experiences without feeling tied down by a relationship.

Avoidance of Confrontation: Aquarius is a sign associated with detachment and avoidance of emotional expression, and individuals with the Moon in Aquarius may struggle with direct confrontation when it comes to ending relationships. They may choose ghosting as a way to avoid uncomfortable conversations or conflicts.

Rationalization of Actions: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Aquarius may rationalize their actions as necessary for their own personal growth and freedom. They may see it as a natural progression of the relationship or as a way to maintain their independence.

Potential Regret: Despite their rationalization, Moon in Aquarius individuals may experience moments of regret or doubt about their decision to ghost someone, especially if they later realize the impact of their actions on the other person. They may seek to reconcile or make amends, but their fear of vulnerability and emotional expression could prevent them from reaching out directly.

Being Ghosted (Moon in Pisces):

Heightened Emotional Sensitivity: Moon in Pisces individuals are deeply sensitive and emotionally attuned. Being ghosted can deeply wound their sensitive nature, triggering feelings of abandonment, sadness, and confusion.

Tendency to Idealize Relationships: Pisces is a sign associated with idealism and romance, and those with the Moon in Pisces may have a tendency to idealize their relationships. Being ghosted can shatter their romantic illusions, leading to feelings of disillusionment and heartache.

Escape into Fantasy: When ghosted, individuals with Moon in Pisces may retreat into their imagination as a way to cope with the pain. They may indulge in daydreams or fantasies, seeking solace in a world of their own creation.

Desire for Spiritual Connection: Pisces is also associated with spirituality and transcendence, and those with the Moon in Pisces may seek comfort and guidance from spiritual practices or beliefs. They may turn to meditation, prayer, or other forms of spiritual exploration to find healing and peace.

Being the Ghoster (Moon in Pisces):

Avoidance of Conflict: Moon in Pisces individuals are compassionate and empathetic, and they may choose ghosting as a way to avoid causing pain or discomfort to the other person. They may struggle with direct confrontation and may opt for silence instead.

Tendency to Feel Guilt: Despite their compassionate nature, individuals with Moon in Pisces may experience feelings of guilt and remorse after ghosting someone. They may empathize with the other person's feelings and may feel troubled by the thought of causing them pain.

Escapism as Coping Mechanism: After ghosting someone, individuals with Moon in Pisces may turn to escapism as a way to avoid facing their own emotions. They may immerse themselves in distractions such as art, music, or other creative outlets, seeking temporary relief from feelings of guilt or discomfort.

Potential for Self-Sacrifice: Pisces is a sign associated with selflessness and sacrifice, and those with the Moon in Pisces may ghost someone out of a desire to protect the other person from pain. They may believe that ending communication abruptly is for the other person's own good, even if it causes them personal anguish.

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ASTRO OBSERVATIONS 33

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• People with Sun in the 8th house or aspecting Pluto might have been saved from situations because of their fathers name. For example might be threathened then the people find who your father is and apologizes.

• If you ask someone whats the worst thing someone ever said to them it will probably be something related to their Chiron placement. Because A when people touch our Chiron wound we remember it forever and B for some damn reason people seem to always touch where you have your Chiron wound bc its kinda obvious to others.

• If you have 10th house placements you have a trademark after your name, whatever you do you easily become known for it. People want to put a label on you and the themes of the planet you have there is the label thats most easily put. So when you have 10th house planets its extra important to think before you act.

• If you have Lilith conjunct North Node you need to learn to do your own thing. Ive seen people with this who didnt reach their potential until they refused to stop trying to fit in and be ”normal” . You are a class of your own. People will respond to you differently when you act like Lilith. Example: A rapper in my country have this placement in Virgo and was treated bad by other rappers bc of a beef he had on the streets and bla bla. Anyways he knew he wouldnt get collabs bc of this so he made it ”his” thing to never have a feature on his songs and to never do interviews and be on other rappers tracks. After this people started respecting him more. He used his inability to fit in to make himself look even better.

• Venus/Neptune involve their love interest in their art. A lot of rappers with this might want to have their partner on their albumcover, in their music video, paint their partner etc. Dating a man with this placement feels like being his muse.

• Be careful when you have Venus in Leo in the Solar Return Chart because this one can really make you want to SPLURGE. Especially clothes, bags and stuff that makes you look good. 💰🛒🛍️💸

• Talking to someone with a Mercury/Pluto or Mercury/Nessus placement can feel like being interrogated. Constant checking if you are lying, asking extra questions to see if you change your story, detailed questions to see if your story is true. Can be very exhausting to be around bc of this (sorry).

• Every Aquarius Rising Ive met looked better in person than on pictures. There is a striking quality that the camera have a hard time capturing. Same with Virgo and Pisces Rising.

• People with Jupiter conjunct personal planets are funnier when they are not trying than when they try to be funny.

• Nanisca the role played by Viola Davis in the movie ”Woman King” reminds me of Sun conjunct Lilith.

• People with Ceres(1) conjunct personal planets seem to not like adornment.

• Aura(1488) conjunct Mercury might come across as sneaky.

• Venus in the 8th house or Venus aspecting Pluto attracts people who would normally not want them which is why they need to be extra careful. They might be super tall and attract someone who usually only go for short people or vice versa. But because of the intense magnetism that having a plutonian venus gives everyone wants a taste of you no matter if they really WANT you or not. Be wary of who you share your energy with.

• Venus Square MC might feel like their looks and social skills doesnt match the career they want or how they want the public to see them.

• Juno(3) or Venus Square Mars are the kind of people to have a huge difference in taste when it comes to who they want to sleep with and who they see as relationship material.

• If you have Lilith in the 7th house or Lilith conjunct Venus your ex's new partners might become obsessed with you or you become obsessed with your partners ex's.

• Dejanira(157) conjunct Ascendant is probably the scariest synastry aspect Ive ever experienced. Experienced it 2 times and both times I was Ascendant and he was Dejanira. Very scary attacks. I can even look at pictures of these people.

• Mars conjunct MC can mean a lot of people are scared of you. A very intimidating placement. In a mans chart it makes other men look up to him. Women with this placement seem too struggle with this placement a lot tho since people are more likely to want to challenge a woman who comes across as intimidating.

• Scorpio Moons seem to be very fascinated with psychopaths.

• Sag Moons might have had extremely carefree parents. Thats why these people can be so good on their own, they raised themselves. But its also why they flee from issues because they were never forced to stay and solve stuff like in a normal family.

• Cancer Risings can be really intimidating, especially the eyes. Ive mistaken so many Cancer Risings for being Scorpio Risings.

• Populus(8647) conjunct Mercury might be more popular among younger people.

