mami

midwest suga

[ambrosiagfe]

An unproblematic black woman living her fulfilled and content life of luxury and abundance, will forever be my goal. Married to a man that worships the floor I walk on and caters to my expensive lifestyle and enjoys doing so, is my destiny.

I visualise myself on our private jets, taking trips away to fancy resorts, our ostentatious 20 bedroom country home with a stable filled with 6 pure bred racehorses behind our magnificent home. I picture our luxury cars, a Bentley for him a Rolls Royce for me plus a Lamborghini, Ferrari, Aston Martin, 1963 Mustang the list is endless. Rooms filled designer bags, shoes, clothes, jewellery, because at the end of the day I’m a materialistic lady. 4 big Great Danes that go hiking with us in the mountains, that chase after rabbits in our 12 acre garden, that play with our children and fill our home with playfulness and laughter. No worries, no problems, no restraints, nothing stopping us from living a stress free life of freedom, wanting for nothing, everything at our fingertips. I’m doing all this hoeing now because I’m setting my life on a path, I’m creating my own destiny and this is it. I’m so ready for life.

[fucklovepayme]

An Old Trick that'll always work

Go to a fancy, high rating expensive bar/lounge in your area. Dress to turn heads and come alone. Order one drink and look a little bored. Trust me, men will approach you and buy you drinks. Order an expensive drink and watch for his facial expressions. If he flinched at the price, he ain’t the one boo boo. If he don’t flinch, he’s a potential keeper. He’ll likely ask for your number and to take you out. Refer to a high rating expensive restaurant or other place to go and run through his money! Nothing ever beats freestyling.

[luckyluxbaby-deactivated2018090]

Large mood

[69badseed]

Fuck she is iconic.

[luckyluxlady-deactivated2021043]

TBT

[limperatricedesvices]

He sounds so typical white boy

[cyborgsmanifesto]

dealing with the worst case scenario

your condom breaks

you feel a lump on your breast

your friends are ignoring you

you’re stranded on an island 

you got rejected by a crush

you get into a car accident

you got stung by a bee/wasp

you got fired from your job

you’re in an earthquake

your tattoo gets infected

your house is on fire

you’re lost in the woods

you get arrested abroad

you get robbed

your partner cheated on you

you’re on a ship that’s sinking

you fall into ice

you’re stuck in an elevator

you hit a deer with your car

you have food poisoning

your pet passed away

you fall off of a horse

you or your friend has alcohol poisoning

you have toxic shock syndrome

your house has a gas leak

[4velitta4]

I feel like this could be useful in my future

[astrologypixies-deactivated2016]

REBLOG THIS. I CANNOT STRESS HOW IMPORTANT THIS GUIDES ARE, BOOST THIS SHIT

[getupoffyourcassbutt]

If I don’t reblog this one of these things is definitely going to happen to me

[spacenams-deactivated20180321]

self care day

we are all so stressed out on this website y’all need to calm tf down so i made a list of things to do on a lazy day. and fuck society this is for dudes too because why stigmatize self care to be a girls only thing?

set the mood

candles always help me relax. i’ve got a vanilla cupcake one that rocks. (i recommend soy candles, they smell stronger and are easier on sinuses)

turn on some beats (i like aesthetic music it’s v calming)

make tea/hot chocolate (coffee doesn’t help me relax bc of the caffeine)

you can either turn off all the lights or open up all the windows whichever if more aesthetically pleasing to you

shower/bath

whichever you prefer, you do you hun

epsom salt is a good thing to put in baths because it gets rid of toxins in your bod

if you shave, i recommend coconut oil instead of shaving cream/lotion. it makes yo skin feel like a god/goddess

wash your face - you can look up facial scrubs online that you can diy at home if you’re like me and broke as shit

wash your hair. also leave in your conditioner for 20ish minutes to deep condition it and make it smooth as butter

after shower/bath

moisturize your smooth-ass legs/arms/wherever you shaved and also your face

mud masks are cool but expensive. you can make them at home easily tho

if you like fragrance, spray that shit all over. you’ll smell it and be like “wow, that was a good idea”

get in some comfy af clothes and fuzzy socks if you like em

paint yo nails if you wanna

have some more tea gosh darnit that stuff’s great for you

also drink water that’s nice

things to do

it’s your day of self care, do what makes you happy. but here are some suggestions because i’m a loud mouth mf with big opinions

draw/paint

play relaxing/rpg video games

do your hair/makeup (this goes for you guys too)

go on a walk/hike

take a nap/listen to music

have a dance party bc why not

write: poems, stories, anything

clean your room (this sounds stupid but it’s really calming for me to organize shit)

read something (made you up by francessca zappia is my favorite)

take care of yourselves i love y’all

[icedc0ffee]

things you can do to be happier

[run-eat-study-sleep]

