Bongs And Blushes

21+ only please. This is an adult blog Hi! You can call me R (yes, it’s a mononym and a pseudonym, get over it. ) I’m 28, pan/poly/switchy/genderfluid Make all the jokes you want, it’s true that I hate making decisions 😂 I use any and all pronouns interchangeably, and will try to mark stuff to make it clear what headspace I’m in. I was on tumblr for a while, then deleted my account and now I’m back! Honestly a slut, but too autistic to make many moves. That’s only partially a joke, I am actually autistic, so if I fuck up a social interaction, sorry. You might have to over explain with me, but that doesn’t mean be a dick. I’m a ski and snowboard bum who lives in the Rockies with my wonderful girlfriend and collared sub DMs are open to mutuals and others if I decide and find you interesting

[bongsandblushes]

Hello hello!

I figure I’ve been around long enough to make a pinned post rather than just having info in my description thingy

You can call me R, or if we’ve been chatting for a while, something else

I am polyamorous and a bit of a relationship anarchist. I currently have one collared sub. I like to flirt and play with people I find hot.

I’ve been very heavily Dom leaning recently, but I am a switch.

Anyway, this blog is 21+, and if you have any questions, ask

[still-trying-to-be-horny]

Trying to explain the dynamic I have with my mutuals to my rl friends is such a frustrating experience, because how do I explain that I wanna commit heinous acts of sexual violence against my online friend because I'm proud of them for getting a good grade on their university assignment?

[snapgigglepoplikeagoodgirl-deac]

me except i want someone to commit heinous acts of sexual violence to me for doing well on a assignment in uni 🥲

[bluesycatharsis]

and for the lady perhaps a whiny man with big doe eyes that'll thank her for slapping him across his face

[desireddracula]

Shrine

Its time for you to start building lil shrines to me where you can edge and get fucked in my honor.

[bongsandblushes]

Just had someone with age 13 in the bio follow me. This blog is not for you if you are below age 18 legally, and that is not up for debate in anyway. If you don’t have a clear disclaimer of your age (and it’s on the correct side of 18) you’re getting blocked on sight.

[bound-sadist-deactivated2026052]

[nosfera-tits]

Basically I like when there’s garlic and onion

[herpsandbirds]

[stagfemme]

orgasm denial hits such a specific place for me. the inherent ownership of being denied, you only get what you’re allowed, what they decide to give you and when. and so your pleasure becomes not your own— it it something they are taking because they want it. it becomes a series of facts. i will fuck you until you are satisfied or you will play with me for as long as you care to. you will take what you want. i will not cum. the transcendent feeling of knowing it doesn’t matter if i want it. i can feel however i want. it’s not mine to decide

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

I see that "learned helplessness" is the hot new psychological term getting wildly misused. the phrase you're looking for is "weaponized incompetence," babes

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

weaponized incompetence is when your partner does chores shitty on purpose so that you stop asking them to do chores. learned helplessness is when you've experienced so much trauma that you've developed the mindset that you can't meaningfully change your situation and have become accordingly passive.

if your partner is exhibiting learned helplessness they aren't manipulating you, they're displaying a trauma response.

[still-trying-to-be-horny]

Kissing the duct tape over her mouth <3

[deadwings]

and so what if I get incredibly horny when people are covered in blood? as if it's my fault

[big-chieff]

I wanna record us having sex, so I can masturbate to it later

[the-bratty-bunny]

If you cum without permission, I’ll rub your nose in it like the dog you are

[mommydgaf]

beg me to violate you and do things to you that you have no desire in doing :))

just because you know it’ll make me happy

[bongsandblushes]

I didn’t think I had a big ego until I started thinking about a shrine, dedicated to Me, being worshipped at three times a day with intricate, passionate ritual and lust

[sacred-portal]