boltedtoyourbed

Ideas and images that I like, including but not limited to: gentle femdom, bdsm, mommy dommes, pegging, tentacles, and being trapped under the weight of someone who loves you. male/25/cuddlesub, at your service~

[violetsblossom-deactivated20190]

When you gain weight because somebody decided to make pancakes for breakfast every-fucking-day and now you can barely fit into you lingerie.

[hidayxh-deactivated20190505]

are you healed, or just distracted

[inbetweeness]

do NOT call me out like this wtf

[kaleidoscopic-illusions-deactiv]

Yikes

[carriecherry71-deactivated20200]

This is just a sample of the stuff that shows up daily in my inbox… this doesn’t even include the dick pics!!! I’m definitley NOT alone.

GUYS… from a female perspective… JUST STOP!!! If you’ve NEVER had a conversation with a blogger you’re about to message… DON’T BEGIN LIKE THIS.

Women want a connection. I promise you… a random pic of your dick (*yawn*.. so unoriginal) or a crude message does NOT make you stand out from the crowd, or get you to the front of the line! But it WILL get you blocked and /or reported!

“But you look at porn all the time on here ”… “But you’re on your blog showing off your naked body.. you MUST want it”… “you made a suggestive comment to THAT guy.. I can do the same thing”…

If YOU have EVER said ANY of these things out loud or had those angel/devil thoughts… JUST STOP. Let me set the record straight on behalf of all us women who graciously allow you to see our pics. Showing ourselves on our blog does NOT give you permission to send us your crude /crass comments or force us to look at your dick in a message. 😡 In the real world, its called harassment. Would you say stuff like that in person to the cute girl in 7-11, whos wearing short shorts and a halter? No? Good. Dont do it here.

And as far as the banter you see in comments… many of us can interact with FRIENDS like that on here, because we’ve established a relationship. That’s where that CONNECTION comes in. Take the time to get to know the blogger… start off with a genuine comment or compliment if you feel you must send a message! “That color looks great on you!”… “You’re very pretty, thank you for sharing your pics with us”… “Hi there, new follower, I really enjoy your blog”… “I love that drink too, have you ever tried a ___?”

Guys… we are REAL women on here, with REAL lives, and REAL feelings. We may NOT respond to a message for awhile, or even at all. And that’s our choice. Real lives always come first. Just be respectful, be patient, and have some decency for God’s sakes!

There are some really great guys out there.. YOU may be one of them! 😊 If so… make it known that THIS type of behavior is NOT ok. A big shout-out to my friends @sirvadermaul @proph34 @carnal-erotic-desires @southerngent67 several others who are really cracking down on their OWN blogs, ensuring that others know that behavior like this is NOT OK! 🍒

[goingdown64-deactivated20220403]

First…Thank You @carriecherry71 for putting into words what many of the Ladies are feeling about having to deal with this kind of stuff! For some reason I feel like the pics and absolutely vulgar messages/comments are amping up. I’m deleting them all the time after blocking them.

Also…Thank you to all the Gentlemen that are showing support for getting this to stop!! 😘

Please….read this and hopefully a light 💡 will go off for them!! Again….Thank You!!

[bustyblonde38-deactivated201910]

This is absolutely true. Thank you @carriecherry71 for putting it so eloquently. Guys, do better. Make an effort. And it’s absolutely our choice whether we choose to respond at all. Luckily there are some good guys still out there who appreciate what we’re trying to say here. 💋

[new-name-same-me]

Reposting because I agree with everything they’ve all said. I can’t imagine what makes any man think that this type of approach will work.

[missv2you]

Amen to all of this!!! And you wonder why I randomly shut my messages off from those I don’t follow. BECAUSE OF THIS! Because some of you can’t carry a decent conversation. And because I don’t care to talk about everything you want me to do to you *yawn*.

[teeny-tiny-taurus]

[edgar-thorn-deactivated20200514]

Bitch thats me

[fkacoochie-deactivated20230424]

is this a callout post 

[discourseful]

[kotsume]

[schoolslaves]

[gfd-goddess]

little thing I love about sub boys

that moment when you find that one spot where they’re super sensitive, so you can make them squirm just by running your finger along it.

[miokutta]

that’s a good boy…

[ahegaokin-princess]

[deviantminxy]

I know how to take care of you baby

[kurrusu]

[dripseason]

[howdeesoph]

Question:

Anyone else really really reeeeeaally into overstimulation? Just like seeing their face and them being so happy when you give them an orgasm and then that little hopeful look fades when you keep going? And they try and close their legs and beg for you to stop but you just want to coax one more out of them until they’re an incoherent mess? Is that just me?

[faillenotaku]

*Tapes the B button down*

[sadisticmaniac]

[galdalou]

[gfd-goddess]

little thing I love about sub boys

that moment when you find that one spot where they’re super sensitive, so you can make them squirm just by running your finger along it.