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[bonitaminaj19]

Single but secured 🤗😁♥️

Hey love, singleness is not a sickness.

“Mag-pasko na lang wa ghapon kay uyab ."

"Choosy tali ka, di ka kaau gwapa."

"Taas siguro imong standards, mag-settle ka na lang."

"Boring siguro imo life kay nag inusara raman ka."

To be honest, I live in a generation where I felt like being single means being incomplete, unlove and unchosen. Those are the lies that I believed from the past, having a partner will not make you whole. But if you're in this season of being pressured, here's my reminder for you.

No, never settle for less.

Just because your family and friends urge you to be in a relationship. Just because everyone is doing it, doesn’t mean it’s right. Just because you want to brag it on social media that you have a partner already. Just because you’re afraid of being alone. Just because you want to have late night talks with someone.

Make use of your time, talent, and treasure while you're in this singleness season. There's so much more rather than just waiting for the right one, become the right one first and I tell you, you'll attract the person who you want to become.

I may not guarantee that God will give you someone, we call it "single blessedness" and that's totally good to give your whole to Christ. But if God wants to bless you with a partner, then that person will help you grow.

The right one will make you love yourself even more, because there's no competition and insecurity, you'll be his a teammate.

The right one will make you love your Creator even more, because He is the source of love. He will not distract you with your relationship with the Lord but he will inspire you.

The right one will not be perfect but he will strive to be Christlike.

So do yourself some favor, save yourself from another pain again. Honor your season of waiting for the unknown. Give back your shattered heart again to Jesus and piece by piece He can make you whole. Be secured in His love that is constant, He is the only one that you need, so go back to your First Love.

Let your prayer be, "Lord, you're more than enough, having a partner will just be a bonus."

[bonitaminaj19]

To the man I have yet to meet...

To the man I have yet to meet.

I hope you’re doing well in every aspect of your life—I know I am. I hope you’re enjoying the days of your singleness with gladness of our creator, as I have been blissfully experiencing each day with glee.

I am in hopeful feeling that you know that I’m praying for you and with you. Maybe I haven’t met you yet, or maybe we already met. What are the odds, right? But I pray that you become the man God has created you to be.

I pray that you allow yourself to be moulded by Him. Allow the Lord to prune and stretch you from time to time. That is where your character will best be transformed.

I pray that you dream dreams that God has desired for you. Don’t be afraid to dream big, because you have a bigger and more able God.  Don't be afraid to ask God how to be true to yourself and be honest to yourself.

I Pray that the desires of your heart are aligned with the will of the Lord for your life.

I pray that you remain faithful in your walk with the Lord, that you are always reminded that He is always with you through the highs and lows.

I pray that you may find joy and peace in every decision and new chapter you are about to enter.

I pray that when you’re ready, I’m ready as well.

I pray that our paths will intertwine because God made our paths meet.

I pray that when our eyes meet and our souls connect, we will both be in our happy places. We will both be our best versions yet.

I pray that the day we reach the next step, we both can say that we were happily in love with Christ and now He has blessed us to enter this new chapter.

I pray that you will be strong when faced with temptations and problems. I know it will be challenging, but pray for strength and wisdom from our great and dear Father.

So here’s to the man I have yet to meet. I hope you’re doing well, and I can’t wait to meet you.

I’ll be praying for you.

Until then, let God take over in all things we do.

[bonitaminaj19]

𝐓𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐆𝐨𝐝 “𝐀𝐋𝐌𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐎𝐖𝐄𝐃”

1. It hurts so much. Words are not enough to explain how painful the wounds are because it took me so long to build the walls around my heart and I promised myself I’d let them break down if the right person comes along. I thought it was you — until you changed your mind. I warned you from the very start to stay away from me because I knew I would spark my feelings for you and fall deeply in love. It happened, now I have to pick up the broken pieces of my heart and build a brand new wall around it all over again. 2. I wrote letters for you. I wrote these handwritten notes and I bought a blue box with a notebook inside. It contained all of your pictures and ideas of what we could have done by the time you went home. These letters were for you — to tell you how much you meant to me and to thank God for giving you to me because you were one of my greatest dreams in life. You were my undeserved grace I said, now I have no idea what to do with these letters anymore because those words will be left unread forever. 3. I still have my playlist in my phone with your name as the title. It took me seven days to add these songs to remind me how in love I was with you. Oh how I remembered playing it a hundred times in just two days because when every song played, my heart skipped a beat and it echoed your face in my mind. I still play the songs until now but they all sound different now. I didn’t recognize what they all meant anymore. 4. I always talked to mom about you and how good you were to me. She always smiled and laughed with me when I tell her everything about you — all your stories and precious smile. She never gets mad at me whenever I stay up all night for us to have a three-hour phone conversation. She hoped that you were the last man to finally pursue my heart and yes she still asks me how you have been but I couldn’t give her an answer. 5. All of my friends were jealous of me because you wanted to win my heart. I told them how amazing you were and that you said you were willing to wait for me. They warned me not to rush of falling for you but how can I not? How can I not fall in love with you? You were so beautiful and wonderful to me. I took the risk and I gave this a shot praying you were my last lifeline. They still think you wanted me, but I now stopped mentioning your name. 6. You said that I should write again and you’d read all of my thoughts and poetries. I vowed and swore that I’ll no longer write about love or life anymore because I was tired of being hurt by the wrong people. But one day, you told me in a soft voice, “You should write again, I want to read every word you’ll ever say.” So I did and I hope you are reading this too. My love, I did not expect any of this. I should have been more careful in trusting someone like you knowing how vulnerable I was. They say that people arrive in our lives in the most unexpected time and I was not ready to meet you. You took a step into my door and explored my world. One chance was all you asked from me so I said yes but you changed your mind. I was not prepared for you to suddenly leave but you did anyway and I thank you for that. Maybe you’re not ready for love and I understand. Darling, this is the last time I will ever write about you. Even though I knew this was all going to end, I want to commend you for being honest with me. No one knows when my heart will heal again but I know God is always with me. Wherever you are right now, I pray that you’ll be the man our King wants you to be and I wish I can tell you these things personally. You were my greatest blessing… and lesson. I promise that I will build an empire around my heart. I will wait for the right man who is brave enough to climb these walls. I will not settle for less because I know my worth in Christ. I will never be the same girl as I was when I met you — instead I will be a strong and independent woman, one who knows her Father’s promises for her. And someday when the right man of God comes along, I will tell him about you.