BPQUA+ Solidarity, Awareness, Positivity, & Support

We are for a-spectrum & multi-spectrum solidarity, and a blog that supports those that don't want to or know how to label their orientation. It is a space for positivity, with an emphasis on awareness, being inclusive, and helping people out. Specifically a blog for people on the a-spec or m-spec umbrellas, but inclusive of a lot of other identities too! The blog was created so that we would have our own space, and as a counter to a lot of negativity that has been going on lately. We are definitely inclusive of gay, trans, intersex, and non-binary people, that is just not the emphasis of our blog. This blog has multiple mods of various identities on the a-spectra and multi-spectra, and even some questioning/undecided mods. Profile picture was created by @assemble-the-fangirls

[grumpgays]

pan pride icons // please like/reblog if you use

[posi-pan]

[Image Description: A textured paint background with white, italic text in the center that reads, “disabled pan people are lovely”.]

[bpqua]

Your truth is allowed to be. 

Your truth doesn’t have to fit in a box. Doesn’t have to make everyone else happy. It’s yours. Whether it’s your gender or sexual orientation, you are allowed it, and you are allowed not to negotiate it. 

[lemonyflicker]

New Years Extravaganza sale!

To celebrate the holidays and the end of the decade, take 50% off EVERYTHING in store from now until the 31st of December! And keep your eyes peeled for something new coming in the new year!! 

Absolutely everything is 50% off, and orders over a hundred (after discounts) qualify for free shipping!

[bpqua]

'dur the only one who gets to define yo identity is you!' yeah jackoff, except if you're being homophobic, lesbophobic, biphobic, transphobic, you can fuck right off with your stupid ass 'split attraction' tumblr bullshit YOU'RE BISEXUAL, WE GET IT

And here is everyones daily reminder that other people having an identity that you don’t like isn’t magically inherently homophobic, lesbophobic, biphobic, nor transphobic!

Nothing about existing as you are is inherently bigoted, because that’s not how existing works! 

Telling people their identity existing is bigoted however, demanding they change their identity, and demanding they curtail their own truth so that you’re more ‘comfortable’? Yeah, that is. 

[lemonyflicker]

New stronger scents in all my pride-candles, available in my store, plus a new scent combo “Fruit” With Watermelon, Cherry, and Orange Strawberry!

New flags ‘Nonbinary’, ‘Genderfluid’, and Queer Chevron coming soon too! If there’s a flag you would like to see made available, please message me, and I will make sure to make one just for you! Custom scent combo’s also available!

Please check out my Etsy shop, linked in my description due to tumblr deleting/hiding links!

[lemonyflicker]

20% off all Pride Lights for the month of June! Happy Pride! Much more is now available as well, including multiple nb options, queer dual pack, and polysexual and polyamorous, along with the Gilbert Baker original, and sub-community flags!

[aroaesflags]

Neon flags

Lesbian flag by apersnicketylemon

[bpqua]

boy that anon really thought, huh

They really did

Just proof that it pays to double check what you’re saying is true before making a total fool out of yourself! 

[bpqua]

So, no gay people, lesbians, or trans people, huh?

Hi there, this is a positivity blog for identities that have fewer positivity blogs than others, but even then we still celebrate all identities on this blog, and post plenty of gay, lesbian and trans positivity! 

Also the mod answering this is a lesbian who also id’s as trans, so I fit in to two of the catagories you claim we’re not representing (and we are representing them here too, there are plenty of posts on this blog too for those groups, so it’s fairly clear you didn’t bother looking at our blog before sending this ask in). I know the other mods fit into some of those id’s too, but if you want a lesbian only, trans only, or gay man only positivity blog there are plenty of them out there. We’re not an anything-only specific blog, our main focus is just on identities that get a lot less positivity. 

[lemonyflicker]

New stronger scents in all my pride-candles, available in my store, plus a new scent combo “Fruit” With Watermelon, Cherry, and Orange Strawberry!

New flags ‘Nonbinary’, ‘Genderfluid’, and Queer Chevron coming soon too! If there’s a flag you would like to see made available, please message me, and I will make sure to make one just for you! Custom scent combo’s also available!

Please check out my Etsy shop, linked in my description due to tumblr deleting/hiding links!

[lbtqap-ladies-n-nbs]

[Caption: tweet by skeivefroya that reads “gender neutral form of gf/bf: comradefriend”. End caption.]

