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So update on everything recently the last time we had ss6 bm had made plans to take him to lagoon so we allowed it. Took him down there to meet bm even though she was supposed to pick him up from our house. Eventually when they got done she was supposed to bring him back we had to meet the down there to pick him up.

Side note she called us less then 2 hours after getting ss asking us to pick him up because he was throwing a fit. She is the one that has him most the time and she somehow didn't expect he would throw a fit at an amusement park because he didn't want to ride the rides his little sister wanted to. She also constantly threatens to send him somewhere because bm "is scared for her and her daughters life" from a 6 year old. She's convinced herself that ss is going to try and kill them. But everytime we say we will take him she refuses out right.

So on Friday we went to pick him up for our weekend show up at her house cause thats where we switch mind you we pick him up and drop him off everytime and she lives like an hour away. Anyways we wait there for over an hour for her to answer or get home or something. No show no text no call. Nothing.

We still haven't heard from her and it's Sunday we did call to make another report against her to the police. Who had finally called us back at like midnight so I really hope he woke her up at like 1am to talk about it all. I'm so over it all at this point. I just want to go off on her and I know it would only make things worse.

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My boyfriend took his son home to his mom last night because her family had planned a birthday party for their son and her daughter. My boyfriend was assured that it would just be for a couple hours and he'd have him back last night. Then when time came she never showed up 2 hours later when my bf was able to get ahold of her. All she said was the party was also a sleepover so he wasn't going to be getting his son back. So bf filed a report with the police last night and she told the cops that in the court order it said she could use her own discretion about giving up their son for his parenting time. So when he got home so he could get his court orders and looked through it again while waiting for the cops to call back. And there is nothing in there about her having any say on whether he can have his son for his time or not. So on monday bf is driving down a half hour to where the court house they have to go to is and filing for contempt. Any and all advice would be helpful. She just threw a fit for mothers day because ot was on our weekend but she won't let him have his son for Father's day.

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My bf 30 and I 25 have been together for almost 3 years now. The main issue we've had is his bm. Now I love his son 5 years old, but she's something else.

The first time I met her was when we first started dating and she called me a fucking whore. So we haven't had the best relationship.

For a while I was doing what she wanted I stayed away whenever my bf had his son over and eventually she was fine with me being there. Everything was going good for awhile until covid got really bad. That'd when she stopped letting him come over at all.

She started claiming that he was terrified of me and he didn't want to come over. She claimed a lot of things at this point such as; I was walking around the house in just my bra and underwear around him (I don't do this even if no one's home let alone when he is over.), I told him she wasn't his mom, we apperantly took him over to someone in my family's house (both my parents are dead and I dont really talk to anyone else.).

We worked through it and he started coming over again. Which lead to half of his medication went missing. We never figured out what happened to it but for once she didn't blame it on me she blamed our roomates (which honestly I can see because one of them didn't clean like ever but this particular weekend cleaned like half the house then got really sick after).

It continued for a while of the off an on mess for a while. Then December of 2021 we broke up for a little while and he was dealing with a bunch of mental stuff and got into therapy. Between then and mothers day she was refusing to let his son come over constantly making up excuses. She let us take him out for dinner on Friday before mother's day since she wouldn't let my bf even have a single night.

That brings us to last weekend her latest excusing being he is severely allergic to cats (he never showed any reaction when we've had him around cats but whatever.) And that he was sick with a fever. If he was actually sick that'd be one thing but he showed no signs that he was off at all and he was out with her family before we came to pick him up. If he's sick should he really be around a bunch of people some who have bad health conditions and could die if they got sick.

Anyway we went to pick him up and didn't give her any other option and we had a really great weekend.

I'm using this blog to keep track of events from now on. I just need somewhere I can vent. I'm tired of the excuses it's always something. Mind you at one point I was allowed to pick him up from them by myself and then all of a sudden she wasn't ok with it anymore. I will keep updating as more bullshit happens.