Brianne Mirra

[brimirfos]

A little bedtime reading.#thewolvesthatliveinskinandspace #dannywylde

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“I’m no hero. I put my bra on one boob at a time like everyone else.”

[brimirfos]

Gotta love Tina.

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"I never saw a single sign of abuse from James, witnessed any abuse from him, or saw anything that would have led me to believe that something was awry, except on the part of Stoya." I don't get how you don't see that this could be damaging to OTHER victims - the stories you told were yours to tell. I wish you would get how they did damage and could bolster predators accounts. I had survivors tell me your and James' sides of the stories wewhat THEIR attackers had said. Iknow you don't get it.

You must have missed the section where I said that none of that means it didn’t happen. I’ve already apologized and said that I shouldn’t have posted what I did. Do you want my head on a stick? What do you want from me? If you’re expecting me to say that I believe Stoya because I should believe every single word that comes out of every single woman’s mouth, it ain’t gonna happen.

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I agree. I'm a woman and I don't blindly believe rape allegations...especially those made on Twitter.

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If you harass people anonymously on the Internet, you deserve to have your hands cut off.

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Yes.

[baldheadedho69-deactivated20181]

Something like 4 women accused him of rape. I doubt they all got together and decided to lie. Wake up.

Get yo facts straaaaaaight. There’s also video/photo evidence that is contradictory to their statements. Sorry ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Tell them where to shove it, Shannon! 😌😉

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“Oh, this? Just my package. God delivered it, I signed for it.”

[baldheadedho69-deactivated20181]

No one wants to give a rapist awards? Well, that's shocking. Mick Blue is more talented anyway and has never raped anyone.

Who said anything about Mick Blue or Male Performer of the Year? Pretty sure I only mentioned the incredible movie that my entire team worked their asses off to make. And fun fact, my boss isn’t a rapist.

Why do people do this shit? Does it make you feel big and happy to anonymously harass someone online that you don’t even know? Go fucking pet a dog and quit being a miserable bastard.

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You tell 'em, Shannon. There's are reason they're doing it anonymously. It's called being a coward.

[brimirfos]

Why I'm Not a Feminist

I've learned over the past few months that there is a certain type of feminism that makes me ashamed to be a woman. When you care more about being a feminist than you do about the truth...there's a problem. When you don't care about the fact that someone's life may be ruined over a false accusation, there's a problem. When you decide to convict someone with out a shred of evidence or proof there's a problem. When you don't care about evidence that contradicts those accusations when it is presented to you, there's a problem. When you, won't even entertain the possibility of innocence because it doesn't fit your agenda, there's a problem.

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Acknowledging A Rape Hoax

This is being written as a response to a blog written by Rayne Millaray for the website Peepshow Toys.

Ms. Rayne’s blog is entitled “The importance of consent.”

Millaray is using the recent James Deen situation to make the point.

First off Millaray writes, Deen denied the allegations on Twitter, saying that he respects women and consent. And on December 8th, The Daily Beast published an email interview in which Deen gave “his side.” 

I am genuinely horrified that Millaray puts “his side” in quotation marks as if James or anyone else shouldn’t be allowed to defend his name on serious allegations.

To start Millaray seems to think that James is trying to blame the adult industry, stating that he was following directions of the directors on sets, and basically deflecting from what she believes is James violating consent. She talks about Stoya but I will discuss that last.

Millaray posts this from James’s statement.

“As far as these other claims,” Deen says, “at a certain point I feel like people have to step back and analyze this stuff in context. Most of these are descriptions of things on BDSM or rough sex sets. When I am on set I am under instruction of the company who is paying me. I could describe the events of the scene I was in the other day and it could be just as dramatic.”

What Millaray seems to have gotten from this statement is that James would continue to do something that the female actress is objecting to because James is going to follow the directions of the director. Which is not what he saying at all.

Millaray decides to just leave this part of James’s statement out…

“If at any point I pushed boundaries past the point of comfort, I am sorry. I have always tried to respect peoples’ limits and safe words and operated within that space. If someone expressed anything to me I honored the request with the fullest care.”

