Hey, man this is hard. But do you have any tips for stopping self harming?? Please I'm very despreate.
Before I answer this question let me point out that I am just another young person sitting at her computer on tumblr and not a therapist or any sort of professional on this subject.
That being said, my best advice on stopping would be to replace self harming with another way to get your emotions out(if that is the reason that you self harm) like start drawing, writing, biking, going on runs, reading books, listening to music, watching tv, doing jumping jacks, punching a pillow, watching YouTube, anything you can do until the urge to hurt yourself goes away. Also, don’t be afraid to get help. even professional help, and I know therapists sound horrible but I promise they help. If not that, confide in a friend or teacher/parent/random internet friend. I don’t know who you are, but I am always here to help. If you want to vent or ask more questions, don’t hold back. Please don’t hurt yourself anymore, and if you must please keep it light. Don’t go anywhere. I promise that, as cliche as it sounds, things are going to get better for you. I don’t know how, but they will.
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