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thank god for the mythbusters though because it used to be that whenever i knew i had insomnia i’d just kind of accept it and stay up doing whatever until my morning classes and spend the day feeling like shit
but then they did an episode where they established that even just fucking laying there for a half hour, not even sleeping just laying there and not even for an hour, makes a significant difference and you’ll feel way better
it has made a huge difference in my life to know that it’s okay if i can’t fall asleep, it takes a lot of the pressure off and ironically helps me fall asleep better
The Pratfall Effect in Sugaring
Alright, so I’m a psychology major. Currently enrolled in social psychology. We were going over “Liking, Loving, and Interpersonal Relationships”. I like to think of psychology as the study of manipulation, so there are looooooots of things that I can apply to sugaring. However, there’s one thing that I learned last week that I wanna talk about.
This is “The Pratfall Effect”.
Essentially, this effect says that people like you more when you make a mistake, assuming they find you competent. Let me give you an example:
You’re on a POT date. You look fly AF; hair done, nails done, eyebrows on FLEEK. You’re walking flawlessly in those 6 inches. Posture is perfect; your 5th grade orchestra teacher would be proud. Converation is flowing so naturally. It is so obvious that he is smitten. That veal and potato entree hits your table and DAMN, that looks good. You pick up the right utensils and use them exactly how they’re meant to be used. Suddenly, you stop, because he says, “You got a little something there.” You got sauce all over the corners of your mouth. OH NO! Right? Wrong. You laugh, he laughs; he is YOURS.
The way I look at it is you’re making yourself more memorable. Showing that you can make a mistake even while being so seemingly flawless makes you appear vulnerable and real. You’ve made an impression, instead of being perfect like he expects, you’re a… person. Who are you more likely to remember? Someone who does everything right or someone who is real?
Good luck, babes xoxo
I see a lot of posts encouraging babies to be these super sexy seductresses.
You don’t have to.
Just be yourself (or whatever persona you’ve created). Personally, I can’t do super sexy and seductive. It feels weird and the men can tell. In my vanilla life I am loud and my voice is high pitched. I talk too much and I’m a little awkward. This is how I am with my POT (toned down a little, obviously. I go for a soft, quieter voice, but still ramble. I’m still awkward but I make a joke out of it and say things like, “sorry. I get a little awkward when I’m nervous around such a handsome man!). And you know what? They eat that shit up. They love that I’m this bumbling, bubbly, innocent young woman. That works for me.
Being sexy and seductive works for some women. Everyone is different and everyone has different preferences. My biggest tip is do not try to be someone you absolutely are not. It will be super obvious and you won’t have a good time.
When I’m on a date, especially dinner, I’ll giggle when the food comes and be like, “this looks so yummy! I absolutely have to take a picture. I guess it’s just the 18 year old in me.” cue another giggle. “Do you mind?”. My date usually says something like, “You’re so cute. You kids and your technology.” and then he poses for the shot as if I’m taking one of him. I’ve slowly started acting a little naive and I really play on the “this is all so new and amazing to me!” thing, because in my experience, it makes these men feel really good about themselves. It makes them feel like they’re really taking care of some poor girl who needs it and showing her things she wouldn’t normally get.
Don’t get me wrong, I act experienced as hell and let them know I mean business when it comes to allowance talks and stuff, but mainly I just try to have fun.
Point is, you don’t have to follow all the advice you see on Tumblr. You don’t have to act like you’re accustomed to the lifestyle. You don’t have to act naive like me either. Do what feels good to you and what works for you. You got this, sister.
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Ummmm.
I just got off the phone with a POT except it was a woman. She said that since he’s a very busy Wall Street businessman, he has his friend vet the girls who message him. She gave me the rundown of what he expects and it all seemed pretty standard. It was just... weird. Anyone else ever experience this?
The key to successful online marketing
Is to advertise in a subtle way
if youre on hoe twitter and you just posting a link to your website/email /schedule thats fine
but dont go overboard with emojis and creating a sense of urgency ... ESPECIALLY with onlyfans
people in general regard obvious advertising as spam. i mean, these sad lame people want to be really deluded. they want to know that u arent just tryna steal their !!!!!!!!hard earn money!!!! they have to feel like they are giving you their money out of their own free will, and that your only priority is their happinness, cus fuck ur own livelihood lol
im personally not the type of person to be bothered by ads, all i care aabout is a brands legitimacy. but lotta losers are searching for ~meaning & connection~ even if it's downright fake.
this goes for any industry. you need all that bullshit fluff in your mission statement & marketing to play to peoples emotions
its rly exhausting lol but hey, since people are that stupid, may as well play the game and get all the money
So happy to be back in the game after a break. I moved to NYC so my options for daddies are plentiful. All of my dreams are coming true and now I just need someone to fund them. Like this if you’re a NYC sugar baby!! I want friends :)
I want everything to be luxury, from the clothes I wear to my skincare. It literally makes me happy to live in luxury.
Perfume recommendations? 💗
1.Angel by Thierry Mugler
2. Jo Malone London Wood & Sea Salt
3. Coconut Pineapple Bath and Body Works Mist
4. Chanel Coco Mademoiselle
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