Go to bed earlier

Finish things ahead of time

Eat whole-food

Exercise

Be present

Organize

Listen to music

Think positively

Drink lots of water

Journal

Read

Be productive

Eat fresh fruit

Breathe deeply

Go for a bike ride

[citycrowdpleaser-deactivated201]

Extremely insane tips to appear ridiculously ✨Classy✨.

♠️Never EVER touch food. // potassium low? Need that banana? Grab a plate, knife & fork. Leave the banana peel on, slice the entire banana into small round discs. Individually unwrap each round with the utensils before eating it off the fork. carry this into every meal.

♣️Never touch your phone to your face. // first, ew germs. Use headphones, wireless preferred. Find yourself with out? Well you better use speaker phone. It is classier to air your friends dirty laundry to the entire Saks 5th ave than to touch that germ-infested-metal-cancer-tool to your face.

♠️You do not menstrate, you have never felt a cramp in your life. // should you for some reason ever have to explain a crimson tide this is how you do it. “Sweetness I’m so sorry to cancel but I believe I am coming down with something. I am quite warm and a bit swollen. I wouldn’t normally cancel but I think it is serious, it may be a few days before I recover. 4-7 atleast. I’m sure you’ll understand. Kisses.” This works for work, dates, friends, and arrangements.

♣️Never throw anything over your shoulder. // owning a designer bag does not make you classy. But how you hold it can. Always hold bags from the straps. Fingers to straps, let it hang but NEVER hit the floor.

♠️Never ask the price of anything. // you know the saying, “if you have to ask, you can’t afford it”. Well that’s true! If you must know, discretely look at the tag. If you happen upon a high end store with out price tags you betta google that shit on your phone before you hit the register honey.

♣️There is no “bathroom”. There is no “rest room”. // the only place you are ever looking for is the ‘Ladies’, the ‘Powder Room’, or the ‘Loo’. Even if you are desperate for a release at walmart, go to the Looooo.

♠️You are no longer attracted to flat water. // partched? Thirsty? If I catch you sipping that flat water any where other than the shoe room of your own home.. Anyway, you are only partched for bubbles; Pelligrino, Voss, Saratoga water etc. going to the gym? Grab pelligrino first.

♣️When ordering food, delicately exaggerate. // “I’d like the chilled Caesar salad dusted in parmesan. Oh and can you remove the crisp toast?” Aka croutons. Also try “I’ll have the number trois (french) the layered sand which with beef combination” aka burger combo # 3.

♠️Just have your god damn groceries delivered. // classy does not “schlep” things around especially not grocery bags. If you must, ask someone to carry them for you with that *sparkle* in the eye.

♣️Speak in whisper tones. // think Marilyn Monroe. A classy woman never yells. If you respond back to everyone in a softer tone it makes them meet you at your level. This ones not funny. I’m actually serious y'all lol.

💋💋do this and everyone will believe you to be some sort of classy goddess..

[blasianhuex]

Reblogging for myself tbh

[frugalhoe]

😂😂

[americaninfographic]

Wino Forever

[hollywoodbelle442-deactivated20]

Spending Sugar Money

As most experienced sugar babies will know, when first starting off an arrangement, determining how to spend your new windfall allowance is difficult.  To assist newbies and other babies in the bowl, check out my strategy below!

Beginning Allowance (when first entering the bowl/a new arrangement):  

Save up three months worth of rent (keep in savings for rainy day, continue paying rent out of pocket from vanilla job)

Purchase general necessities (stock up on things like shampoo, toothpaste, other toiletries, etc. also for rainy day; stock up on non-perishable food also or grocery store gift cards)

Pay off all credit card debt (minor debt)

Begin chipping away at Student Loan Debt (major debt)

Percent of what goes where:

50% - student loans (or other large debt you may be carrying.