[balisongbutch]

Help a trans girl not be homeless

Hey, my name is Alyx. I’m a transfem girl living in NC. I’ve been cut off financially by my parents very suddenly after they learned I started hrt against their wishes. I’m living on campus atm, but starting this summer I’m not going to have anywhere to go. I’m really desperate and even a few dollars my way could make a huge difference in me staying off the streets in a few months. Please boost even if you can’t donate, thank you so much.

https://www.paypal.me/alyxwalls

[autspoon]

The Cpunk & ND discord server.

This is a server for disabled & neurodivergent people. This community has a focus on embracing neurodiversity & the cripple punk sub-culture, & challenging ableism.

The server is both for learning & sharing your experiences, with more! Activist group, community, socializing, laughs, comfort, safe space… It’s whatever you want it to be!

Here is the invite link.

We have a huge selection of self-assignable roles, we have plenty of channels you can opt into, we have an amazing mod-team, bunch of nd/disability related emoji, and we have a flourishing and active community!

We also are setting up a system that makes things less over-whelming for newcomers and older users alike.

We also have a channel dedicated for systems/multiples, where you can utilize a special bot for talking. We in addition to this have a sign language hub, where we share resources, and eventually plan to organize signing sessions.

We also have plans for future movie nights. So that can also be something to look forward to.

[balisongbutch]

Uhh, trying to get away from my parents, help a trans girl out?

DM me for donation link

[autspoon]

Cripple punk & Neurodiversity Community - Discord Server is now up.

Here is the link.

I have for awhile now, been brewing on this idea, and with a lot of positive feedback, and people asking me about it through the last year… I finally have come to realize the idea. And I think it’s ready for going public.

The server is for anyone who thinks this would fit them. I am not here to police who is and isn’t deserving of being in our space. I would actually argue that it goes against what cripple punk is meant to be to police who belongs.

The server has various channels, roles, bots, emoji and the whole package, so that you get the average discord experience. It has a lobby-system to minimalize trolls.

What to do to get in:

Click link.

Read the rules in the relevant channel.

Say you read the rules in the lobby, and perhaps introduce yourself.

Wait to get “member” role.

Make yourself at home! You officially gained access!

I would genuinely appreciate it if you all shared this around, as I’ve seen a lot of people express interest for this, and I put a lot of work into it.

[autspoon]

Here’s some screenshots from the server, that might intrigue some of you:

We got many features, a huge number of roles, and a lot of neat emoji that I’ve collected the entire week! I have put a lot of effort into getting all the bots and features, to enrichen the experience there.

It’s a server I’m pretty proud of having made, with all of the stuff I have figured out this week… And already a lot of very nice people are on the server! Would be very cool to see how many members we can get!

Thanks everyone for sharing and joining! This is a very cool and important project, and I genuinely appreciate all the support!

[autspoon]

Cripple punk & Neurodiversity Community - Discord Server is now up.

Here is the link.

I have for awhile now, been brewing on this idea, and with a lot of positive feedback, and people asking me about it through the last year… I finally have come to realize the idea. And I think it’s ready for going public.

The server is for anyone who thinks this would fit them. I am not here to police who is and isn’t deserving of being in our space. I would actually argue that it goes against what cripple punk is meant to be to police who belongs.

The server has various channels, roles, bots, emoji and the whole package, so that you get the average discord experience. It has a lobby-system to minimalize trolls.

What to do to get in:

Click link.

Read the rules in the relevant channel.

Say you read the rules in the lobby, and perhaps introduce yourself.

Wait to get “member” role.

Make yourself at home! You officially gained access!

I would genuinely appreciate it if you all shared this around, as I’ve seen a lot of people express interest for this, and I put a lot of work into it.

[autspoon]

Here’s some screenshots from the server, that might intrigue some of you:

We got many features, a huge number of roles, and a lot of neat emoji that I’ve collected the entire week! I have put a lot of effort into getting all the bots and features, to enrichen the experience there.

It’s a server I’m pretty proud of having made, with all of the stuff I have figured out this week… And already a lot of very nice people are on the server! Would be very cool to see how many members we can get!

Thanks everyone for sharing and joining! This is a very cool and important project, and I genuinely appreciate all the support!

[skeivefroya]

Gay & Trans Pride Flags Pixel Art!

Thought that since I’ve been working a bit on depth and shading… I’d share some of it with you all.

So yeah, sorry for not posting in awhile but here you have it: A waving gay flag and a waving trans flag on a flag pole.

Feel free to use them. Any like or reblog is appreciated, as is feed-back. But I’d also genuinely appreciate any direct economic support, you can do this by buying me a coffee.