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“A strong leader who is unwilling to deeply understand their emotions and the effect of their actions becomes a Tyrant.” . The default resulting in Anger Blame Shame Hiding Sedating . Burning all that has been accomplished to the ground in an effort to just understand what it is to feel or be different. . Time and time again this plays out..... In business, In Families, In relationships, In our health. . I’ll have you consider, It doesn’t have to be this way. There are other options. You can leverage all that you have built to understand what the “next” chapter is without building from the ashes of your rage. https://www.instagram.com/p/BnV_7aZhNjG/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1d0trvcptut9i

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Narrow the Focus

Have you ever struggled in the area of creativity? This is an art I am learning to deeply respect and appreciate. It is not something that can be forced or pushed. If it’s genuine it’s not a box that can be checked. Creativity and Connection come from an energy, an energy deep within. I ran across this yesterday in a very timely fashion.

“You need to be doing fewer things with more effect instead…

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Where have you been?

Where have you been?

Last night my youngest 9 Cami came outside to join me on the deck. I was working on some 90 day targets for myself in the 4 areas of life I track daily. I could sense her frustration. She said she was ready to start a business….. she wants to make a powered strollers, like self propelled so Mom’s don’t get tired. 

I loved the idea ! We talked thru manufacturing, distribution and sales and she…

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What if I’m Wrong.

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I was in a conversation last night about questioning our thoughts. There are so many things that we believe to be true that just aren’t. Do you ever ask yourself why you believe or accept certain things? 

For me recently it was the story and relationship with money. I had a situation where I was asked what are your feelings around money. 

Specifically about earning…

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Does it Matter?

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As I traveled home on Saturday there where so many interactions with people and businesses. People in businesses, just people in general. Most of us have flown at one time or another. I had a conversation with a young lady an employee of one of the big companies because she felt different. Interacting with her and watching her interact with others she was different.…

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Waiting....

Waiting….

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So many reasons to wait… To continue contemplating.

I Spent a great week training this week. Training my mind, my heart, and my body. Twelve to thirteen hours per day. I cried more in the last three days than I have in probably the last five years. Investing in my skill sets and mindset.

The biggest takeaway. 

DO

Like I know that sounds…

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Beacon Lets be real, leading is hard. Leading in business and leading at home is hard. It doesn't come with a manual.

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Head to Heart

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Yesterday I spent the day traveling. I really enjoy being in different environments, learning and experiencing different things. However, customer service should not be something that is compromised regardless of location. It absolutely does not matter what business you are in you have customers. Either you serve the public face to face, maybe you interact strictly online, or maybe you operate a B2B company. you still have a customer to serve, a client to care for and protect. Multiple instances today I witnessed where team members strictly followed a process or system and didn't think to connect with the customer and their needs. I'l have you consider that the best in class businesses know how to connect with their customers. They make you feel welcome and appreciated. They create experiences, the team has enough agency and is empowered to make a decision that is right for the customer. In my experience no process or system connects a customer to your business the way that a genuine interaction, appreciation and connecting with their need will. People do business with businesses that make them feel good.. The End How do you measure up? Lets access how your business is doing connecting with your customers? #igetto #leadership #customerservice #clientexperience #customerexperience #feelings #serve #lead #unitedairlines #united

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Client Experience

Yesterday I spent the day traveling. I really enjoy being in different environments, learning and experiencing different things. However, customer service should not be something that is compromised regardless of location.

It absolutely does not matter what business you are in you have customers. Either you serve the public face to face, maybe you interact strictly online, or maybe you operate a…

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Ripple Affect Lead in such a way that even the things beyond your direct sphere of influence are affected.

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In the game of perspective awareness, being distracted can be fatal. A long and slow decent. Ask better questions. Understand. Get clarity. Take action. Because being a spectator gets you nowhere. #perspective #igetto #stacklife #blindsidebeumer #commitment #learnlivelead #leadership #growthmindset #dailycalm

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Yesterday was a day of fulfilling commitments. The day was tuff, yet very rewarding. As the day began to come to an end I realized I had not fulfilled a commitment to myself to train. I was tired, hungry, and had 100 excuses. While I was running I came to another realization. The time consider how I feel about something is when the decision is being made, when I am contemplating the commitment. However once the decision is made, and the commitment has been solidified the option to do it or not is no longer an option. My feelings about the commitment are irrelevant.... I would have you consider that once you make the commitment all you have left is the work to do to fulfill the commitment. #dothework #igetto #leadership #learnleadlive #growth #mindset #commitment #perspective #stacklife #warriorsway #blindsidebeumer

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Empathy..... One of the most simple and difficult things. I truly believe that some people are just born with this gift, some have to work really hard at growing this capacity. It is a powerful gift and skill set. Holding space for another person, lovingly, knowing and acknowledging that it doesn’t have to be ok. It can just be....be what it truly is. No judgement, no “fixing” it. Just be present, hold space, there is so much power in knowing you’re not alone. #igetto #empathy #leadership #tacticalnotconceptual #family #friends #learnlivelead #blindsidebeumer #slowdown #bepresent #lovepeoplebetter

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You don’t know, What you don’t know….. How often as a leader do you consider what specific information, tools, data your team needs. I found myself yesterday in a place where I didn’t have what I needed, I began to question how frequently do I unintentionally NOT share information because I assume it’s not relevant.

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How often as a leader do you consider what specific information, tools, data your team needs. I found myself yesterday in a place where I didn’t have what I needed, I began to question how frequently do I unintentionally NOT share information because I assume it’s not relevant. Check in with your team, show them some of the things you have access to. Sometimes you really don’t know what you don’t know. A culture where sharing information without worrying about credit or self is a culture that will thrive! In my experience I have found this is very applicable at home as well. There is great power in teaching and sharing to expose other possibilities in your children’s minds. #igetto #leadership #teach #train #mindset #learnlivelead #blindsidebeumer #truth #startwithyou

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Are you interested in being right… or getting a result? Earlier this week I felt myself get defensive when questioned. It's a natural and expected response right?