• Lilith in a womans chart seem to show what archetype she finds empowering and might even want to be and in a mans chart an archetype he finds fascinating. Ex. Lilith 2nd/8th: the golddigger femme fatale, black widow. Lilith 4th house: The family matriarch, Evil Stepmom. Lilith 10th house: The boss, the businesswoman, cold bitch. Lilith 7th house: The homewrecker, femme fatale, beauty queen, homecoming queen, Mr steal yo girl. (Not always ofc and mostly this goes for when you are underdeveloped)

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Not to be way too deep on main, but there’s this crippling realization as a Saturnian person that everyone expects you to be invincible to any type of pain—think of Saturn’s nature to freeze and numb—and when you fall apart, when you start crying, nobody ever knows what to do because they’re so used to you being the stable person, the responsible person, the level-headed person. It’s not fair.

[notanastrologer]

Astro observations 23

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18+ observations included. Minors DNI with that section and skip ahead to vedic astrology.

🧡💜Libra moon people often has a hard time trusting in romantic relationship. This is because they are emotionally very protective of themselves and guard themselves in the event something goes diff than expected. I also see them not getting ahead of themselves and be chill about it.

🧡💜Moon in 12th natives, tell me is your mom a good manifester? I see mothers of such natives have really good intuition and also the things they say or believe do happen.

🧡💜Check Groom (5129) in your Groom persona chart, and see where it falls in you natal chart. This shows areas of life where you might meet your future partner. Conjunct MC, shows meeting them at your workplace or through a co worker; In 7th house at place of business, events, weddings, etc.

🧡💜Neptune in 8th house synastry is a major sign of partner being obsessed. Neptune rules obsession and combined with 8th house intense energy, sometimes it's unlikely that you are unable to move on from the person or relationship.

🧡💜Aries/Capricorn/Aquarius/Scorpio rising in natal or in Ascendant persona chart are prone to acne skin.

🧡💜Aries in 8th/12th native's talents may not be evident to some people, it may go unnoticed very easily by people as Aries that rules action is away from public eye. You will come out with some projects or hobbies and people will be dumbfounded like "you like that?" "Since when?" " This is new".

🧡💜Saturn in 8th might have had to mature early about matters of old age or deaths.

🧡💜 Men with Mars in Fire signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius) or fire degrees (1°,5°,9°,13°,17°,21°,25°,29°) may have strong odor or they like using strong perfumes. This is applicable if Mars conjunct Venus as well.

🧡💜Cancer Mars men like to be held by their women.

🧡💜Men with Venus in Earth signs or degrees, may like the natural scent of their women.

🧡💜Neptune and Pluto in 10th and 6th house shows being prone to corruption and office politics.

🧡💜Capricorn in the big 3/Saturn dominant people tend to be very athletic or they are very good at sports.

🧡💜I have noticed that Sagittarius women (especially in big 3) have tendency to think to think if they have feelings towards the same gender. At one point or another's, they have found themselves contemplating if they are attracted to the same gender or what if they were.

🧡💜Lust (4386) trine sun/Mars in a woman's chart want their men to be completely obsessed with them sexually or want their romantic partners that are men to be always showing their attraction to them.

🧡💜Lust(4386) opposite/conjunct Saturn women may find themselves thirsting over authority figures that are out of reach or unattainable. This can also indicate a relationship that will be frowned upon by others or is unethical.

🧡💜Lust(4386) sextile/trine Venus/moon in a man's chart want their women partners to be free and expressive of their sexuality and sexual ambitions. If any of the placement is in Scorpio, men like their women lovers to be dominant or take charge.

🧡💜Lust (4386) in 8°,11°,20°,23° are attracted to people who are not available or unattainable. They may also be into the idea of forbidden love. They may like the mystery or just the fact other person isn't easy to get, so they enjoy the. Chase.

🧡💜Mars trine/sextile/opposite sun can show that people are attracted to you because of your personality.

🧡💜Mars trine/sextile/opposite Saturn can show people are attracted to you because of your maturity or how you handle yourself.

🧡💜I noticed that many Virgo risings tend to be attracted to occult practices be it reiki, astrology, numerology, feng-shui etc, possibly because the 3rd house ( house of hobbies) has Scorpio (occult and taboo topics).

🧡💜Venus in 4th/7th is such a pure placement, they never go out of their way or be the first ones to start a fight or rudeness. They will not send out bad vibes into the universe and can be very forgiving, but they are mostly to cut out toxic people when they say forgiven.

🧡💜Neptune in 7th/pisces in 7th or Neptune-Venus aspects expects a lot from their relationship and partnerships. Neptune -Venus aspect also makes you to prone dreamy expectations when it comes to money, you can be always expecting more but setting for less.

🧡💜Many Capricorn placements I know have great legs, they are also often fast runners. There legs are toned and slim or just has illusion of being long.

🧡💜Mars- Neptune aspects or Mars in Pisces or Mars in Pisces degrees (12°,24°) tends to jump a lot or enjoy jumping or even have a trampoline or activities that involve Bouncing.

🧡💜Virgo placements and Scorpio placements have bowel problems, this also means 6th house placements especially moon and sun in 6th. Scorpio/Pisces in 6th house are very prone to stomach issues as well.

🧡💜Sun-Venus aspects when under-developed are big braggers when it comes to their possessions, they will also exaggerate and try to over sell about their stuff.

🧡💜Mars in 2nd is one bully placement. They might have bullied people when young, like very young or they were violent as a child.

🧡💜Neptune in 10th/6th indicates working at a big corporate office.

🧡💜Neptune in 7th is a good placement where your business turns into a big company. This if supported by other placements in chart.

🧡💜Virgo moons have had a very organized childhood, they get early conditioning of how to do household chores and take on more responsibility.

🧡💜Venus in 8th house are slow to reveal their feelings whether romantic or non-romantic, they want the other person to day it first.

🧡💜Venus aspects Uranus have sudden bursts of moments when they realise their feelings. They ll be talking to someone for few months and years and suddenly just one thing or one whirl of wind will trigger that realisation "Oh do I like them".

🧡💜Natives with Virgo moon mother's prefer to have small group of friends, especially friends they made in school or at workplace.

🧡💜Virgo moon in 12th can have a hard time making friends at workplace, you will even have enemies at workplace which you may not know about. 12th house rules secret enemies.

🧡💜Moon placement in your chart also shows what you don't want others to know and what you secretly need.

🧡💜Following up on the observation above, which is why for me having your moon sign as one of the points of synastry with your romantic partner is so important. Could be your moon conjunct their big 3/Mars/Venus/angles.

🧡💜 Saturn in 3rd house may not get their desired due in school or with their childhood peers. Their talent may get overlooked or opportunities might get passed over to someone else.

🧡💜Planets in 28° in 9th house shows wealth from foreign lands.

🧡💜28° descendants or planets in 28° in 7th can mean money from lawsuits.

🧡💜Earth signs are so focused on getting the tangible results that experience or the intangible doesn't matter.

🧡💜Saturn in 4°,12°,8° is so skeptical of their happiness that they doubt it could end any minute, or they develop imposter syndrome.

