BRATZ JOURNAL

32 she/her sub/Brat

[bloodismypower]

⚜️ ℕ𝕒𝕞𝕖: Everyone calls me Kiki because that is what I like to be called. If you want to know my real name just pm.

⚜️ 𝔸𝕘𝕖: 33

⚜️ 𝕃𝕠𝕔𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟: USA

⚜️ 𝕊𝕖𝕩𝕦𝕒𝕝𝕚𝕥𝕪: Bi (but no men please)

⚜️ ℝ𝕠𝕝𝕖: Sub/brat

⚜️ 𝕃𝕚𝕜𝕖𝕤: Reading/ Writing dark/erotic novels. I am also I big anime nerd.

⚜️ 𝔻𝕚𝕤𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖𝕤: a lot, moths and squirrels being major ones.

⚜️ 𝕂𝕚𝕟𝕜𝕤: choking, biting, tied down, wax play,edging, praise, knife, and something I don't think I should put on here

⚜️ 𝕃𝕚𝕞𝕚𝕥𝕤: pressure on my chest, smacking in the face, pissing,shitting, vomiting and drowning.

⚜️ 𝔸𝕤𝕜 𝕞𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕪𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕀'𝕝𝕝 𝕥𝕣𝕪 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕤𝕨𝕖𝕣 𝕨𝕙𝕖𝕟 𝕀 𝕔𝕒𝕟 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕚𝕗 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕕𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕕𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕓𝕒𝕔𝕜 𝕝𝕖𝕥 𝕞𝕖 𝕜𝕟𝕠𝕨 𝕨𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕖𝕞𝕠𝕛𝕚 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕨𝕒𝕟𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕓𝕖 𝕜𝕟𝕠𝕨𝕟 𝕓𝕪.

@thealphabrat my bff helped me with my pin post ❤️

[madamejadex]

Only yes means yes, everything else is a rape. That applies to BDSM too. By communicating boundaries, safe words, and preferences we lay the foundation for safe play. So when that scene starts it will always start with a yes by agreeing to the terms set up beforehand. Consenting to play, and an understanding that consent can be revoked at any point and the play stops. So, it’s why we come back to only yes means yes, everything else is a rape. If you ignore safe words, if you ignore when consent is revoked. Then that’s rape, full stop. If that concept is hard for you to understand, then you’re part of the problem.

[bloodismypower]

Before asking for deeper submission, a Dominant should be able to answer:

Can they disagree with me without punishment?

Can they name discomfort without becoming “the problem”?

Do my actions consistently match my expectations?

When I miss the mark, do I repair—or defend?

Does my leadership make truth safer to speak?

Deeper submission is not proof that someone learned to tolerate more.

It is often the result of learning they no longer have to hide as much.

[bloodismypower]

Aftercare should not be limited to the first few minutes after an intense experience.

Good aftercare has layers:

Immediate care helps the body settle - water, warmth, food, reassurance, touch, or space.

Later care checks the emotional landing - How are you feeling? Did anything surface? Is there something we should discuss?

Ongoing care notices what appears tomorrow - fatigue, vulnerability, emotional drop, unexpected feelings, or a need for reconnection.

The exact ritual will differ between people.

What matters is that care remains available after the intensity has ended.

Because “we finished” and “you feel safely returned” are not always the same thing.

[bloodismypower]

So I finally asked out a girl on a date for the first time and I'm nervous I was thinking lunch and a nature train ride. She said yes but now I'm in my head

I feel like it's cheesy

[shadygirlongirl]

[jeniferprince]

we really, really should. 🚬

another piece for my noir series ;)

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[mulheraum-deactivated20210803]

[bloodismypower]

Soni was just told something that was so real and so deep at least I think it was deep. " a brat is only a brat because they are finally free to be themselves whether it's from them not having the safety to do it during childhood or a past relationship the only reason they like or need a firm or gentle hands is because sometimes they can take it too far and just need reminding when it is. eventually they learn that boundary themselves. but still like to give a little push back because they crave the adjustment not just for safety but for a need.

[madamejadex]

It’s interesting that scientists have documented homosexual behaviours in over 1500 species. But only one species has documented homophobia. So what really is unnatural? Something that can be found in 1500 species or something cruel and hateful that’s been found in one.

And that my friends is why Pride Month is still so important. Yes, it is about celebration. It is about joy, love, community, and being visible without apology. But it is also about walking for those who cannot. Speaking for those who have been silenced, and standing for those who still live in countries where being LGBTQIA+ is criminalised, punished, or treated as something shameful.

Pride is a reminder to every government, every lawmaker, and every person who still believes otherwise: all love is beautiful, all identities deserve dignity, and every LGBTQIA+ person has the right to exist freely.

[madamejadex]

Please remember that Pride is important because someone tonight still believes they’re better off dead than being themselves.

[bloodismypower]

this

[bloodismypower]

everyone always says "at least it made you stronger." but my inner child quietly replies, " I was hoping for love not all life lessons. I need comfort, not scars

[remanence-of-love]

[punkdollrora]

[bloodismypower]

yes make there ego small

[bloodismypower]

thought I would post something on here I posted to another friend because she blocked me from messaging her but still friends on the app I posted it to lets hope she sees it because I'm sick of miss informed people going off movies and books

OH SO YOU IF I GET WITH A WOMAN OR IN A BDSM RELATIONSHIP YOU CAN'T BE FRIENDS WITH ME ANYMORE AND YOU TRYING TO MAKE ME COME TOY SENSES WITH ALL THE DRAMA YOUR STARTING IM 33 YEARS OLD MY LIFE IS MY LIFE NOT YOURS. OK LET'S GO OVER ALL THE THINGS YOU SAID

(bdsm is just abuse and control with extra steps and no boundaries)

1. you are wrong here it is more than kink it more then control. It's about being able to let yourself completely be you and vulnerable to someone

2. there are absolutely boundaries. these are things you and the person you are with talk about. what you like dislike maybes and hard no's! an you talk about there's

3. don't talk about shit you are not educated on and grow the fuck up or walk out no because am done changing for people am 33 years old I'm to grown for posting drama on Facebook to old to be fighting people to old not to control my self it time you learn your to old to. don't want to be friends anymore then there is the door bye

[guysmyagedontknowhowtotreatme]