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looseconnoisseur

This is always a reblog… always! Know what’s safe and good.

slaveexploring

So important

savage-gentleman-wolf4

Safe, Sane and Consensual ALWAYS!!

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alphabreakers-deactivated201604

Master Slave Relationship

I have seen lots of blogs where slaves are given inhuman names like slut, whore, faggot, worthless piece of shit and many more. The term faggot is used so often that it has become a second name for homosexual people. Master & slave relationship is not about abuse and degradation. It’s about serving someone because you want to, not because you have to. If your master is forcing you to do something which will hamper your well being, its a clear indication that he is insecure about himself. A true master will never subject his slave to inhuman torture because a slave is not an object to him but a prized possession. A master will train and discipline his slave with reward and punishment but not to the extent that he forgets that a slave is a human. Alphas, they have an aura about themselves. They dont need to force you to do something, their gaze is powerful enough to make submissive male submit. If someone is forcing you to do something, he is not an alpha and if he is not an alpha then what are you doing with him anyways. You will know when you meet a true alpha, your instincts will guide you. Stay safe

bredbeta

Every last word rings true.

dirtydaddythings

I need add nothing here. Well said.

top4jock

If someone is forcing you to do something, he is not an alpha

He will ask you to do things that are inconvenient, uncomfortable, difficult, and you do not want to do. If he is a true Alpha, that you know respects you and takes care of you, you will do then voluntarily. Force is not a tool of an Alpha.

It’s about serving someone because you want to, not because you have to.

For me, the most important part of what @alphabreakers wrote. If you are not serving voluntarily, there is something wrong. It does not matter if you feel that he is compelling you into service or something about your own situation compels it. For me, it is far hotter knowing that you are doing something you dislike because you are doing it for me that it would be if I know you were physically or emotionally manipulated into doing it.

puprowan-deactivated20170728

100% truth

ukstudentalpha

As always, it’s about communication and consent. I want (among many, many other things) a submissive who will wake me up with breakfast and a blowjob in the morning, as a regular routine. The difference between that being an awesome D/s interaction and a horrifically abusive situation is that the sub/pup/boy/fag wants to do it, and gets enjoyment out of it.

officer-sub-guardianbear

⬆️⬆️⬆️All this;

-for me personally, VA/degradation is part of my ‘love language’-calling me babe, honey ,sweet, sugar….those are like a wet blanket; calling me faggot, cocksucker, Your bitch or much more will encourage me to get on my knees for You.

temptingdominance

Dear Submissives

Can you please for for the love of god stop paying attention to that bullshit on Tumblr that tells you that you’re supposed to be a worthless object? You do realize that everybody who is spouting off about that crap doesn’t put their face or their address online?

BECAUSE IT ISN’T REAL!

You’re not going to spend your life in a basement serving somebody. It’s a fucking fantasy. And it bullshit like this that destroys the positive and meaningful interactions with in BDSM.

No one is dominant or submissive 100% of the time. It’s not possible. We’re human beings. We need to rest. We need to rejuvenate. Yeah you can have a hot session that goes on for a full weekend. You can embrace every bit of who you are as a dominant or submissive. But there’s always a break.

And if you haven’t figured this out, real dominant men provide Aftercare and take of their boys. Full stop. It’s not even a question. If somebody is going to put you through an intense situation and can’t even fucking bother holding onto you and caressing you to let you calm down, they’re just a piece of shit. There is something psychologically wrong with them and you shouldn’t be around them in the first place.

Let’s address this Alpha bullshit. No one is better than somebody else. No person is ordained as this creature that is meant to be superior to others. If someone honestly believes that they are better than someone else on purely a basis of humanity, they are most likely a very sad individual. They never achieved anything meaningful. Maybe one day they started going to the gym and realized that someone was attracted to them and then they could exert their low self-esteem on another. I can’t fucking stand people like this. And they spout their bullshit all over the internet.

And here’s the simple truth to all of this, you may read this right now and think that I’m completely wrong. But as soon as the fantasy wears off, you will start to realize that a good man is far better than anything that this fantasy world could ever provide.

So please wake the fuck up. Believe in yourself. Know that you don’t deserve to be treated like crap. Submission is a gift. The dominant has to be worthy of it. You make that determination – not them.

Stand up for yourself. I believe in you. Look past the bullshit.

Sincerely,

A good dominant man that’s tired of seeing people abused.

s0me0ne-actually

The idea of ‘Objectivity’ is so fucking stupid to me.

officer-sub-guardianbear

i will repeat this every time i see it. A man who understands this at a gut level, lives it on a daily basis is halfway to being a Man that i’d Submit to. My former Dom, one of the best & most true people in all my years, lived this way every day. i also was there for Him thru possibly one of the lowest points in His life, when He was sure He would die any day, i helped Him to keep going, day after day. Early in our time He stated He wanted loyalty, dedication & effort. He has gotten it for several years, every day since He said that; He gets it even now, despite the fact that He has moved on. If He calls & wants my help, i’m there- not just because He’s my former Dom, but because He has earned my *RESPECT*- every day in a million little ways. My only hope is that i can find another Dom that is even half the Man that He is, even to this day.