Millaray then talks about this next statement from James.

“When asked about T.M.’s allegations, Deen states, “This party mentioned is an invitation-only BDSM swinger’s party in Vegas,”  “as if that fact gave him the right to grab whoever he wanted and have sex with them, Mallory writes.

So Millaray fails to acknowledge James’s entire statement. He denies T.M.’s account of events and chooses not go into specifics of said event.

The next part of what I’m writing is speculation based off of the statements made by James and T.M. and shouldn’t be taken as facts.

James states the party is an “Invitation-only BDSM swinger’s party.” In T.M.’s statement she says that “I’d been drinking with my coworkers and friends, and I wandered up to a party in a suite not really knowing what it was.’’

Do people frequently wander into Invitation-only BDSM swinger’s parties? Was she invited by someone? T.M. doesn’t mention going there with any of the people she was having drinks with, so how did she get in? Why did she WANT to get in? I don’t know what she looks like or anything but it isn’t far fetched to say that she could have gotten in without said invitation but to me James stated that it was an “invitation-only” event for a reason.

Then we get to Kora Peters. I need to say that besides Farrah Abraham and Nicki Blue, Kora Peters is OBVIOUSLY lying. I guess these 3 are all obviously lying but because I used to enjoy the first scene Kora Peters ever shot with James I guess her accusation has been the most troubling for me.

So Millaray  writes, On the allegations made by Kora Peters, Deen says, “months after the scene in question was shot she performed in an anal scene with me for my company,” as if turning down a scene with someone as powerful in the industry as Deen was at the time wouldn’t end a career. 

There is so much wrong with Millaray’s statement on this, I don’t even know where to begin. I did just call 3 women who said they were sexually assaulted liars so lets start with that. How do I know Kora Peters is lying?

Because Kora Peters sucks at lying. So if we go by Kora’s original statement. Kora states that she does a scene for James’s site.

“One incident was when I did a scene with James personal site and he offered to pay me extra for anal. I told him I had never done anal  (linked is the BTS footage where she states otherwise) and was brand new to the biz he assured me it would only be one position for 2 minutes.”

Kora states THIS is the first time she has had anal sex with James Deen. Let me remind you KORA is saying this.

The actual timeline is Kora and James first worked together for New Sensations. How do I know this? Well the scene for New Sensations was shot in 2009 and released in 2009. The scene for James’s site was shot in 2013. New Sensations website has the date listed for the scene as being shot/released in 2009 as well the porn database site Data18 has the New Sensations scene being shot in 2009, James Deen productions’s scene is listed as being shot in 2013/released 2013. Not to mention Kora looks extremely different in both scenes. 

I actually just discovered this, this isn’t even included in my first blog. So wow. It’s a little sickening to me that while I felt I did alot of research I missed the dates. This happened not months apart as James’s says but YEARS apart. I complained in my last post about being unable to find the dates, so IDK how I fucked that up.

Kora is very lucky no one found this out when people seemed to care about this story. This is TWO examples of Kora lying. One Kora lies about the timeline on purpose just so she can say she was “paired” with James…again as if to say she had no choice but to work with him.

As Millary suggests when she writes that Kora couldn’t turn down working with James because he is such a huge celebrity. Which isn’t something I believe to be true. James has frequently mentioned its the women who have the control and the men are simply props, not to mention I have seen women in the industry on Twitter openly discussing companies they would work with and companies they don’t want to. So people talking about the porn industry like it’s as misogynist as Hollywood isn’t all that true, all though maybe for newer actresses it could be. However there are a wide range of companies with excellent reputations and so there aren’t many valid excuses to do something in the business you don’t want to do. 

TWO, Kora Peters engages in anal sex with James for both scenes so again she is lying because based off the timeline of the films Kora had anal sex with James previously when she claims it was the first time.

So I could do a whole post on Kora Peters which I may do because I think she should admit she lied. I have other examples of her lying on my 1st post on this topic and she lies in an interview with Cathy Young, So look out for Kora Peters, The Grinch who stole Hanukkah, coming soon.