🧡💜 Mercury ruled natives are so peculiarly observant that they don't even know that sometimes, that's why are they are great at making sense of things and analyses, because their eyes and ears are always working.

🧡💜One of the things 5th house stellium people despise the most is being ridiculed or made fun of.

🧡💜 Virgos are scared of being impulsive and saying things without thinking, as Aries is 8th sign.

🧡💜Stelliums with the Planets Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Pluto, and Neptune are the most powerful. These are slow moving planets and rarely in conjunction, if you have stellium with more than two planets in your chart, there's going to be a significant theme in your life related to that sign or house.

🧡💜Pluto in Air houses think about sex a lot.

🧡💜Moon/Venus in 12th are most likely to have ex-s that hate them and are obsessed with them.

🧡💜Sun in 9th or sun aspect 9th house lord shows a foreign citizenship is a possibility.

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🧡💜Mars- Neptune aspects or Mars in Pisces or Mars in Pisces degrees (12°,24°) women can bounce a lot when on top.

🧡💜Mars in pisces/Sagittarius or pisces (12°,24°) or Sagittarius degree(9°,21°) might c*m a lot or very easily. If its square Saturn, sometimes they may have to resist really hard not to finish very quickly.

🧡💜Mercury - Neptune/Pluto aspects or mercury in pisces or pisces degree (8°,12°,20°,24°) tends to watch lot of porn or have moments they would watch a lot of it altogether and then none. They might like to watch it especially when they are stressed.

🧡💜Leo sun women are some women I know who like their men dominant and masculine and are very much open to be into BDSM or call their partners Daddy.

🧡💜Mars in Cancer or cancer degrees (4°,16°,28°) men have a breeding kind. Same if a man's Mars lies in your 4th house in synastry. If a woman's Mars lies in a man's 4th house she wants to get impregnated with that man.

🧡💜 Mercury/Uranus conjunct Saturn in 8th can show someone is into old people po*n.

🧡💜Sagittarius Mars men wants to do it everywhere. And they are probably into teacher student roleplay.

🧡💜Sun in 8th has no problem taking charge of their own sexual experience, they will instruct and let you know what they want you to do.

🧡💜 Pluto in 6th/3rd/8th/12th/7th house in synastry thinks about having sex with you with a lot, they are taken by your sensuality and feels very enamored by you, they will take their time to feel you.

VEDIC ASTROLOGY

🧡💜Ketu in 5th house may not enjoy being in the limelight or it can even be difficult for them to be popular for long, you can be overshadowed by your older sibling too.

🧡💜Atmakaraka conjunct darakaraka natives can be obsessed with finding their true love.

🧡💜Jupiter darakaraka natives can get spouse who behaves like a teacher.

🧡💜4th house/10th house darakaraka can get spouse who likes to take care of you.

🧡💜Whichever house your atmakaraka is in, you become to focused on it.

7th house- romance, 5th house- fame, success, 9th house - higher education, religion, spirtuality, gurus, 10th house-career.

🧡💜Mercury/Ketu/Rahu in 9th have potential to change their religion.

🧡💜Ardra natives are prone to regret very fast, they may often create situations that is not very good for them but are also receptive to mistakes they make and had instant regrets.

🧡💜Swati nakshatra natives especially with placements in 2nd house/10th house will use their talent and knowledge to live a comfortable lifestyle, they strive for independence but in these houses they strive for independence through financial independence. This is also a good placement especially for artistic and musicians if there is no afflictions.

🧡💜If your older siblings happen to have a Jyeshtha nakshatra they will run your house.

🧡💜If your 7th house lord or Venus is in Jyeshtha nakshatra your spouse will run the household.

🧡💜Kritika nakshatra planets in 2nd house or 6th house or 2nd house lord or 6th house lord in Kritika nakshatra should be careful while eating food that are pointy or with bones, if afflicted these can be harmful.

🧡💜Moon darakaraka may have spouses who lives your home town or is from around.

🧡💜Aspects on to your darakaraka says all the additional information you need to know about your spouse. Conjunctions have the most say. If they are in a Stellium, the closest planet represents qualities your spouse will have.

🧡💜If you have Darakaraka of natal chart in 4th house of navamsa chart (D-9 chart) free of any afflictions, your spouse will be your source of happiness.

🧡💜 If you have Darakaraka of natal chart in 9th house of navamsa chart (D9 charts) your spouse can be a foreigner.

🧡💜Saturn in 1st/3rd do not like to be rushed, they get annoyed and it is most often not evident on their face.

🧡💜Aquarius ketu doesn't like to talk about the past or think much about their past mistakes.

🧡💜Rahu in 11th house means your friends living away from you. Even when I moved abroad my friends there some stayed and some had to move to another country.

🧡💜 1st house lord in dual Virgo, Gemini, pisces or Sagittarius is a strong indication that you will travel to foreign countries.

🧡💜1st house lord conjunct 7th house lord/9th house lord/12th house lord will also travel to foreign countries.

🧡💜Rahu in 10th house shows working for an international company or abroad.

🧡💜Ketu in 4th often doesn't want anything to do with their family or family history.

🧡💜Sun/Saturn/Mars/Ketu in 2nd house causes some issues with family to make them leave their family for abroad.

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[astrobydalia]

Your present... Relationship observations pt. IV

I know you guys love these so here's more! As always, enjoy and happy holidays!

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A common thing I've seen in the charts of people who are firmly monogamous is moon-mercury aspects (this is not the only indicator ofc). Their decisions and interests are guided by what they feel so once they set their heart on someone... that's it for them

A very interesting lesson that I took from doing so many synastry/composite readings is that the "like attracts like" trope is WAY more powerful than the "opposites attract" trope. Here are some of the most common similarities I've spotted:

couples sharing the same ASC (this one is SO common)

Very similar aspects to the moon: I’ve noticed many couples have each of their moons aspecting the same planets, specially, outer planets, usually in similar (sometimes even the same) aspects. For example person A has Moon Square Pluto and person B has moon opposite Pluto (both harsh aspects)

A common thing I've seen in many couples synastry is Venus square Venus aspect

On the other hand I’ve noticed that flings or really passionate relationships tend to have Moon square moon in synastry

Moon sextile Moon relationships are so perfect imo. They have the easy understanding of the trine and the passion of the square/opposition

I’ve seen a lot of unrequited love situations have Venus square/opposite Moon. The moon person is attached to and idolizes the Venus person. The Venus person enjoys moon’s company but they aren’t that romantically involved or interested

Earth Moons are very fond of stability what is known to them but they secretly want someone who takes them out of their comfort zone and opens them up to deep and exciting emotional experiences. I've noticed they usually end up with partners who are more sensitive, expressive and spontaneous

I’ve noticed Venus-Pluto natives (square, opposition, conjunction) end up building some kind of resentment towards their long-term partners overtime and won’t let them go. The type to spend years married to some they secretly hate and also the type of person who demonizes every single one of their exes. It’s like they tend to attract relationships that wake up a dark side in them

Something I keep seeing over and over is that Cancer placements are playerssssss (both men and women). They will treat you like you’re “the one” but that doesn’t necessarily mean they have an actual intention to settle with you😭 they're just getting carried away by what they feel in moment so I guess they are unintentional players???

