Aspiring Himbo Butch

/!\ read pinned byf /!\ I'm Théo, 30, big ol' butch just living his life, loving on his femme, screaming about fictional women and getting horny. Welcome aboard this colorful and very gay mess I call my mind! (all posts about women, lesbians, etc. are inclusive of trans, gnc, nb people of all shapes and ethnicity; i am safe for you) 21+ to follow / 24+ to interact with nsfw posts please

[braveboldbutch]

Welcome to my world!

Please read before you follow or interact 🥰

I'm Théodore/Théo, I'm 30, and I'm a raging dyke, I mean I'm a big butch, sorry I mean I'm a flaming lesbian. Bref, you get it.

This blog is a mashup of all my interests at once with very minimal organizing. Like the way I'm living tbh.

Let me make some stuff clear:

- he/him

- butch, fat, only a woman for other queers

- poly and madly in love w my femme boyfriend

- unless I give permission to anyone, I am a stone top, my relationship with my stone-ness is an ongoing journey

- usually dom, unless you wanna pin me down to use me and tell me what to do 🤭

-butch4all 😌

- 21+ to follow, but if you're under 24, I'd rather you don't respond to nsfw posts or interact in any sexual way with me, thanks

- I don't want men, at all, to interact or follow me, or message me even non sexually. Same for straight women, nothing on this blog is for the heteros.

- lesbians, bi, nb sapphics all welcomed pls do tell me if you think I'm hot 👀

- I block on sight: empty blogs, ageless blogs, terfs, racists, hp stuff, gold star lesbian bullshit, bigots, anyone I just fucking want 😌

- New followers must like this post!! It lets me know you read it and understand my boundaries and such, thank you! 💕

[saffisme]

the thrill of gradually discovering someone's kinks and subtly using them in conversations. the satisfaction of offering a simple "i'm proud of you" for doing everyday tasks followed by the delightful sight of their cheeks blushing?? truly unmatched

[easyvirgin-deactivated20160413]

happy Thursday the 20th

[askjennaflorida]

I’d have to wait months or even years for another chance to reblog this, so why the fuck not?

[mx-mythical-deactivated20260319]

next days you can reblog this on a Thursday the 20th

August 2015

October 2016

April 2017

July 2017

September 2018

December 2018

June 2019

February 2020

August 2020

You know, just in case you wanted to set your queue for the next 6 years

[itsquietinsantafe2]

TODAY

[captain-of-the-historicfuture]

Since it’s now August 20, 2020… The next days you can reblog this on a Thursday the 20th:

May 2021

January 2022

October 2022

April 2023

July 2023

June 2024

February 2025

March 2025

November 2025

August 2026

If you wanted to set your queue for the next six years.

[indigos-shits-and-giggles-deact]

THANK WHATEVER COSMIC BEING IS OUT THERE THAT THIS CAME UPON MY DASH HAPPY THURSDAY THE 20TH!!!!

[wolfram-petanu]

happy Thursday the 20th guys

[fizzimus]

Holy shit, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a Tumblr post with this many notes. See you all in April!

[alpa-the-internet-cowboy]

HAPPY THURSDAY THE 20TH @hellsite-hall-of-fame

[thoughts-of-kel]

IT’S THURSDAY THE 20TH

[catchymemes]

[the-taintedtruth]

“If you’re ever lucky enough to find a girl who is a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind, you should hold onto that. Because she’ll be yours at two in the morning and at two in the afternoon the following day. She’ll kiss you where it hurts and until it hurts. And that’s important. Someone who not only knows how to turn you on but also knows how to treat you right is someone worth a little something… and a little more than usual.”

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[wildspringday]

kathryn hahn via instagram

[thickness-protection-program]

The most crucial part of adulthood is to never completely lose your childlike wonder

[genderqueerdykes]

shoutout to the dysphoric butch women who need to pack, take testosterone, chest bind, get top and/or bottom surgery, wear artificial facial hair, and do other masculinizing things in order to feel like who you are. if you are a butch woman who feels as though you need to have a penis, high testosterone and/or no breasts, you are valid in your desires. while there are butches who experience these things and identify as men, we also have to respect butch women who need these things and still identify as women. i see you and i hope you can present how you need to in order to feel like who you really are.

[prettyinpinkfemme]

femme lipstick marks left on a joint leading to femme lipstick marks left on a butch's neck or strap

[prttyboybutch-deactivated202503]

love femmes who bite

[gorgynei]

how i feel listening to the giver

[mischa-makowka]

[stud-lover]

Love when I can make a stud smile

[ultramoderngurl]

chappell roan’s “the giver” promotional billboards

[the-blueprint]

[ripleylarue]

From a little zine I made :)

[fairy-switchblade]

This is your permission post to get a little bit goofy with butch/femme culture btw

y’all take this too seriously sometimes. “That’s not femme enough” “That’s too femme” My angel honey sea anemone pea princess. We are in gender buffoonery land. It has always been like that. We are clowning around in the face of gender essentialism. Stop trying to reinvent gender essentialism.

If you’ve ever accused yourself of not being femme enough, or not being butch enough, I need you to remind yourself that the culture is there to serve you. It exists so you can cope. It exists so you can feel at home. It exists so you can do gender tomfoolery and feel good.