Seriously its bad enough to lie to this degree on someone but to do it around the holidays. That’s just fucked up.

Now on to Millary’s next statement. Deen plainly states that his violation of Nikki Blue can’t possibly be a violation because, “There is photographic evidence that was posted on her own Tumblr page showing other employees of Kink.com performing these acts on her.” But here’s the thing: that’s not how consent works.  It doesn’t matter if you’re at a kinky party. You still have to get consent from anyone you touch. Period.

When in James’s statement does it say he touched Nicki without her consent? He says there is photographic evidence of other people doing the things she says he did to her because there is LITERALLY photos of OTHER people doing the things she stated James did.

If you read Nicki’s original statement she says that James is the one fisting her and forcing a bottle in her nether regions, then boom the pictures NICKI posted on her own Tumblr pop up, and Princess Donna is in fact the one doing all the fisting and bottle stuff.

So now Nicki says it was BOTH James and Princess Donna who violated her. Fine. So James peed in her mouth and Princess Donna did the other stuff. Nicki didn’t want them too…expect Nicki writes on the Kink.com forum that she totally gives CONSENT for James and Princess Donna to pee in her mouth and fist her.

Nicki claims that she posted allegations of abuse to the Kink.com forum and Kink deleted it and her profile. While I haven’t been able to prove that, TRPWL.com received information that Nicki did in fact give her consent to the acts SHE describes James and Princess Donna performing. I also helped them out by using Internet Archive to find the post in question. If the link doesn’t work the first time around just click it again. Link to my post and Link to Nicki’s.

If you need me to explain what Internet Archive does, it’s basically the reason people say once you post something on the Internet it’s there forever.

So moving on to Stoya who Mallary brought up at the beginning of her blog.

Mallory writes, And, in an attempt to avoid blaming his accusers, Deen says what isn’t true is made up by the media in almost every case…except Stoya’s. Stoya is outright lying. She’s vengeful and angry, and just not over him, says Deen. 

James never calls Stoya vengeful and angry. James never says Stoya isn’t over him.

James is confused and that’s pretty obvious. He has no idea why Stoya has said this, he just has theories.

MIllaray then talks about how James states that Stoya has in the past written in various articles all over the Internet talking about their communication sexually. Millaray ponders if this was before or after her allegation.

I found one from before they dated on a Reddit AMA that Stoya did.

Before.

I found this one on Twitter from Stoya’s blog. Its posted on Nov 2014 which I am pretty sure they had split up by then because according to her Twitter around Aug 2014 she was moving back to NY, which is where this timeline comes from.

After.

Either way Millaray holds the sentiment that a rape victim will often defend their rapist, so it doesn’t matter when Stoya wrote these positive things.

I don’t want to speculate on why Stoya said what she said. I don’t have any evidence to the contrary. I do think Stoya’s statements are flimsy but again nothing concrete to disprove her.

I will say that I can relate to a broken heart…and what I have observed points to that, in my honest opinion.

One thing that was frustrating was the fact that people kept bringing up the fact that Stoya is a sex worker. That Stoya’s and the other women’s job is the reason they couldn’t report their alleged sexual assault. No one pointed that fact out more then other sex workers and feminists.

I fail miserably at understanding the difference between a woman who has sex, with multiple partners for a living VS a woman who has sex with multiple partners because she CAN. Woman ARE entitled to justice no matter what. I feel the general consensus among those who “believe the victims” is women can’t report sexual assaults at all, because they won’t be believed or its a humiliating experience. I don’t agree with not reporting crimes and will never support that.

Also no one really ever bothered mentioning that James is also a sex worker. What I saw is a male sex worker is immediately capable of being a rapist simply because he does sex work.

 Included in James’s statement he posts a link to a clip that shows him and Stoya doing a scene and its a rough sex scene, she asks him to stop…so James stops. 

He holds up the fact that a film produced by and starring him was featured on Stoya’s website as proof that he did nothing untoward. And he even went so far as to give the media previously unreleased footage of him and Stoya that shows him respecting her boundaries—which, honestly, just came across as an attempt to victimize Stoya further. 

