unfortunately..this genuinely needs to be said: if you are stalking the sturniolos, showing up at places they’ve been, or trying to figure out where they live, that is not normal fan behavior. it’s invasive, scary, and straight-up dangerous for both parties.
there comes a point where parasocial attachment can cross over into something obsessive or delusional—where someone convinces themselves they belong in that person’s life. in some cases, it may even resemble some sort of parasocial psychosis, which could be a serious disconnection from reality, where boundaries disappear and entitlement takes over.
the triplets are real people. they deserve privacy, safety, and peace just like anyone else. being a fan does not give you permission to violate those boundaries.
please respect them. stalking and doxxing—or even trying to—isn’t just crossing a line. it’s blowing past it in the most terrifying way possible.
do better. and if you see this kind of behavior, say something. protecting creators starts with their community.