[blueskiesandrainclouds]

If my life as a mood board of films.

[masonsgooding]

Garcia and Juan Castano in “Tales of the City” (1x02)

[blueskiesandrainclouds]

Being trans is mistaking the desire to look like someone for attraction.

When people would ask me what my type of guy was I’d say beard, tattoos, muscular, artistic, alternative. Recently had the realisation that this is like the literal description of what I want to look like/ be like. Looking back on the guys I had a crush on or dated I’m like oh wait I think I just wanted to look like you not date you lmao.

[flawlessgentlemen]

Andy Samberg photographed by Peter Yang for Men’s Journal (2020)

[hauntedrichietozier-deactivated]

[sunflower-cane]

You know I love how so many people are like “respect boundaries respect consent” until it’s time to respect people w OCD who can’t shake hands or be touched or when an autistic person tells their family member they can’t give hugs or when a chronically ill person tells you “no I can’t do this thing” and you think “maybe if I just make them do it anyway it’ll make them stronger” or when a mentally ill person or someone who has been abused is like “I don’t want to be around this person/thing it’s triggering” and you get people guilting them to “just get over it”

If you’re about consent and boundaries, good, you should be, but remember to keep that energy when moms of autistic kids are like “I still hug my child even tho it makes them have panic attacks” or when someone’s like “yeah they said they don’t want to be around this person cause it’s “triggering” but I’m their friend so they should do it for me” or when a disabled person says they can’t go up the stairs and you’re begging them to “try anyway”

Don’t lose that mindset, or that energy when it’s time to respect the boundaries or consent of mentally ill and disabled people.

[nvm-illustration]

‘dysphoria’

Dysphoria is a profound state of unease or dissatisfaction. In a psychiatric context, dysphoria may accompany depression, anxiety, or agitation. It can also refer to a state of not being comfortable in one’s current body.

[biscuitsarenice]

[toomuchperfume]

This is the sweetest sentiment. I want to be like that.

[sleepydumpling]

One of the greatest lessons I learned.  Quit judging other people’s appearance.  It’s good for YOU and them.

[transientfashion]

Her name is Iris Apfel and she’s awesome.

[trans-matters]

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[thevintageloser]

☼ express your inner Vintage Loser // inspiration ☾

[veruneedy]

Kat’s rolling!

[justinhubbell]

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Once again, thank you everyone for reading, enjoying, and sharing this comic.  Not just sharing in the sense of re-posting this comic, (which you should totally do) but also sharing your stories with me, letting my know how my comics have touched you.  It means so much to me.  Love ya! Stay tuned for more comics! <3

[teenytinymoss]

As a lgbtq youth, I am legitimately terrified of what could happen to me if Trump becomes president. Please consider me when you vote thanks

[wildstag-blog]

[melisica]

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