Mallaray thinks it’s bad for some reason that James has proof he knows what consent is and respects boundaries. Somehow it victimizes Stoya to prove that he knows what consent is, especially when it comes to Stoya.

I….I, like what?

What Millaray is absolutely right about is that he doesn’t want to accuse his accusers.

This is certainly not the first time James has been fine dealing with any sort of negative attention on his character and not wanting to say anything negative about the person being negative toward him.

During the entire “faux sex tape” story involving reality TV personality Farrah Abraham in 2013, Farrah stated false things to the press (I.e she desperately wanted to this to be some Kim Kardashian type situation but James was never her boyfriend, James has denied that from day one, refused to go along with such a marketing strategy like she wanted and this “sex tape” was actually a professionally shot film produced by Vivid, a porn company) and made insulting comments about James.

Abraham had just stated that James’s penis was too small. Fans on his blog, as I was witness too, had very unkind things to say about Abraham because of this. The next day he wrote a blog stating that 

“if a specific woman states she likes big dicks or refers to i don’t know… my dick as “tiny” doesn’t mean people should call her a whore or accuse her of having a large vagina.  everyone likes different things.  my opinion on equality is that everyone EQUALLY deserves respect.  respect opinions, respect desires, respect boundaries and personal space.  i could be wrong but at this time in my life i will operate under this principal until proven otherwise.”

James recently blogged a little on his feelings about how people precieve him.

“ i have realized a while ago that most the world doesn’t actually view me as a real person.  i am essentially an objectified vessel for them to project whatever desires/fantasies or opinions they want into. i’m ok with it.  it’s the life i chose and also i have never been one to really give any fucks.  i also find it amusing to see what people decide to make me in order to serve their own agenda.”

Consent is an important issue and always will be. While James may be comfortable with people like Millaray insisting he doesn’t know what it is. Me and lots of other people aren’t. James is one of the reasons many people, mainly women, embraced their desires and learned the difference between rough sex and abuse. While James isn’t perfect, I am not trying to make him into a role model…I would hate to think that all of the good work he has done is being overshadowed by some obvious lies, little to no evidence of anything, and this scary thing where people not only believe things with no evidence but treat them as fact. This has real consequences on people’s lives.

I applaud Adi Shankarm, a Hollywood film director, for recently stating, “I won’t feed our growing pitchfork culture. I’m going to wait for all the facts to arrive and if in fact these allegations are true, I will immediately take action which includes removing his scenes from the project.” after one of his actors was accused of a sex crime as well.

Really wish more people had been like him.

We forget that’s it innocent until proven guilty…

I do wanna also state that I know our justice system is broken for sexual assault victims but it’s broken on both sides. Innocent people are being locked away and scumbags are being set free. There has to be real changes made to the justice system, that’s what we need to fight for.

Stop.

A video posted by JAMES DEEN TRUTH (@jamesdeentruth) on Dec 15, 2015 at 4:08am PST

[brimirfos]

Once again, awesome post!

[brimirfos]

Promises, promises.

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A Christmas Story (1983)

[brimirfos]

Love this movie!

[urbati]

From Bob’s Burgers - Secret slap.

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[wolfwithafoxtail]

Respect girls who do not care about “virginity” because it’s a social construct.

Respect girls who want to save themselves to make their sexual debut a blockbuster with someone special.

Respect girls who don’t want sex at all.

Easy breezy.

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10 - 7 = 3 How many women actually accused James Deen of rape? Is one accusers story inaccurate? (18+ video/statements provided)

They now number 10. Starts off the The Hollywood Reporter article in which they interview Bret Easton Ellis on his friend and the star of his 2013 film The Canyons. I read the interview hoping for something newer then what I had heard/read in the past few days but there was nothing new. It was not a good interview. In terms of image. A man defending Deen and calling another woman unstable that’s just what the feminist movement needed to keep their anger fueled. The article was bad because it incorrectly stated that Bret was the only person who came to Deen’s defense. Untrue. Many women he has worked with have come forward to defend his character and have been largely ignored by the mainstream media.