Leo and Libra placements on the other hand are intentional players imo. They love the romance and chasing just for the validation it gives them

In order to keep a Cardinal Venus/Moon interested you need to keep showing up like your relationship is brand new. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve be together or how comfortable you are with each other, they want their partner to still make an effort to impress and romance them like it’s the first date and they're bound to do the same

Women with Libra Mars I've noticed tend to attract mamas boys or child-like men with mommy issues. These women are always the dominant or mature ones in their relationships

Capricorn Mars women are dominant too and have a strong character but they chase men who are equally as independent as them if not more

Something I’ve noticed with Pisces/Neptune 7th house (and also Pisces Venus/Juno to an extent) is that yeah they put their partner on a pedestal but they also low-key tend to take their partner for granted? I’ve noticed they expect their partner to be indulgent, permissive and basically tolerate their bs. Little is talked about how their tendency to ignore red flags goes both ways; they want their partner to ignore their red flags too and forgive all their behaviors

What is up with Aquarius and Pisces placements attracting each other all the damn time?

Water Venus/Mars win the award for most obsessive lovers out there

I’ve seen a lot of people with Mars in the 7th house who were divorced or never married. One friend of mine who has this placement says she doesn’t want to marry at all or have a relationship cause she’s too independent

Women with fixed Mars are attracted to men who have rough or bold characteristics such as beard, tattoos, toned body, deep voice, etc. or just a very bold presence in general. They also have a thing for men who have a very confident, understated and nonchalant demeanor/personality to them

Women with mutable Mars and their attraction to flighty and chaotic men who don’t give them the time of day. I’ve seen this countless times 😭😭😭

I've seen harmonious aspects between Mars-Moon in people that work very well together! This aspect typically means fertility which in a work environment translates into a fruitful relationship. The two people wanting to create/initiate things together with lots of motivation

Who came up with the idea that Aries Moon/Venus are disloyal and flighty? All I keep seeing irl is these natives tend to have a strong attachment to their partners. Once they're in your corner they won't ever let you go fr. They could have a tendency to get attached to the wrong people tho

I’ve seen many many couples having 7th house Mars in synastry but this overlay is super chaotic imo, creates a back and forth dynamic that ends nowhere. The house person is the chaser here, they are always pushing commitment on the Mars person cause they don’t want the mars person to “slip away” or something. The mars person enjoys the eagerness of the house person and finds it very attractive and could enjoy challenging the house person’s interest. Eventually if the mars person isn’t that interested they get bored and are often the first ones to walk away

A very similar outcome I've seen happens with 7th house Mars in Composite. This could make the bond between the two a bit "forced" and dragged out. This also means the connection will really be put to the test, you guys may have to fight for your connection a lot which can either bond you more or exhaust you, could eventually become tired of the relationship and how much energy it takes to keep it alive.

I have a theory that your preferred house overlays could be indicated by your Venus/7th house/Juno. For example if you have Leo Venus you might enjoy 5th house synastry, if you have Neptune or Pisces in the 7th house you might feel comfortable with 12th house synastry, etc. Let me know what you think about this

I’ve noticed that 8th house synastry results in a lot of physical touch going on so people who have this as their love language might be specially fond of this overlay. This is the couple that literally can’t keep their hands off each other

Scorpio Moons 🤝 sabotaging the few healthy relationships they have in their life. They eventually learn to keep the right people after really going through it tho

With 7th house synastry you can really feel like something's missing when you don't have that person around.

When moon falls in fire houses in synastry the two people are always excited to see each other

Moon in 1st house in synastry is the only 1st house overlay that is not superficial. The connection is usually very genuine while it lasts. This person likely sparks a lot of nostalgia and you remember them fondly

When someone’s personal planets fall in your 4th house, you feel like this person can see you for who you truly are deep down

Gemini Venus/Juno/7th house: the people they date tend to have almost identical characteristic, there's always this blatant "twin" factor in the people they date or attract. For example all their exes worked in the same industry, have the exact same personality, etc

Venus Observations...

Libra Venus has the rep for being big flirts and charmers but this is actually a Cardinal Venus thing tbh cause, as I've said in a past post, they love the chase, they just all do it in different ways

It's true Virgo Venus are picky but this doesn't necessarily mean they have high standards. Yes, stay with me here. These natives have a very clear series of characteristics they want a partner to meet and that's how they are picky/critical (earth) but if those boxes are checked, they don't care much about anything else (mutable) and can be quite flexible. They don’t really care if their partner is not the most sought after person

In contrast, Capricorn Venus are picky AND have high standards. They want the best of the best, the perfect partner

Virgo Venus wants a partner that doesn’t need validation however they want their partner to validate them all the time

Aquarius Venus will only commit if they see a future with that person. Not only they are ruled by Saturn (which rules longevity) but they are also ruled by Uranus which rules innovation, Aquarius is the visionary of the zodiac so Aquarius Venus people need to feel like their partner will help them evolve or "upgrade" as a person in some way (not in a materialistic way like Capricorn but rather mentally). That's why they are attracted to people who are "different", intelligent or eccentric

The reason why Aquarius Venus is "flighty" as per my observation is because they tend to go for partners who are radically different from them and as a result they often stumble upon many incompatible partners

Leo Venus is very underrated when it comes to acts of service, I’ve noticed this is a very common love language for them

In my experience Pisces Venus natives are SO deceitful and immature. I'm sorry I really wanted to like this placement but they always make me cringe and are only cute on the surface imo. The type to lead everyone on by saying things they don’t mean and exaggerating compliments. They’re very passive in love and romanticize bare minimum. This means they don't expect their partner to take accountability but the native never takes accountability themselves either. They ignore issues in relationships and instead of working things through they expect everything to be fixed with lovebombing and/or pretending like nothing happened. Men with this placement tend to be emotionally unavailable and always want to date a doormat girl. Women with this placement are childish and tend to have princess complex

The only Venus sign that doesn't care much about looks from what I've seen is Scorpio Venus. They care more about the bond and chemistry over their partner fitting a certain type.

Also, what is up with Scorpio Venus and dating people they don’t actually like that much or at all? 🤨 They be dating people that low-key annoy them

Libra, Leo, Capricorn and Taurus Venus very much care about looks in a partner. Taurus/Capricorn Venus natives I've noticed pay special attention to how a potential partner dresses and grooms themselves

All Fixed Venus natives are pretty obsessive to honest, it's not just Scorpio. I've noticed they like the idea of having some sort hold or control over their partner. Their love language is making themselves indispensable in some way cause they enjoy feeling like they're partner will always need them and won't get away from them

Men with Pisces/Libra/Cancer/Taurus Venus have a thing for women who are people pleasers or stereotypically feminine and charming. They like it when a woman is kind, gentle, understanding, accommodating, etc

Men with Fire Venus are attracted to confident and independent women who have this it girl vibe to them

Something else I’ve noticed with Fixed Venus natives is that they have a thing for partners that have a mysterious or reserved vibe to them. Not necessarily introverted, but people who protect their privacy or keep to themselves a lot.

