Charm: To engage a man and flirt with him in a way where you stroke his ego. Compliments, flirty sass, and sexual body language will bring a man to his knees. Keep in mind that men don’t know for sure that you’re attracted to them they assume it. No matter how cocky he acts, he still craves the ego stroke of your attention. To confirm your attraction under the pretense of flirting, he will put the biggest Kool-Aid smile you’ve ever seen on his face. Walk up to a man, make eye contact, compliment his smile, and give off crazy body language, and magic happens. This man’s brain transforms a woman from a seven to a nine because she’s being nice, showing interest, and filling that insecure hole that all men have. That’s called charm.
Sex Appeal: The thing to focus on is your body, and how the right fashion choices will draw attention in various degrees. Leave something to the imagination, not too much, but enough where you will at least garner some respect. No matter if you’re skinny or fat, small chest with big hips, big tits with no ass, and everything in between—know your body and know what looks good on you. Every time you step out of the house is an opportunity to attract someone who could change your life, so always look your finest. Tricks and sponsors aren’t racing after pussy; they’re looking for a sign that you’re different, that you’re quality, and not someone that the world has sampled. If you expect a man to treat you like a princess, you can’t run around looking like a pauper nor can you go around looking desperate like you stepped out of the brothel. Do I look sexy as fuck today in my messy bun, worn out jeans, and lip gloss? “Yes, I do!” Reach that level mentally, and your sex appeal can’t be touched.
Coolness: Girls want boyfriends, even when they say they don’t. Girls get mad when you don’t call them back, even though they pretend they didn’t notice. Girls get jealous if you show another female attention, even when they claim not to care. What separates Hoes from this typical passive aggressive, relationship lusting variety of woman is that they don’t give a fuck. A man’s biggest fear is commitment, while a woman’s biggest fear is never finding commitment. Hoes win because their cool attitude combined with their charm and sex appeal is Disneyland for dudes. It’s a fantasy world where a guy can relax with a girl who doesn’t pressure him for anything but a good time and doesn’t mind his hand on her thigh. Hoes are worth that price. They aren’t easy sexually, but they are easy emotionally, and that’s the riddle that most women can’t solve.
Discipline: Real Discipline is wanting something, understanding why you conscious and unwavering decision to abstain because you don’t need it. Fake Discipline is wanting something, not fully understanding why you want it so bad, and trying to hold out using willpower to fight the must have feeling. Most men win girls over with basic behavior and minimal courting because the sexual attraction is so strong that it makes them perceive that he’s doing amazing things. A man’s goal is to fuck. He will be nice and sweet. If that does not work, he will ignore then threaten. He will challenge and push away, then try to pull me back. He will act as if sex isn’t important. These are games because his goal is to fuck. DO NOT put yourself in the same room alone with a man you’re extremely attracted to unless you have an easy out.
Date #1: Give him a sample of your personality on the first date. Make sure it is potent. DO NOT go home with him or let him come with you. Be like a perfume sample. Set your price as PRICELESS. The first conversation is free, but the second one costs.
Date #2: Use this date to set your price and show him the level of woman he is pursuing. Go for elegance, not expense. Yelp is your friend. Look for spots operated by well known chefs, which have romantic settings. It should scream “sex” or “sexy.” It should have wine, small portions, and ambient lighting. You need to be showcased. Fuck bowling. You need to establish that you’re the type of girl that dresses like a goddess and needs to be taken places where he can show you off to envious men. For non-dinner dates, look into live music shows or the theater. The idea is to wear sexy dresses, show off your heel game and do hair in a way that was different from the last time he saw it. Also, go where other men will be watching you.
Date #3: Headphone Test – ask him to bring an item that you need and tell him it doesn’t matter what kind. If he shows up empty handed, he doesn’t spend money freely and needs to be cancelled. If he brings a cheap pair, he’s a treater. If he brings a quality pair, he’s a sponsor. Give him a reward after this date. End the date at a reasonable time. Make sure the last image he sees of you is one where he’s hard up after a kiss or worked up after a little fondling.
For celebrities or athletes, pay for every other date during the first month of dating. He will try to compensate by giving you a gift. If he doesn’t try to gift you, cut him off. If he does, proceed as you would with any other mark.
If he tries to pressure you for sex, let him know you have other options. If he vanishes and comes back around, be busy. Miss his call, then text him “I’m out with my friend, I’ll call you tomorrow.” Include a kiss emoji or something cute. But don’t call him. Let him hit you up again randomly. Suddenly remember him as if you forgot him. Let him know you felt him falling back and remind him there are others. This is not about love, this is about establishing value. IF a man pushes, you run. When he pulls back, resist. Never feel as if a man cutting you off is a negative. Men either give up because you’re too complicated or they will stop playing games and do things your way. Say whatever you need to say to check a man.
