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Blog introduction post

Who is this blog for?

This blog is for anyone with BPD and/or BPD traits. Other cluster B disorder havers and those without who want to learn are also welcome, although submissions are preferred to be BPD focused and sent by pwBPD and/or BPD traits.

Why this blog?

I'm not sure what happened to the other BPD culture is blog, but it was either nerfed or deleted, and I haven't seen any sign of return or a new blog, so I decided to make one. If the original account owner didn't want a creation of another one, please tell me!!!

DNI/BYF [do not interact] [before you follow]

Ableists

TERFs/radfems

Anti-recovery peeps

General DNI criteria

Cluster b abuse believers

We accept self-diagnosis.

You can vent, but we may not always know how to respond. We are a person, too.

We will also try to tag triggers accordingly.

Sending asks

Start every ask with "BPD culture is," "BPD traits culture is," "questioning/suspected BPD culture is," or something along those lines. When using a signoff for the first time, please let us know so that we can make sure it's not taken, and add it to the list. Unless specified otherwise, we will assume that submissions with a signoff are meant to be posted anonymously. If you don't want to remain anonymous, either say so along with your submission, or send an ask to let us know, and we'll keep a running list. And if you don't use a signoff but would still like to keep your anonymity, let us know as well.

And, if you want a positivity-only space, be sure to check out @positive-bpd-culture-is

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bpd + hpd culture is sitting in dbt therapy, sharing your experience, and being dismissed as "that's moreso the histrionic part of your diagnosis" ... the fact I had to come back to this blog for reassurance that it's also a bpd experience is sad 😭 for the love of the gods, thry overlap!!! -🧪🦝

oh no the disorders that are in the same fucking cluster have common traits shocker

#borderline culture is #bpd + hpd culture is #- 🧪🦝

bpd culture is somehow managing to forget constantly that you're not allowed to feel anything negative and then having to comfort everyone when you have the audacity to

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Questioning BPD culture is realizing that dissociating whenever you get a little stressed, hating yourself because you don't know who the hell you are, and leaving all your friends because they obviously hate me and are horrible people so why am I even friends with them multiple times in one school year, probably aren't "normal teenage behaviour" because what normal teenager stops being friends with over 15 people (not all at once) in half a year (or less) because one day he decided they hate his guts

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suspected BPD culture is yayy im hanging out with her im so happy ^_^ but as soon as her closer friend comes over to us she starts ignoring me and i want to fucking kill them both

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bpd culture is being terrified of talking about uour bpd bc of how stigmatized it is and nearly having a panic attack while doing it with your fp (who still loves you and this has in fact made you closer than before <3)

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BPD culture is worrying I’m never going to have another friend aside from my best friend because everyone I used to know were just friends of convenience. I have potential friends but dear god I am so tired of having to be the one to do everything all the time. “Oh you take the first step everyone else is anxious too” I’m fucking terrified constantly that everyone hates me, I’m tired of being the only one to reach out, I’m tired of planning everything, I’m tired of feeling like I’m not worth anyone’s time or attention. And yet I’m the weird one for not having any friends and I’m the one who always has to be responsible

side note- in one of my classes the other day a girl literally said “the person we pick can’t be a freak with no friends” and I swear my heart broke. That’s not how real life works. Creepy weird people can have friends and not having friends doesn’t automatically make you a bad person. Plus if people follow that logic how is anyone going to make friends?? We’re all new to this school and area sorry we’re not all extroverts

-‧꒰ა ☆ ໒꒱ ‧

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bpd culture is wanting to fucking die when someone you reblogged from starts insulting you because they didn’t like the tags you included under their post. holy shit can you chill out for a moment? calmly tell me and correct me on whatever i said wrong? no wonder why you’re irrelevant you piece of shit

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bpd culture is genuinely? i dont think any amount of therapy will save me. being medicated wont save me. i know i will die before i turn eighteen and that's okay. i feel weirdly at peace with finally accepting this haha, i'll never love again and that's okay

-- crow 💢

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#borderline culture is #- crow 💢

(Self-aware) BPD culture is splitting on your friends but Knowing you can't do anything about it because you'll lose them- but then you can never get over the split because you can't vent it out so you just stay hating them

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bpd + npd culture is someone, a caretaker, leaving the house after an argument, and mentally descending into an honest to god episode.

deciding that if they can leave you so easily, if they can leave you so easily

repeated thought that you'd never again depend on someone who could leave you

and in turn even when they come back and see you crashing, and try to talk, you still push them away because fuck this. it'll only happen again won't it, so don't let it happen again, just get the fuck away from me forever

and now I can't figure out why I didn't listen when they came

I'm trying to imagine how it'll be to drag myself in front of them and beg for whatever, forgiveness, hatred, whatever

and I hate it

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suspected bpd culture is getting so fucking upset that you're boyfriend is begging you to stop buying him shit. i do it because i love you and want to. i could easily do this for anyone else. its fine. just tell me you fucking hate me or whatever.

im doing this for you and you keep rebuffing me. i do this because i want to and its the only way i can show my love

i hate you then. whatever.

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(self-diagnosed) bpd is having to mask all the time and it becomes such a habit I don't know how to unmask when I'm finally able to

This doesn't help my identity issues

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Bpd culture is

Get upset > want someone to care > drop hints > get asked "are you okay" > freak out because you don't want to be a bother > say you're fine > continue to be upset > repeat

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BPD + Autism culture is being unable to read/understand tones being your WORSE enemy...

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bpd culture is AFTER THREE YEARS HE UNBLOCKED ME ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!! NEVER KILL YOURSELF!!!!

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BPD Culture is

Why do my friends always have to get with each other after I introduce them. Every time they only meet and only get together because of me, and every time it feels like I'm being ditched. I know logically I'm not, but when they keep wanting time to themself (something that couples tend to want) it just ends up feeling like they're leaving me behind. I hate feeling like this and it keeps happening.

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