Mutable Venus fall for partners that have this very open and outgoing vibe to them. Again, not necessarily extroverted, but people who have a more bubbly personality

Cardinal Venus natives will only fall in love with someone who they deeply admire. They commit to people who have this put together/respectable vibe to them

Juno Observations...

I've actually observed Juno synastry is very significant in business relationships not just romantic ones. In fact, those married couple I've seen with heavy Juno synastry also tended to be involved in business together

Sagittarius Juno I've seen manifests mostly as the native getting a spouse that is very permissive and gives them a lot of freedom, a spouse that never says no to anything. This placement overall gives a very respectful and supportive spouse. However because of this the Sag Juno native will have a tendency to cross boundaries in the marriage and take their spouse for granted

In general both Sagittarius and Pisces Juno have a tendency to "abandon" their spouses either physically or emotionally and kinda forget about them from time to time. This doesn't necessarily have to mean disloyalty tho.

Sag Juno natives want to feel like they have the freedom to go and do their own thing, like they'll leave for days or weeks on end and their spouse won't mind and will indeed support the native. They don’t like to feel like marriage hinders their desire to live freely but rather encourages it. Side note: I have seen some cases in which Sag Juno natives actually did abandon their spouses/families either for another partner or because they were perusing better opportunities

Pisces Juno natives will give a more sacrificial energy kinda like "babe I love you but I have to go, I'm sorry". There's something that stops the native from actually being there for their spouse, but this placement indicates the spouse is bound to be very forgiving because they'll see is not your fault in a way

Cancer/Capricorn Juno is an indicator of having a marriage with traditional gender roles or traditional values.

I’ve noticed Scorpio Juno natives or Scorpio ASC in the Juno PC have a marriage that REALLY rubs people the wrong way. Others could see your relationship as toxic or even predatory in nature. People believe that you landed your spouse (or vice versa) through manipulation, abuse, deceit, stalking, controlling behavior, etc. This placement also means you met when either of you were going through a hard time so there could be some case of trauma bonding here

I’ve seen that soulmate relationships tend have their Junos in the same element (most common case). Honorary mentions: Juno in opposite signs or signs ruled by the same planet

Leo Juno natives are a bit flighty and afraid of commitment. They just want a partner for the sake of the romance and feeling spoiled. They want the relationship to stay fun and playful and really dislike the sense of seriousness and "settlement" that can come with marriage sometimes

With Juno in the 7th house either you or your spouse will be in a relationship when you meet

When looking at the Juno PC, Capricorn placements/Saturn in the angels/Saturn conjunct inner planets indicates long-lasting marriage

Fixed Juno natives will have a spouse that is completely fascinated and obsessed with them. You want your spouse to worship you specially with Leo and Taurus Juno. The way your spouse will love you will boost your ego thus acting more confidently after marriage. The energy of the marriage could be a little overbearing or suffocating depending on other aspects

I've observed this in virtually all cases with Virgo Juno have a tendency to attract very inconsiderate partners that make them feel like they're not good enough (the opposite can be true). They had unsuccessful first marriage that drained the shit out of them but they eventually find someone who is very modest and nurturing

Cancer/4th house Juno natives have a VERY hard time moving on from their exes if they ever saw that person as marriage material.

From what I've seen Capricorn Juno doesn't create that much of a delay or age gap in marriage. It can of course, but in most cases these natives marry in their late 20s to their first serious bf/gf and they usually have an age difference of 2-5 years approximately. This placements I’ve seen manifests mostly as “I married my high school/collage sweetheart and we’ve been together forever” kinda scenario OR marrying someone from your past you reconnect with later in life

Scorpio, Pisces, Capricorn and Aquarius Juno indicates you'll marry your soulmate or your relationship with your fs is karmic or from a past life. You might meet your spouse after fulfilling some karmic lesson or some life milestone

Cardinal Juno/Juno in the angles tend to be very proud of their spouses or being married in general. Could be the type to be very invested in finding a life partner cause they tend to turn marriage into a very essential part of their lives and themselves

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What blocks your success? Mars in signs

Your Mars tells about how you act and make decisions. Let's see what doesn't let you succeed.

Mars in Aries

Mars in Aries is an intriguing astrological placement that gives you a quick, fiery, and decisive nature. You tend to be bold and eager to take action, never shying away from a challenge or opportunity. However, your impulsive tendencies can sometimes get the best of you, causing you to act before thinking things through. It's important to check the aspects and house your Mars is in if you struggle to make decisions or act purposefully.

While you may not be afraid to take action, you often find yourself regretting your hasty decisions later on. This fear of making mistakes can sometimes hold you back, preventing you from acting and moving forward. Although fear can be a helpful guide, it can also hinder your ability to take calculated risks and pursue your goals.

In the moment of making a decision, you feel motivated and inspired, convinced that you're on the right path. However, the reactive nature of Mars in Aries can sometimes make you feel like you want everything right now without considering the long-term consequences. It can lead to impulsive actions that you later regret. By understanding your tendencies and working to balance your desire for action with thoughtful consideration, you can make the most of your Mars in Aries placement and achieve your goals with confidence and purpose.

Mars in Taurus

Have you ever felt like you're unable to take action because of the fear of wasting your time and energy? This mindset can cause you to be in a constant state of energy conservation, only engaging in activities you deem helpful or worthy. When faced with a problem, you tend to take your time to think it through, even if you've already come up with a solution. You wait, hoping the problem will resolve itself rather than taking a risk or seizing the opportunity to act.

The idea of wasting your time and energy is a significant concern, so always create a plan to minimize your resource expenditure. While being cautious is important, this mindset may hold you back from taking advantage of potential opportunities and achieving your goals.

Mars in Gemini

As a Gemini Mars, your mutable nature can sometimes hinder your ability to take action when faced with a problem. You possess many ideas for solving said problem, but the challenge lies in selecting the most optimal solution. Seeking advice from your friends and loved ones is a common practice, as it helps you gain a broader perspective and consider different angles. While communication is an important part of your problem-solving process, it's just one of the ways you approach the task at hand. You tend to share your ideas and receive advice but ultimately make your own decisions. During a conversation, you may indicate that a particular solution is the best option, only to change your mind later. It is because you weigh your options and consider different perspectives before making a final decision. Ultimately, what matters is that you come to a decision that aligns with your values and feels right to you.

