Promises to myself

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[yvngbebe]

stuck between wanting to feel something and wanting to feel nothing at all

[memescomedy]

[listenuppnow]

[danger]

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have you ever met someone and grow attached to them and think “it’s gonna hurt real bad when they leave”

[bonniebunny]

And then after a while you think that they won’t ever leave, but then they leave one day

And it just hurts

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Love yourself. Be clear on how you want to be treated. Know your worth. Always.”

— maryam hasnaa

[dailypsychologyfacts]

8 Tips to make Dating with Anxiety Easier

Anxiety affects roughly 40 million Americans so it stands to reason that more than a few of those sufferers will try their hand at dating at some point in their lives. Now, dating can lead non-anxiety suffers to feel some pre-date jitters, but for the most part those tend to subside a short time after the date has started. So what can be done for those that have anxiety, especially a social anxiety? What can they do to help themselves relax and have a good time? How can they make it past date one or, dare we say, date five? Psych2Go offers you this list of tips and tricks you can employ if you’re dating with anxiety as your third wheel.

1. Don’t focus on your fear of the worst case scenario

Focusing on what could happen not only takes you out of the moment, it also causes undo stress. This can be applied to both a casual dating situation as well as a more established relationship. It can also, in both instances, sabotage anything that could happen. Before you get after yourself for these thoughts you should take a moment to evaluate what they are good for…

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[heartbreakhur]

[adamjk]

[theorydictatespractice-deactiva]

what i’ve learned is that if you’re gonna engage in a romantic relationship during your young adult years, it damn well better be with someone who makes your insides explode with nothing but positive emotion. someone who takes the time to be kind, patient and understanding, more often than not, and who is as warm with their words as they are with their touch. life is too short to be focused on people who do not have your growth and best interest in mind. the right person will love you in a way that makes you feel completely free and accepted within your own skin. they won’t attempt to hinder your development out of fear or insecurity that your new experiences might lead you into the arms of someone else. good lovers will desire to see your personal success just as much as you do, and they will support and respect your decisions. stay away from people who make you feel guilty about desiring the best for yourself. they don’t love you for you, they love you for what you can provide for them. and that is not love.

[guavasite]

this goes for friends as well

[tobeagenius]

Your Brain on Drugs

[takaramonos]

[wordsnquotes]

…and you drink a little too much and try a little too hard. And you go home to a cold bed and think, ‘That was fine’. And your life is a long line of fine.

(via lauracecilia-k)

[perrfectly]

You don’t need another human being to make your life complete, but let’s be honest. Having your wounds kissed by someone who doesn’t see them as disasters in your soul, but cracks to put their love into, is the most calming thing in this world.

Emery Allen  (via perrfectly)

[love-personal]

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I don’t have time to hate anyone, I either love you or I don’t care at all.

ìχ better blog ™ (via iowebillions)

[triatic]

If you break someone’s heart and they still talk to you with the same excitement and respect. Believe me they really love you.

Unknown. (via triatic)