30% - high yield savings account (I use Capital One 360 because I like the ability to make sub accounts)

10% - personal spending fun (if you’re in a lot of debt you might be tempted to put all your money in savings or paying things off, but be realistic here. You will always want to have a little bit of fun spending money! If you don’t include it in your budget, you will throw your whole budget off)

5% - sugaring necessities (makeup, hair, nails, tanning, lingerie - don’t forget to invest in yourself! This is important!)

5% - house cash (random necessities - food, toiletries, cleaning supplies, bed sheets, etc.)

What does this look like in monthly allowances?

…And so on.  You get the idea.  It doesn’t matter what kind of allowance you have.  It’s still money you didn’t have before!  Remember to think of your sugar money as a windfall and put it to good use! 

[fhenty]

SUGAR BABY ADVICE MASTERPOST

Here’s a list of advice and tips from various sugar babies. This will work for newbies, and sex workers too. I’ll be updating this list often on my profile so go here for more. 

» 10 Questions To Ask a Potential Sugar Daddy Before Starting an Arrangement 

» How To Be a Pure Sugar Baby

» How To Become a Sugar Baby

» How To Stand Out As a Sugar Baby

» A List of Sugar Sites To Check Out

» How To Stay Safe While Being a Sugar Baby

» How To Be a Kept Woman

» How To Ask For Gifts

» The First Date: 10 Tips To Help You Master the Art of the Sugar Date

» How To Respond to Someone Who Calls You a Prostitute

» 100 “Non Allowance” Questions To Ask Your Pot Or Sugar Daddy 

» How To Cheat Your Way Through Intelligent Small Talk

» Free Background Check Website

» How to Get a Job In The Luxury Industry 

» Why Sugar Babies Are The Next Generation Of Entrepreneurs 

» Internet Safety For Sugar Babies

» Sugar Survival Kit

» Literature For Starting Sugar Babies

» Freestyling Guide 

» What Makes a Successful Sugar Baby

» 5 Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To An Allowance Offer

» What To Say To Get The Allowance You Want

» The Sugar Baby Mentality 

» Allowance Talk

» Closet Classics Checklist

» 100 Ways To Be Elegant 

» Sugaring Research Resources 

» Creating The Perfect Profile

» What To Do With Your Allowance

» Common Sugar Baby Acronyms 

» The Psychology Of Persuasion 

» Invest In Yourself

» What To Pay Attention To On Dates

» Let’s Talk Budgeting

» Online Safety 

» What Is a Sugar Baby?

» How To Spot a FAKE Sugar Daddy

» The First Date

» Allowance & Bank Laws

» I Am Not Attracted To My Sugar Daddy

» Plus Size Sugar Baby

» Sugar Baby Shopping Tips

» The Married Sugar Daddy: Guide To Being The Other Woman

» Underage Sugar Baby: 17 & Under

» Sugar Baby With a Baby

» The Rules Of The Sugar Baby Job

» Tip For Traveling Sugar Babies

» Meeting Your First POT

» How To Handle The First Date

» Best Apps And Websites For A Sugar Baby

» The Ultimate Guide To Being A Sugar Baby

» How To Disappear Online

» The Stress Test

» “What Are You Looking For?”

» Ways To Say “No” Politely 

» What To Wear While Shopping With A SD

» Income vs Allowance 

» The Master Sex Worker TV Marathon

» New Sugar Babies, Please Read This

» How To Weed Through Messages & Profiles From A Sugar Site

» Travelling With Your SD

» More Tips For New Sugar Babies

» Hardcore Online Security For Sugar Babies

» Turning A Man Into A Sugar Daddy 

» More Safety Tips. These Could Save Your Life

» Hustle Is A Euphemism For Manipulation 

» Red Flags

» MORE SAFETY TIPS

» Tips On Messaging Someone

» This Lifestyle Isn’t For Everyone

» Free Online Safety Tool

» Red Flags On Sugar Dating Sites

» A Word About Sex And Sugar Daddies

» Calculating The Maximum Allowance A Man Can Give You Based On His Income And Taxes

» Researching Your SD Or POT

» Cash Tips

» Making A Set List Of Your Rates

» What To Say If A POT Date Is Salty And Cheap 

» Sugar Baby Shopping Tips

» 1 Sentence, 7 Different Ways

» 5 Newbie Sugar Baby Mistakes And How To Avoid Them

» Establishing And Arrangement With A Pot

» A Few Tips

» Protecting Yourself

» Messaging A Sugar Daddy 

» When Is It Right To Start Sugaring?