Mars in Cancer

It's a common experience to find oneself blocked from taking action due to overwhelming emotions. In such moments, rational thinking seems impossible, as you tend to be hindered by your feelings and lose sight of the problem. It's easy to take things personally and fail to see the bigger picture, which can cause you to withdraw entirely and shut down in certain situations. However, suppressing our emotions doesn't make them disappear; it only creates more frustration.

Cancer Mars individuals are known to be emotional and sensitive. However, at times, they tend to suppress their emotions, which can lead to stress and anxiety. They need to find a way to express their emotions healthily. They should not fear their feelings, as they are part of who they are.

It is important to note that Cancer Mars individuals should not let their emotions control their actions. Instead, they should find a balance between their emotions and rational thinking. By doing so, they can achieve their goals without being too hard on themselves.

Mars in Leo

It's common for your pride and fear of failure to become significant barriers to action. Your initial reaction may be to ignore the problem and shift the blame onto someone else. Meanwhile, your fear of failure can be so overwhelming that you become paralyzed and unable to take action.

You may have an intense desire to be the best, but the thought of failing in front of others can be terrifying. It can cause you to hesitate and second-guess yourself, preventing you from taking the necessary steps to solve the problem. Ultimately, it would help if you recognized that failure is an inevitable part of the learning process and that it's okay to make mistakes. The key is to persevere and learn from your failures, using them as stepping stones to future success.

Mars in Virgo

Do you ever find yourself stuck in a cycle of planning and strategizing, only to feel like your plans are never perfect enough to put into action? This mindset can be incredibly limiting, causing you to hold back from taking action because you fear failure or losing control. It can be challenging to balance caution and action; sometimes, your desire for control over every little detail can become paralyzing.

The fear of chaos and uncertainty can be so overwhelming that you spend too much time analyzing and overthinking, causing the problem to worsen. It's important to recognize when pursuing perfection hinders your progress and to take imperfect action to move toward your goals.

Also, you tend to overthink your problems, thinking about every scenario that may or may not happen. Ultimately, you can't see the bigger picture.

Mars in Libra

At times, it's not uncommon for this placement to feel stuck and unsure of which direction to take. One possible reason for this could be indecisiveness. Overanalyzing and weighing the pros and cons of every action can make decision-making a daunting task.

Additionally, if you're in a co-dependent relationship, you may rely heavily on your partner's opinion when it comes to making choices. It can lead to planning your actions based on your partner's life rather than your own. If you recognize these tendencies in yourself, it's important to be mindful and make sure you're making decisions that align with your own desires and goals.

Mars in Scorpio

You possess a remarkably vibrant and tenacious personality, with Mars in Scorpio accentuating your drive and passion. However, this may lead you to adopt an "all or nothing" approach toward your endeavors, and it can be challenging for you to regulate your resources effectively, resulting in a sense of stagnation and frustration. Perhaps you've been pushing yourself too hard, and now you're feeling burnt out and unproductive. In such cases, taking a break and restoring your energy levels is crucial.

Moreover, your inclination towards being overly cautious, suspicious, and fearful may also hinder you from taking necessary actions. You can perceive what is hidden beneath the surface, which could instill a sense of doubt and hesitation in you, making it difficult to trust your gut and act on your instincts. However, balancing prudence and action is essential to accomplish your objectives and success.

Mars in Sagittarius

Sagittarius Mars individuals are known for their enthusiastic and adventurous spirit. They are full of inspiration and ideas, always seeking new experiences and challenges to conquer. However, the problem with having so many interests and passions is that it can be difficult to focus all their energy on just one thing.

Sagittarius Mars natives constantly seek new opportunities and adventures, often feeling restless when stuck in one place or situation for too long. They crave variety and excitement, which can make it challenging to commit to a single project or goal. They may start multiple endeavors at once, only to lose interest or become distracted before they can see them through to completion.

While this can be frustrating for those around them, Sagittarius Mars individuals do not lack motivation or drive. They have too many interests and passions to pursue and struggle to choose just one. They may benefit from finding ways to channel their energy and focus on a particular goal or project while still allowing themselves the freedom to explore their other interests on the side.

Overall, Sagittarius Mars individuals have a lot of potential and creativity. Still, they may need to improve their focus and discipline to achieve their goals and dreams.

Mars in Capricorn

Capricorn Mars individuals are known for their dedication, persistence, and strategic thinking. They approach their goals with a powerful and determined mindset, willing to put in the hard work and effort to succeed. However, to truly excel, they need to have a goal they genuinely believe in and are passionate about.

Setbacks or obstacles do not easily deter Capricorn Mars natives. They are willing to put in the time and effort to achieve their goals and understand that success often requires a long-term approach. They are strategic thinkers who identify opportunities and plan their actions accordingly.

However, Capricorn Mars individuals may need a clear goal or purpose to channel their energy and focus. They need a driving force, a reason to invest their time and effort into a particular project or endeavor. They may benefit from reflecting on their values and priorities and identifying a goal that aligns with these beliefs.

Once they have a goal, Capricorn Mars individuals are a force to be reckoned with. They are willing to put in the hard work and dedication necessary to succeed and are not easily swayed by distractions or setbacks. They are powerful and determined, capable of achieving great things when they have a clear purpose and goal driving them forward.

Overall, Capricorn Mars individuals are powerful and strategic thinkers, but they need a strong sense of purpose and belief to excel truly. With a clear goal in mind, they can achieve great things and make a lasting impact in their chosen field.

Aquarius Mars

An Aquarius Mars person may get easily distracted from their goals by idealization. They tend to have a very idealistic approach to life, sometimes leading to a lack of focus and direction. They may become so absorbed in their dreams and ideals that they lose sight of the practical steps they need to take to achieve their goals. As a result, they may find themselves constantly starting new projects without ever following through on any of them. They need to learn to balance their idealism with a practical approach to achieving their goals.

An Aquarius Mars person has their Mars in a fixed sign, meaning they have the tenacity and determination to achieve whatever they put their mind to. However, they can sometimes get bogged down by their own idealism and lofty goals. To truly let their genius ideas bloom, they need to learn to let go of their idealization and embrace a more flexible approach. By doing so, they can harness their natural creativity and innovation to achieve great things and impact the world.

Pisces Mars

Pisces Mars individuals are known for their heightened intuition and empathetic nature. They possess a deep sense of compassion that enables them to connect with people on a deeper level. However, they may need help with logical thinking and practicality due to their tendency to get lost in their own thoughts and emotions. As a result, they may find it challenging to stay focused and organized, leading to a lack of structure in their lives. Additionally, their inclination towards idealism and vivid imagination may cause them to get lost in illusions and daydreams. Despite these challenges, their intuitive and compassionate nature allows them to offer a unique perspective and a deep understanding of others.

Lack of structure doesn't allow them to achieve goals persistently. These individuals start blaming themselves for not being good enough and get lost in regret and old traumas. You need to add some structure to your life in a way that works for you. You need to use all your senses to understand which kind of routine works for you.

