To All Aspiring āDomsā
I see many of you posting pictures of girls in very humiliating positions /outfits, with a description that says, ālooking for a cunt to do this to. Taking applications.ā
Being that youāre taking applications, Iām assuming you donāt have anyone with whom to live out your fantasies. So, let me see if I can help you out a little.
Most - not all - single women who are into degradation have been abused before and left for naught by their dominantā¦ Or had to leave their dominant because of excessive abuseā¦ or were abused in some other way that has left them hurt and ābrokenāā¦ The kind of abuse that crosses the boundaries of Sexuality into straight violence, torment, and preying upon the weak and innocent.
They are fragile. They are broken. And theyāre looking for someone that understands that FIRST.
It takes an insane amount of trust to let someone who is bigger and stronger than you to fucking tie you up and do what they want with you.
And posting under your picture that youāre ātaking applications for a cunt to abuseā isnāt only counterproductive to your overall goal, but itās offensive to the overall realm of BDSM.
So, might I recommend a change in approach?
Approach your search for a Submissive in the same way that you would approach general datingā¦
Normal conversation. General likes and dislikes. Familyā¦ The basic shit that one would learn about the person theyāre dating.
Approach the sexual part of the process the same way that is done in āvanillaā relationshipsā¦
Granted, if thereās chemistry and youāve already established that youāre both into BDSM, things will heat up very quickly and youāll be home before you know it.
But the approach doesnāt change.
And donāt expect her to let you tie her up completely on your first fuck. Againā¦ It takes a lot of trust.
You could be a serial killer for all she knows. š
Iām saying all this because I want you to find a beautiful toy to use and abuse to BOTH of your pleasures.
So, let it marinate a little. Read it over again. Maybe itāll help.
And to ALL SUBMISSIVESā¦
Share this post. Letās help these aspiring Doms that follow you so obsessively. Teach them what they need to learn to grow. Itās your responsibility as well as theirs.
Dominic Daniels AKA @dominicthadom
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