A Cup With A Crack:Sally Field Book Talk
As part of my Alumni Book Club, I had the opportunity to attend Dominicanās Lecture Series featuring Sally Field discussing her recently published memoir In Pieces.
I was introduced to Sally in her amazing role in Not Without My Daughter and opposite Robin Williams in Ms Doubtfire, and she is one of momās favorite actresses, so I invited her up for the weekend also to join me.
Janis Cooke Newman acted as her interviewer due to her writing a novel about Mary Todd Lincoln, a role Sally discusses in the book and in her interview with Janis as one of her favorite and most hard fought for roles.
Sally walked out on stage with Janis looking adorable as always with a timid and quiet demeanor but as the interview progressed it was easy to see her strength and passion for what she did and that she would fight with everything she had for what she really wanted in life.
I was most struck by her honesty in talking about her anxiety and how as much as she wanted certain parts she would in an odd way be grateful when she would not get called back or in for auditions because then she wouldnāt have to face this scary thing and also wouldnāt have to worry about losing something that meant so much to her. She describes this feeling as feeling like a cup with a crack in it and that all of your worth is drizzling out. I have felt this way so many times when going after a job I really want and just life in general when I feel excessively overwhelmed or not doing enough.
Sally took seven years to write this book, immersing herself fully in learning a new craft thoroughly; attending writing workshops, weeding through parts of her past that made her uncomfortable (she discussed how she would print out reviews of her roles but would never read them until years later since she didnāt want to know what critics thought of her parts, as well as not always being present during her childrensā younger years because of her acting roles.)
Memoirs can definitely be tricky as either the person writing it doesnāt always have the writing skills or they get a co or ghostwriter and the words donāt come across as honest and genuine; based on how much she immersed herself in the process Iām extremely excited to read her memoir!