[vivmaek]

MARS SIGN OBSERVATIONS

♂ Pisces Mars - I think Lennie Small from “Of Mice and Men,” would have this placement. This is a person who is seemingly harmless, and yet they still managed to cause harm and destruction through indirect action. When looking at someone with a Pisces Mars, their innocence and an assumed lack of strength is noticed first. These are kind people. They would rather harm themselves over another person. Their first instinct isn’t to attack, but to defend. When angry, they appear to be caught up within a panic. A Pisces Mars is driven by their big dreams. They might not always know what they want out of life, and their goals and ambitions may change frequently. This does not mean that they are incapable of finding success. If anything, their unwavering belief in themselves and their ability to achieve the impossible is what takes them to great heights. Hope is everything for someone with this placement, it’s what gets them out of bed in the morning. 

♂ Aquarius Mars - It's hard to pin someone with this placement down. Their actions don’t make sense to other people. Aquarius does a good job showing its eccentricity through Mars. The rules of society and the opinions of others do not dictate their actions. These types are constantly surprising people, and they like this. The public will often speculate about those with an Aquarius Mars. Theories are formed about them, no one can guess what they’re going to do next. In my opinion, this is the most rebellious Aquarius placement. They live their life in a manner that is truly unconventional. People with this placement are not aggressive, but they are clever. They like outsmarting people. A sense of superiority can sometimes act as a driving force. They go out of their way to make the people around them feel stupid if they’re in a foul mood. Their need for independence will never be forsaken. 

♂ Capricorn Mars - Hard work doesn’t scare these people off. They’ll put in whatever energy is needed to complete a project or endeavor. A strong sense of ambition and an excellent sense of focus are traits commonly seen with this placement. They’re quite secure in themselves and exercise self control through all their actions. Discipline motivates them. They take their responsibilities seriously and expect others to do the same. A Capricorn Mars goes above and beyond what is expected of them. They do this through a step-by-step process and practical planning. Cutting corners or taking the easy way out is something you’d never catch them doing. These types want to maintain control over every aspect of their life. They become angry when plans are thrown into a disarray through unexpected events. “Going with the flow,” is not a strong suit of theirs. Their need for security is what motivates them. 

♂ Sagittarius Mars - People with this placement are incredibly restless. They lack patience and need many different outlets to pour their energy into. They are easy going but are also quickly overtaken by passion. Crossing their moral beliefs is a good way to get them riled up. They like to believe that their opinions are more intellectual than they are emotional. When angry they like to get up on a soap box to lecture people. When people don’t agree with them, it can sometimes feel like criticism. They also don’t consider how their tendency to dish out brutal honesty may actually be more hurtful than it is impactful. They often act as a spark that ignites fire, in both a positive and a negative way.

♂ Scorpio Mars - The definition of “moving in silence.” Lots of people claim to do this, but a Scorpio Mars wouldn’t be caught making such a claim. They’re smarter than that. They know that hardship and struggle are inevitable. This does not scare them, but they also don’t fight against the natural currents of life. During certain points, their sense of ambition is so relentless that it becomes obsessive. But, this can only last so long. Rest and recuperation is a process they embrace. After acting on an immense level of concentration for a long period of time, they will need to take a step back to reassess goals. Rather than just accepting things for the way they are, a Scorpio Mars would rather make changes. If they feel that a path is ill-suited for them, they’re not afraid to change directions. Starting from zero is not discouraging and it is something that motivates these types. They have the power to turn nothing into something great. 

♂ Libra Mars - Mars is uncomfortable being in Libra. People with this placement often struggle with taking action and are as indecisive as they come. They get caught up in what's fair and what isn’t. They have a strong need to strike equality and want every situation to be as balanced as possible. Some might be surprised to know that the ultimate desire for these types is to garner a sense of peace. They might unintentionally stir the pot through their inability to take a strong stance on something. They want to weigh all the options possible and can become stressed trying to do so. Being passive-aggressive is also something that's frequently seen with this placement. These types think they’re being nice when in reality they’re making people uncomfortable through their fear of being direct. They’re sneaky when faced with conflict but also good at leading people into a resolution. 

[astrognossienne]

venus or libra in the houses

Planetary expression in the houses differs slightly from sign expression. As I said previously:

Planet = What? Energy - what are you doing? Sign = How? Which way do you do it?

So here’s how the planetary influence of Venus and its corresponding sign influence, Libra, function in the houses.

venus in the houses:

1st: You have a conventionally attractive physical appearance as well as a charming, friendly, yet “me first” attitude and personality. You’re acceptable and like to present a perfect persona. You tend to be lucky in life. Working intimately with the public serves you well, although you can be lazy when it comes to standing up for others. Flattery and attention gets others everywhere when it comes to you, because you feel that it proves your value and worth. Paradoxically, as selfish as you are, you’re actually anxious to be liked, and gaining friends and popularity is very important to you.

2nd: You attract resources and money to you without too much difficulty. Might be a beneficiary of an inheritance. You love the comforts of life and like to enjoy the best life has to offer, and you gain pleasure and satisfaction and a sense of well-being from owning beautiful and valuable things, and from possessing material assets.

3rd: You attract good things to you due to your inherently pleasant nature. You’re creative and imaginative. You make an effective salesperson with your persuasive charm, and you are a good raconteur. Your social affairs have a lot of emphasis in your life. You are almost always likeable, although you can be changeable. You look for mental affinity in a partner. Your friends are treated as part of the family. You are able to fit into different situations and environments easily.

4th: Your domestic surroundings are very important to you. You like them to be as comfortable, beautiful and luxurious as possible, and your home often reflects you good taste. You are loving at the roots of your being. Decorating can provide a great deal of satisfaction, as well as cooking, gardening and entertaining. You have an optimistic nature, which makes you popular with others.

5th: You may be accused of not taking life seriously enough, because you love to play so much. You will probably experience many affairs before you settle down with the one permanent relationship. You are in love with love, and tend to confuse sex with love. Being in love makes you feel alive. You need to be in love to feel happy and fulfilled. 

6th: You may meet your marriage partner in the workplace. Most of your associations will be made at work, where you will enjoy pleasant working conditions; you might even be popular with those you work with. Your work may involve you with women, the arts, property or leisure activities. You generally enjoy good health.

7th: You attract love effortlessly from others because you are warm and sympathetic, giving, charming and diplomatic, as well as popular and attractive. You are also the main Venus placement to attract a loving partner. You’re considerate and thoughtful, lavishing love on your partner. A close and secure relationship brings you a sense of wholeness and fulfillment, whether on a personal or a business level. You tend to overly rely on other people’s approval and see yourself and your beauty and value in terms of how it is seen by others, rather than in its own right.

