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capricornluna-deactivated201810

this blog hates donald trump

pearlmarley

Look how many people hate him. I’m pretty damn happy about that 😁😁😁😁😁😁

letmeprosper

All I want is this post to get a small amount of a million notes

jehovahhthickness

So…. People can’t date just for fun? Why is it that everything gotta lead to a serious relationship or marriage?

Sometimes you need people to chill with …. people to talk to …. people to casually fuck… people to go to lunch/dinner or events with.

highfalutinuppitynegress

❗❗❗❗❗ AMEN idk who tf I wanna hang with tomorrow let alone 10 yrs from now

spirit-pussy-deactivated2017020

finally someone said it

theimaginarythoughts-deactivate

We put too much stress on ourselves to find a perfect relationship or some deeper meaning when they can simply be

luvheritage

Honestly, marriage is supposed to be the end goal of dating. That’s how a lot of us were raised. However, the way our generation views marriage has changed. You don’t have to “date with marriage in mind” if you don’t want to, just make sure whoever you end up with is on the same page. It’s really not that hard.

jehovahhthickness

“marriage is supposed to be the end goal of dating”

Says who? 🤔

blaquebypopulardemand

It’s really not. The end goal is happiness and that’s not marriage for everyone regardless of the generation they were born in. If you’re dating to get married you’re the one who should be informing the other person cuz you’re the one bringing the pressure and taking away the carefree aspect of just getting lunch with someone to get to know them. Dating is about getting to know someone and gauging if you could see something more than occasional drinks/dinner dates etc. marriage is the end goal of a serious relationship maybe but not dating. Our grandparents and great grandparents spent a good bit of time dating ppl and feeling the pressure to marry young and pop out kids and half of them hate each other down the line and either split or stay together out of convenience. Even my moms friends (all in their late 30s) all married early and harbor deep hatred for their husbands cuz they got married because they were “supposed to” and now they have kids with guys they can’t even stand.

jehovahhthickness

Whoop there it is!

jaminicanbitch

i’ve been saying this!! like what’s this big fascination with falling in love and getting married??? how about just being happy first?? and just enjoy and let shit happen. like idgi the pressure to get married now and have kids? i mean if it happens now, congrats i ain’t hating

imanincognita-deactivated202410

It’s finding someone with the same mindset that’s difficult

super-shar

Idk, I used to think like this, but it’s different now. I just don’t like wasting my time, and the way I see it is if I’m dating you without the intention of our relationship growing or going anywhere someday, I feel like I’m wasting my time. It’s one thing to to have a fwb/ no strings attached type thing, but if I’m going to call you my boyfriend and say that we are in a real relationship, I would want that person to be somebody I can see myself marrying one day.

jehovahhthickness

That’s wassup. You don’t have to do anything I said. Do whatever makes you happy.

Whatever works for you, works for YOU.

hiscomplicatedwife-deactivated2

Keep saying this over and over again. I have female friends and family, that go into relationships with the mindset that they’re going to marry the guy. I’m telling them to chill or have that convo with hin so he knows where they’re at and the response is usually the same “So he can think I’m crazy?” “I’m going to let it happen naturally” or flat out “I’m not telling him that” Now they have their hopes up and dreaming about white dresses and baby blankets and the man is clueless. He thinks it’s a casual thing and loves it the way it is then they stay talking about moving in together and getting married. Then they get upset when he says that’s not what he wants like he has to marry them because they’re fucking and they “told him things they never told anyone else”, and “he’s the love of my life”, and on and on… Don’t get me wrong I feel for them but it’s crazy to destroy what could be because you’re racing to prove something or fit into the picture of the perfect couple…we need to grow up and follow or own paths.

breatheimperfections

I just don't get what IS wrong with wanting those things. To MOST PEOPLE, you date to find out what you like in people, what you don't, and what to look for moving forward. The ORIGINAL concept of dating or COURTING if you will, WAS TO BE MARRIED. so let's stay factual. No one is forcing anything on you. Keep being a hoe, keep doing a new dick every day. But that's doesn't cut it for some people. Every body ain't fucked up. Some people like consistency. Damn. Y'all so caught up in "not being oppressed" and standing out, and TRYING to be different that y'all all sound the fucking same. I WONT argue. Block me, delete me, Bye.

fukkce

me for the next 4 years

plantain-papi

Me when I get back to the DC

breatheimperfections

Ayyyyyyyy, lol

vanillascentedthot

If you out and you get a bad feeling, go home immediately

jahreezyp

Man, y'all better listen.

flyandfamousblackgirls

spring2000

“If you can only be tall because someone else is on their knees, then you have serious problem. And white people have a very, very serious problem.”

“If I take your race away, and there you are, all strung out and all you got is your little self, and what is that? What ARE you without racism? Are you any good? And still strong? Still smart? You still like yourself?” - Toni Morrison

thetrippytrip

“Tiarah was pursuing a dual degree B.S./M.S. program in the Peter J. Tobin College of Business where she recently completed her undergraduate degree in accounting in May 2016, and had just begun graduate work toward her Masters degree in taxation. She had a bright future ahead of her and was taken much too soon. The entire University community sends our thoughts and prayers to the Poyau family during this difficult time.” ~ St. John’s University President Conrado Gempesaw

This young black woman was killed because she refused to dance with a man at Juve…

Process this. Lay it out. Woman went to festival. Woman was dancing. Man said nothing, just started dancing on her. Woman said no. Woman literally got her head blown off. The man was so bothered by the idea that he was not wanted or needed in her space, so he killed her. If you move around these facts at all to try and justify her death….You’re a part of the problem. But you don’t have to be.

If you want and can support, hers GoFound compaign.

mouse-named-minerva

This is really crazy. It’s time to stop seeing headlines like this. Women are allowed to say FUCKING NO. We don’t owe you shit or any kind of attention just Bc u have a dick and it happens to fit in a vagina. You do not get to take women’s lives because of rejection.