Bob

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I had to realise people never loved me for me... it was the way I showed up for them, the way I held them down and had their back, the way I came thru when everyone else didn't. I just want those people to know it's in me. I was raised up this way, I became this person because I've always wanted a person like me, this goes to any form of relations; family, friends, relationships etc ... i am really loving like that and I can be used but I won't be abused... you can strip me of everything and I'll still be that one and once you lose me you lose me forever... I hate being good to wrong people, so before the year fades, I want alot of people to know it's no love lost but you'll never get close to me again...

Yours sincerely

Someone who noticed their worth:

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Am officially in my quite Era. I don't have anything much to say, about anything.

IT IS WHAT IT IS AND LIFE GOES ON.

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Someone once said, "The quickest way to loose me is to keep doing the things I told you not to".

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Dated _05.Oct.22_

To be quite honest. I fully understand just how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness. Now I understand why they shut all the doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and why they are or can be picky about who they allow in their lives.

Concept is understood ❤️

-Bob.experience

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Someone once posted

We are definitely gonn heal, grow and be strong enough to be able to know how to handle pain of being abused/ being used as an substitute...meaning, if their beloved aren't there you're good to help but once the "important" once show up you then have to step back.

which is rude immortal inhumane and not cute. But WE ALL GONN HEAL - GROW & BE STRONG.

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People may be offended, but as we evolve our taste in people, places and things will change

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It's not the fear of LOSING THEM

that scares us, it's that we have given them so many of our pieces that

WE FEAR LOSING OURSELVES WHEN THEY ARE GONE.

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Life can be heavy, especially if you carry it all at once. Part of growing up & moving into new chapters of your life Is about catch and release. What do you mean, Bob? - Knowing what things to keep and what things to release. You can't carry all things; all grudges; all updates on your ex. Decide what is yours to hold and let the rest go. Often times, the good things in your life are lighter anyway so there's more room for them. One toxic relationship can outweigh so many wonderful simple joy. You get to pick what your life has time and room for, be deserning.

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.yo. leaving your hometown in your 20s is a life hack. If you're a young person I strongly advise you create a plan to move away from your hometown. Leaving typical norms you grew up in will help develop you as an individual and force you to grow in ways staying home just can't do.

Your enviroment plays a vital role in how you feel, what you think, how you carry yourself, who you hang out with, what you care about & what you do.

Once you switch your enviroment,  typically you switch your focus. You make friends on common interests instead of growing up together.

I can't stress enough about this. GET OUT OF YOUR HOMETOWN. Though may not be forever, we have "homesickers". But Move, Travel. See the world. There is more to life than the same 10 people and 2 bars.

Am typing this, am already flying to Italy- Florida.

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.yo.some talk to you in their free time, and some free their time to talk to you.

Learn the difference ❤️💯

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.yoo we all lie and that's the truth.

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.yo. Salt also looks like sugar, be careful.

- Bob

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.yo. when someone tells you that your words/actions hurt their feelings, you don't get to decide that they didn't. 😎🤌💯

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.yo. I don't react but trust me, I notice everything. 💯🤌

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.yo. efforts are always better than promises 😌

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.yo. don't let people know too much about you 🤌❤🤣