» Control Your Speech

» Never Lower Your Standards For A Pot

» The Money: How To Make Good Money

» A Successful Sugar Baby

» Sugaring Mistakes

» Money 101

» 5 Ways To Showcase Yourself To Your Sugar Daddy

» How To Manipulate The Conversation

[quicksilver-sugar-blog]

This is a goldmine of information for getting your future goods and good-times ladies. ;) love it.

[brownchanelsuga]

Been talking to this POT & he’s been showing slight potential. He paid for my weeks groceries a few days ago and sent me money so I could cool off for the 4th! Oh, and for all of you who’ve been asking how I subtlety ask for money without being completely outward about it, here’s how!!!

[cinnamonsunshine-blog1]

Verify Him And His Company

He says his company of XYZ makes $2.9M I’m revenue a year? Verify.

Owler.com, Glassdoor, Business Insider. Even check out the society pages of where the business is located. All will verify if the business is legit and if he is legit. DO NOT BE SCAMMED BY THESE MEN. Any man can claim he runs a multi-million dollar company, but is that the truth?

If y'all have any websites to add, lmk!

La Reina

[sapphire-eyed-lover-deactivated]

Please help me pay rent

I am in desperate need of funds this month. For utilities and rent I have no money for food as well. So I am willing to offer my divination services for pay. And if you are feeling charitable any ammount will do!

I can offer Tarot readings, Oracle readings, astrologmancy(readings with dice.), I can also offer you insight for guardian angels and Spirit animals! Plus I have a verity of Decks to choose from.

Tarot readings are $5 dollars for a three card reading $10 dollars for a 6 card reading. $1 dollar for a clarification card.

Oracle pricing is same as above.

Astrologmancy is $5

Guardian angel and spirit animal are $3 Dollars.

Please message me and I’ll share my paypal.

[mama-o-riley]

Get a tarot reading everybody! It was spot on and I had fun:)

[latinasugarnspice-deactivated20]

Fellow sex workers, please help him. His readings are amazing and he’s a sweetheart. 💖

[taichiswordsfan-blog]

How to Escape a Hair Grab or a Neck Grab ? Look at them, carefully.

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follow back

[latinasugarnspice-deactivated20]

For all my sisters out there. Practice this with your friends. 😘

[artsysugarb]

Sugar Babe Health & Beauty

Ok I’m going to take what I’ve learned and (try) to put it all in one post. This is going to try to be slightly organized but lmao we’ll see. 

This is going to be a long post and it’ll seem like a lot to do but take it one step at a time and you will be on your mother fucking A game.

Okay first things first, you can’t have beauty without…

HEALTH

Alright LISTEN UP, it doesn’t matter what size you are. Weather you wanna be a slim barbie type, a thick hunny w/ toned curves, or a beautiful full woman with allllll the curves; you need to be working out 2-5 x’s per week! By working out you will remain healthy, happy, and toned. Even if you go run for 30 minutes or walk up hill for 20 minutes, JUST DO IT HONEY

Along with working out you need to be lifting weights. NO you won’t get all big and muscular, women don’t pack on muscle like men do. So take the most you can lift without struggle and add 10-15 pounds to that. Do arm curls, weighted squats, etc. LIFTING WEIGHTS BOOST METABOLISM AND HELP YOU SHED POUNDS FASTER!! 

Every morning when you wake up you should be taking vitamins. Biotin to help with hair/nails (take high potency if you’re trying to grow your hair out), Vitamin  A for skin, multi vitamin for over all health, and fish oil for a healthy heart/immune system. 

Bathe daily. I know we all like to preserve our hair n shit but, honestly. Your POT don’t wanna smell your stale perfume and bed sheets. Bathe daily, shower 3x’s per week. 

On that note, before every POT date take a bath with some essential oils or (even better) a LUSH bath bomb, when he gets close to you and smells you he will instantly have a hard on. Which means more money for you 

Go as long as possible without shaving your pussy. In between the times when you see your daddy, let that shit grow. Shaving is really hard on that UBER sensitive area. And you should know to exfoliate before shaving already. Rub coconut oil on ya cooch to relieve irritation.

I can’t think of anything else atm, if I do I’ll put it in misc.