Lisa Ann https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cRHHjUEaEtA

Ava Addams

Casey Calvert http://caseycalvert.com/everything-im-not-saying-re-james-and-stoya

Asa Akira

Mike Quasar

Mystica Jade https://mysticajade.wordpress.com/2015/12/04/a-different-perspective/

Trisha Parks

Nica Noelle

April O Neil

Chloe Dyskstra

Jay Taylor

To name a few who have written on their Twitters or blogs or any where that alot of this, particularly the rape allegation, doesn’t fit in James’s character, it’s the not person he is today/person they know. These are people who work with him, have had good experiences with him, called out Farrah Abraham for lying on his behalf, and state that they will continue to work with him.

So what exactly about the victims. I have been preached to alot by feminists about how rare it is for women to lie about rape. So that’s why they decided to believe the victims with no such proof of any crime ever having taken place. Also these women are sex workers (never mind that James Deen is ALSO a sex worker)…do you know how hard it is for sex workers to be taken seriously? they told me. Probably just as hard for the woman who has dared to have an active sex life and not behave like a nun I thought but would still report an assault against her. What does their profession have to do with reporting a crime? I am not ignorant to the fact people can, even in positions of authority, can be judgmental, but still they would have to investigate any crimes reported. I feel strongly they could have reported any wrong doing to the authorities or to the people who they worked for. As a woman myself, I do hope if you are assaulted you report the crime to the police. Do not be afraid to do that. Do not be afraid to report a rape.

Speaking of rape, of the 10 women who have accused James of a wrong doing how many claimed they were raped by him?

Stoya. Kora Peters. Nicki Blue. Farrah Abraham.

Four people. The rest of the women stated he assaulted/violated their space on a set or that he was/is just an asshole. Later I would like to get into some of the women’s stories but I just wanted to write what know is concrete facts. Lets make this a series maybe.

Lets start with Kora Peters.

Kora Peters worked with James Deen twice by her own admission and video evidence. I found her story the most troubling right off the bat. I will freely admit that I am a James Deen fan and I love his work, while that sentence will be isolated from the fact that even as his fan currently, if there is ever any proof these allegations (The rape ones, he has always stated that he wasn’t a great bf to Joanna Angel and he has done a lot of growing up between then and now so hopefully he is much more professional and lots of people state that he is) are true, I obviously wouldn’t be a fan anymore and I would of course demand justice for the victims, through the legal system and not on social media.

So being that I am a James Deen fan I have seen a great deal of his work. I of course watched the very first scene he ever made with Kora Peters. It was for a company called New Sensations. I watched the scene on a website where the porn is free, not proud of that, I pay for most of my porn. Anyway the important thing is, Kora Doesn’t look like she is being raped at all in this scene. I am going to be blunt. She is absolutely not being raped in this scene. Not ever and not even a little bit. Not even in a tiny way.

Must be 18 or older..

http://www.newsensations.com/tour_ns/gallery.php?id=310&type=vids&

Free scene and also the audio is slightly off

http://www.xvideos.com/video1616453/milf_gets_owned

Oh but she is acting the feminists will shout (where the hell is her AVN award?). Editing!!! another feminist will shout. Are you fucking kidding me?? I will think.

First of all in the scene KORA is the one who takes his penis out of her vagina and places it near her anus after they engage in some fingering. He fingers her anus, which she does NOT object to, ever, and she fingers her vagina. James then goes back into her vagina. He fingers her anus again. You can hear James ask Kora, “do you want it there?” Meaning his penis in her butt as anyone with sight watching the scene can see. It’s also not in her anus for very long. At this point James preps her anus, she bends over while he performs anulingus, lubricating her anus for him to attempt a smoother entry later or hell I think it was just to pleasure her. After awhile he is able to get going in her anus, she does say she loves his big cock in her ass, she does say this hurts so good, she NEVER tells him to stop or says no as he fingers her clit to make it more pleasurable for her. He asks “do you want it back it your ass or pussy?” after he has spent awhile in her anus and Kora says in her pussy and James doesn’t object, pulls out of her anus and continues vaginal sex with her. He does tell her “This is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen” as he looks at her ass. and “I don’t want you to get hurt.” She does again mention this is the 1st time she has has ever had anal sex.