8th: You are romantically imaginative and intensely sensual, but also jealous and possessive. You may suffer from inertia and lack discipline, and other things tend to take a back seat to your desires. Sexual experience is a vital part of any emotional relationship for you. In fact, you require emotional commitment if you are to have a fulfilling sexual relationship at all. Might come into an inheritance.

9th: You possess the ability to feel at home with anyone anywhere, and your friends may come from many varied backgrounds. You appreciate beautiful things. You long for and chase greener pastures; you often feel an emotional attraction toward foreign cultures, so you may well end up marrying a person from a different race, creed or culture, or spend a lot of your life abroad.

10th:  You effortlessly attract attention; you work and play hard to achieve your aims, and you probably won’t experience much trouble attaining material comfort. You get on well with those in authority. Your social skills will be utilized in your work situation, and your social life may well revolve around your work. You find yourself attracted to influential people with good connections, who can enhance your own social status and connections. These are the people who have your respect and admiration.

11th: You enjoy your social life and going out with your many friends. Other people are attracted to your warm and outgoing personality, and your circle of friends and acquaintances is very wide. You enjoy being with your friends and are able to form long-lasting friendships. You will probably even marry someone from your own social crowd.

12th: You dislike arguments and might be mentally lazy. Your innate shyness may prevent you from gaining the friendship and affection of those people who you admire most. You can be a little secretive about your emotions and feelings, and about the way a relationship is faring, as if going public would be in some way harmful. You want your love to have no boundaries or limits—to be a perfect love. You also love what others may reject, such as someone who is downtrodden, or who is a person that nobody else understands.

libra in the houses:

1st: The development of your relationships with others is of primary importance. Your need for companionship is great and you’re the type that can’t be alone. You’re charming and kind, almost calculatedly so. You’re indecisive and undependable in a crisis, and won’t stand and be counted in an important issue due to your desire for peace at all costs. As such, you play it safe and become part of status quo due to your intense need to be liked and accepted by everyone.

2nd: You’re always trying to balance your checkbook as well as your relationships. You believe in order. You like a job where you don’t get your hands or clothes dirty. You’re neat, fastidious, and totally fussy. At turns, you could be reckless with your money or downright stingy, all depending on your mood and the people you’re around. You dislike smuttiness and crudeness and have a very refined nature.

3rd: You have a strong desire to please those in your immediate environment due to your love of harmony. You’re not one for chaotic scenes and you’re loathe to get into any arguments unless you’re pushed. Your mind is refined, artistic, and idealistic. You have a mental sensitivity, as opposed to an emotional one, and you like to cooperate and be accommodating with people.

4th: You need a home and aren’t happy without some sort of roots. This gives you a sense of emotional security, which is important for you. You want to own the things and people in your life. Your challenge is to achieve a proper balance between you soul and your personality in order for you to get any peace in life. You’re restless, and you find it difficult to sit still long enough to ascertain who you are and what you really want out of life.

5th: Your ability to express yourself depends on those your associate with, and you cannot get on well in this life alone. You like children only when they’re old enough to be interesting, not when they’re babies or toddlers. As a rule, you’re a freewheeling soul and don’t want to be responsible for anything or anyone but yourself. As such, you’re the most independent Libra house, often staying single until late in life, and that’s only because you don’t want to die alone.

6th: You have to have a harmonious work environment, or you won’t be productive at all. At the same time, however, you need your job to be interesting and have variety. You have a keen sense of justice and will fight for the underdog due to your love of fair play. If your love life is not good, then you can be surprisingly bitter and antagonistic towards others, especially your co-workers. Nonetheless, you’re generally open and approachable in working relationships.

7th: You’re sentimental as well as idealistic; you’re not happy unless people share your life with you in some way. You need mental companionship in order to hold a relationship together. You tend to see your partner in your own personal context, and this can make for a difficult relationship or marriage for you. It’s difficult for you to see other people’s frame of reference, and you can be quite self-centered. You get along best with someone who understands you and accepts you as you are.

8th: For you, balance comes when you share your resources with others; there is gain through partnerships. Marriage and companionship act as a purifier for your ego. You need to provoke reactions from your partner in order to initiate change and transform yourself as well as your partner. You need sexual interaction in order to be validated and make your relationship seem more real and connected. 

9th: You are refined and anything of a rough or coarse nature offends you. You’re very artistic and need freedom of the mind as well as the spirit, especially when it comes to relationships. You have a strong need for balance of the inner world of your soul and the outer world of appearance. Legislation and the law attracts your interest. You are a teacher, at heart, and would make a wonderful professor

10th: You have a strong sense of justice and a willingness to work hard for social justice causes, often making it your life mission. You have diplomacy and tact in dealing with the public and would make a great judge or administrator. You’re actually better at dealing with the public than you are dealing with your own family. You love for the sake of expediency.

11th: You have many artistic and creative friends; marriage and partnership with one of them isn’t impossible. You may be indecisive when it comes to clearly defining your objectives and goals. Your desire to be all things to all people eventually comes back to you. Your social life is busy and you tend to be indiscriminate when it comes to the company you keep.

12th: Marriages, partnerships, and unions are lessons for you; you are unlikely to have a happy union with anyone unless you change your nature. It’s interesting because you long for unions with others, and quite frankly, you need them. The within and the without must be balanced in your subconscious before you have any inner peace. Your regeneration lies in learning to be cooperative and outgoing towards others.

[catmarlowastrology]

The Signs + Betrayal

😡➡️Aries: Quick to anger, Aries would confront the issue immediately and then try to move on.

🚪🔒Taurus: Deeply hurt, Taurus would withdraw and find it hard to trust again.

🤔💬 Gemini: Curious and intellectual, Gemini would seek to understand the "why" behind the betrayal.

🐚😢 Cancer: Emotionally wounded, Cancer would retreat into their shell to heal.

👑🚫Leo: Bruised in their pride, Leo would cut off the betrayer without showing their hurt.

🕵️‍♀️📝Virgo: Analytical Virgo would dissect the betrayal and be more cautious in future relationships.

⚖️🤷‍♀️ Libra: Striving for balance, Libra might weigh the pros and cons before deciding what to do.

💔🔥 Scorpio: Intense and possibly vengeful, Scorpio would never forget the betrayal.

🏹🚀Sagittarius: Optimistic, they would cut ties quickly and seek new experiences.

📊🚶‍♀️Capricorn: Pragmatic, they would reevaluate the relationship as a bad investment and move on.

🤖💙 Aquarius: Detached but emotional underneath, Aquarius would analyze the situation objectively.

🐟💔Pisces: Emotionally deep yet forgiving, Pisces might give second chances even if it hurts them.

[glowcowboy]

we’re gonna be ok btw

[glowcowboy]

it’s ok if you’re scared. or tired. or unsure. or one million billion other complicated emotions at once. but i’ve decided things are going to be ok anyway. and i will hold that belief close to my heart no matter how scared or tired or lonely or depressed or one million billion other things i am. i will hold onto that. and if you’re scared, you can hold onto me. we can carry each other through