pusheen

welcome to my lair

[britneylane]

hi tumblr!

let's just start by saying i missed out on the 2016 tumblr era, but i'm here for it now!!

i'm mainly here because i want to detox from instagram and tiktok; id rather stick to tumblr, pinterest, and youtube 🥲 i feel like this is the perfect place to connect with likeminded people while staying in my own bubble and maintaining my own peace lol.

stuff i like:

playing the acoustic guitar and singing

i thoroughly enjoy anything creative

i love reading (barely get the time)

i like clay modelling gifts instead of buying them hehe

i do kickboxing

i like watching youtube videos on anthropology/archaeology

i fall down online rabbit holes...

kind of an archaeology nerd ngl...in another life i am an archaeologist.

i like cozy people with the same sense of humour as me

i like watching vlogss on youtube

i play adopt me on roblox a lot lol

and though i'm an introvert, i love meeting all sorts of people:)

i have two dogs and i'm an only child, and i'm also in my final year of ibmyp (yes i have eassessments in less than a month, and?)

i'm 15 --> 16 this year. i'm also super ambitious about my future, and i'm so grateful to be surrounded by people who are supportive of me<3

i talk to a lot of people but i don't have many people close to me, and i don't like opening up to just anyone :<

honestly, if youre super ambitious, artistic, or super knowledgeable, you might be my kinda person! ⚞^. .^⚟

lil bit more about me:

i really like fakemink, feng, but also random artists(alex g forever)...anything shoegaze-y or alt, i'm into itt

i live in india as of now

my favorite movie is lady bird by greta gerwig (subject to change)

i lovee scrolling on pinterest lol, its my safe space

my pronouns are she/her

i speak english, hindi, and french

my mbti is INFP-A

i loveee sushi and wholesome meals

if you couldnt tell, i luv pusheen and the color purple

thats about it! dw, i'm still getting to know myself so sorry if i'm a bit boring

also i'll probably be blogging whatever i want, i'll figure it out as i go :p

LASTLY

DNI:

creeps; i have friends who are above 18 but if u have any bad intentions.. >:(

anyone strange or negative honestly.. this is a cozy space respectfully dont bring ur weird energy here

anyone whos not okay with me setting boundaries; sorry not sorry:p

yayy okay im so happy to be here

[satan-offical]

when someone shouts "OHMYGODWEGETITYOUFUCKTROUYSHUTUPALREADY" but my name is satan so they're not talking to me

[britneylane]

ive been seeing a lot of angel numbers and saw 444 likes on this one

what does that mean.

[britneylane]

worked out.

hosted a gathering with my friends

we baked.

we watched a movie.

we laughed.

it was spectacular

took a warm shower

put a wine face mask on

curated instagram post: posted

in bed now planning my summer workouts

watching bobs burgers in my pjs

might read later

today was PERFECT.

[britneylane]

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my moms letting me dye my hair omg!!

idrk what vibe to go with.. ive always wanted to do purple or cherry red buuuut i still havent decided

shes letting me do it post-eassessments (obv cus my school will slime me out if i come to the next eassessment with dyed hair) but yeeeaaah thats like in a week!!

i was thinking i might get bangs aswell

i really like her look, but idk if blonde would suit me

aghh i genuinely have no clue what color to do and for the first time in a while pinterest is failing me:,)

[britneylane]

im doing purplee! i bought red as well which is a lot more vibrant but idk, purple is very me whereas red isn't so much.

ugh the only prob is that my hair is genuinely jet black and this is no bleach dye, so i really really do hope the color actually shows

im gonna do it on 25th i think rahh im so excited

[britneylane]

made a monkie out of clay today and painted it

[ivy-is-chaos]

I yearn for tomdachi life

[britneylane]

me

[britneylane]

how to go back to being my 11 yr old self no glue no borax

[britneylane]

bottle filled to the BRIM with ice cold water.

ate 4 tim tams.

red wine sheet mask on my face.

just journalled 4 pages with the smoothest pen while listening to my instrumental playlist.

gonna read a book.

then make some moodboards

then call to play roblox with my cutie patootie 9 year old cousin.

this is what life's bout

[britneylane]

so today we had a party for like our last day of doing ibmyp and i literally danced so much to music i didn't understand, and i am NOT a dancer

but i danced more than i ever have and i am sooo glad i didd

even tho i feel awkward and a lil bit embarrassed and idw to see the photos they took

i had a loooot of fuuuun dancing with my frens

but after that i got really drained and became a lil bit of a party pooper for the rest of the day:((

man how do i work on thiss

[britneylane]

when i start overthinking but then i remember

"You cannot suffer the past or future because they do not exist. What you are suffering from is your memory and your imagination."

aight thanks buddha u was a g ily

[britneylane]

omfg i keep accidentally posting in communities and having to delete them like 2sec later cus theyre not relevant to the DAMN COMMUNITY UGH

[britneylane]

i hate the new google gemini update

WHY would i want to ask gemini about a WEBPAGE.

I HAVE EYES. I CAN SEE WHATS ON MY SCREEN.

I LOOKED IT UP

WHAT QUESTIONS COULD I POSSIBLY HAVE THAT AREN'T ON MY SCREEN

WHY ARE YOU

HERE.

[britneylane]

done with finals.

time to make all my dreams come true

[britneylane]

was literally having the most scrumptious, blade-runner themed dream with ryan gosling in it half an hr ago. now i'm up to revise science.

frick my stupid chungus life.

[britneylane]

is there a rulebook on how to live life.

i need it

[stephexmachina]

when i was a kid i was so mad all the time bc i thought someday i'd have to be somebody's wife i didn't know it was optional. is everybody reminding the young girls in their lives that it's optional.

[stephexmachina]

AND SO IS BEING SOMEBODY'S MOTHER‼️

[stephexmachina]

it is about being a woman. hope that helps!

[vibrantstarfire]

reading comprehension questions for the notes:

is wanting to be a wife and mother a requirement for being a woman?

why might OP be annoyed with replies assuming that this post is about being aroace or transmasc if a woman doesn’t want to be a wife or mother?

are there reasons unrelated to sexuality and romantic interest that might make a woman not want to be a wife or mother?

are there reasons unrelated to gender identity and expression that might make a woman not want to be a wife and mother?

core concept: what is gender essentialism?

is it gender essentialism to imply that all women inherently want to be wives and mothers? could this be what OP is critiquing?

look at the notes OP responds to. is it gender essentialism to imply that being a wife and mother is so affixed to womanhood that to not want to be those things means you’re incapable of sexual/romantic feelings, or not a woman?

what trait are you perpetuating when you assume that women who do not want to be wives and mothers must be aroace or trans? is it gender essentialism?