Now before anyone says well he could have done it after the scene ended or blah blah blah or this or that. The feminists I spoke with immediately believed the statement of the victim. After all. Women lie about rape so rarely. Well Kora’s statement is this and I am going off of Kora’s OWN words. http://pornvalleymedia.com/?p=15959

“Another incident which is on film for the world to see is when I was paired with James for a large production company [New Sensations]and we were only doing a boy/girl scene as anal was on my no list. James keep trying to get inside my ass but I kept pushing him away, so he choked me then he slammed my face down into the couch and forced himself in my ass anyways. The crew all high fived him and told him what a great job he did getting an anal scene for the price of a b/g scene. I went to the bathroom and called my agent Joel from Goldstar and he told me I should feel honored that James wanted me so badly because he was one of the best male performers. I then hired an attorney to get me out of my contract with Goldstar and got a new agent. Anal has been number one on my no list ever since. I had to be seen by my personal physician afterwards and I have permanent damage because of James and I have to live with that for the rest of my life. I just want to prevent this from happening to any other women. It’s crazy how I was the one under attack and James got accolades for raping me on set.“

Uhhh Thank you Kora for directing us to that scene where you are clearly not being raped. I showed a feminist I has having a discussion with on Twitter all of what I am showing now and like some Emperors New Clothes shit, she couldn’t see Kora was clearly not being raped. Okay lets just say this, Kora was not being raped. Everything I have learned about rape my entire female life shows me that this was as far from rape as you can get. None of what Kora says happens in the video.

Also Kora appears to have the timeline wrong as well. The scene with New Sensations appears to be the very first scene she shot with James. However she says that the scene she shot with James for his site is the first scene and after that she was “paired” with him for New Sensations. Uhhh no. It is hard to prove though just by looking on the websites because for some reason porn companies don’t list when the scene was shot. I think it may appear in the beginning of a legitimately watched scene, so if you pay for the scene on New Sensations website it may show the day of production. In James’s Daily Beast article he also goes by the timeline of the New Sensations scene being their first scene together and then she worked with him for his site months later.

I haven’t watched the 2nd scene in its entirety but I have viewed the BTS footage several times as it is free. Around the 5:00 min mark She tells him that this is her 2nd time doing anal and he is the only one to have ever done it. Verifying this in fact her 2nd scene with James and her 2nd time doing anal. She is all smiles BTW. She makes mention of her no list as well. They then show her having sex with him and the camera guy filming it. It cuts to Kora as she tells him he is a great coach. Please feel free (if you’re 18 and older) to watch the free BTS footage and if you’ve got deeper pockets then me pay for the scene. I am sure it will also disprove any of what she told Porn Valley Media. http://jamesdeen.com/video/kora-peters-985.html

Kora also seemed to have very friendly feelings toward James after he supposedly raped her, twice, contacting him on Twitter. http://therealpornwikileaks.com/alleged-james-deen-sexual-assault-victim-kora-peters-begs-deen-for-attention-in-2012/

I feel like if the media or anyone were real journalists nowadays someone would have uncovered this, instead of letting this horrible 10 victim narrative continue for longer than it has too. I know way more important things happened in our world during this time but if you’re reporting on this story and not doing any kind of research or investigation and just printing the victim accounts and vilifying James Deen, then I feel like that’s not Ok.

Maybe James Deen and his team were planning to do this anyway but as the days go by and this continues I got a little frustrated with how slow this was moving. I am an impatient girl and if I know the proof is out there, accessible, then I see no reason to hold up clearing James’s name or proving guilt if that were the case. If Mr. Deen’s team feels any of this is inaccurate I will remove it. If New Sensations has evidence that goes against what I saw in the scene. I will retract my comments. Of course I will apologize profusely to Kora Peters…if I am wrong. 

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