BEAUTY

Okay sorry in advanced for how scattered this section will be

 Facial care routine; wash your makeup off with coconut oil (honestly I wouldn’t use anything else), then wash your face with either 1. a gentle moisturizing face wash (for the hunnies with dry skin) or 2. a benzol peroxide based face wash (for my hunnies with oily skin)

Moisturizing- SO important I can not stress this enough. It doesn’t matter if you have dry, oily, combination, you need to moisturize twice daily. ONE OF MY FAVORITE moisturizers is simply a rose water mist. I use this so much, two squirts after I  wash  my face in the morning, two squirts before bed. 

What does rose water do? Why is it so great? BITCH I’M GLAD YOU ASKED. Rose water reduces redness, moisturizes, balances out the oils in your face which 1. evens skin tone and 2. fights acne. Seriously invest in this shit, it is heaven sent. AND SUPER CHEAP

The night of your date with your POT this is what you’re gonna wanna do. 1. Wash your face 2. Smother honey alllll over your face and leave it for 10-30 minutes 3. Rinse it off and apply a light moisturizer. Let it soak into your skin for a minimum of 15 minutes (SO IMPORTANT) 4. Put on some primer and do ya makeup hunny

On the topic of makeup, you need to do your makeup according to; 1. your outfit. A sundress and smoky eye for a lunch date don’t go together 2. Your face. If you have a baby face you need to play up your eyes and lips to boost sex appeal. Also save dramatic eye/contouring for the night time.

CONTOUR YOUR MF FACE. It is like sculpting the perfect face okay. Theres tons of tutorials out there. Get a cream based contour kit AND a powder based one to layer on top/set your contour. 

Perfume- your perfume has a purpose. To draw him in closer, so he can’t get enough of you and misses your sent when you’re gone. And lets be fucking real here. A man doesn’t care that you bought the $200 perfume that makes you smell like a rich old lady. You want to smell GOOD. Some men like fruity scents, sure. But this gives off a much more immature vibe. Vanilla, amber, lavender, those type of scents add an edge and sex appeal to your aura.

I REALLY DON’T WANNA SHARE THIS BUT I’M ABOUT TO SAVE YOUR LIFE. Disagree with me on this idgaf, but I’ve been wearing the same scent for 5 years. Vanilla Lace by Victoria Secret. Just smell it. Its AMAZING, cheap, and I can not leave my house without someone telling me how good I smell. I once had an ex SD that made me spray it on his pillow because he missed me when I left LMAO

Get a conditioner that is thick and creamy. Everytime you wash your hair leave it on for 2-5 minutes. (This should be a given)

MISC

Lemon/lime/apple cider vinegar reduces the appearance of dark spots on all areas of skin

Wearing makeup all the time severely damages skin and you should go at least 2 or more days without wearing ANY makeup

Acne is caused by clogged pores, if you’re constantly drying out your pores because you think the oil in your skin is making your acne worse STOP. You need to moisturize (rose water, biiiitch)

If you have a serious acne problem, go to a doctor and get an anti biotic. Be wary of anti biotics that end with “cycline” these are known to cause cancer and all sorts of other health issues

DRINK A FUCKIN HELLA TON OF WATER BITCH like 3 liters per day is what you SHOULD be drinking. DO THAT.

Put lotion on your body everytime you get out of the shower when your skin is still sightly damp

FOR MY THICKER HUNNIES, play up your curves. Contour your tits, wear leggings and tight dresses, men LOVE that shit

Also on that note, if you leave the house uncomfortable in what youre wearing it will fuck up your whole night. Look cute but make sure you’re 100% comfortable. If you can’t walk properly in heels, DON’T WEAR THEM

And again, I CAN NOT STRESS ENOUGH that you should be working out multiple times per week. Regardless of your shape or look. It has so many benefits and you will GLOW

Okay I hope this helps some of you babes. Enjoy

[my-dirty-secr3t]

Very informative post except that I suggest sugar wax over shaving and definitely go easy on the perfume/scent with married SD. It burnt me once when I first started😫

[cvntkitty-deactivated20160430]

Useful af 👸🏻

Sex is a great form of exercise btw.

[luxebynature]

Whole mood

Roses are red, and money is green. Ya girl gon be a hoe all summer ‘18 😛

[gtadreamdwellings]