bisexual thoughts & self-care

anyone can interact, lgbt or not! these posts can be platonic love, romantic love or self love 💕 positivity/suggestion type blog

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Sometimes triggers actually are strange or unusual. That doesn't mean it's not valid. People shouldn't have to walk on eggshells for you but I do hope your triggers are taken seriously while you're on this journey of healing and recovery ❤️

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We don't notice other people's flaws like we do our own, and when we do it's not a negative thing. They have crooked teeth, their hair is messy, they have pimples and scars, etc. So what? We do not exist to be attractive. Wanting to feel attractive or finding someone else attractive is awesome but that's not our entire purpose. We have more to give than our appearance.

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When you see other people, you don't find flaws and pick them apart saying how terrible and unattractive they are. No, you may notice these "flaws" but they aren't bad. They simply exist. These people are still attractive and have wonderful personalities. Your "flaws" are human. They are unique and not bad.

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We can be so harsh on ourselves yet so gentle with others. Remember to give yourself kindness today.

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There is kindness in this world.

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I fell asleep on his chest and he took a photo. I keep smiling every time I look at it ♡

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There is a 100% chance that I will start smiling whenever I copy the sound of this meme and my boyfriend joins in

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When they find out what your love language is and put effort into showing you they love you in ways that make YOU feel loved and special ❤️

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He asked to call me and then immediately forgot that we were on a call. He struggled to say the word "specific" when he drunkenly asked what the time was. He had the cutest and derpiest laugh.

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A boy who continuously calls you cute when he's drunk 💜

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Be with someone who makes you smile just by making eye contact.

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I know this is the bare minimum but I really appreciate that my boyfriend doesn't touch my chest because he knows I don't like it, and he always apologizes if his hand accidentally touches me.

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I was laying on top of my boyfriend and he kept checking up on me to see if I was okay and still comfortable. His arm went numb from the way we were laying but he continued to let me cuddle him 😭💞

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I will always appreciate people who stay with you and don't downplay your anxiety.

When you need to tie your shoes or put something in the bin and someone slows down and waits for you, when you get lost and someone goes looking for you, when you want to order something but you can't get yourself to do it alone so they go with you, when you know the answer to a question but can't say it out loud so you tell them and they say it for you, when you don't understand what's going on and they gently explain it for you, when they respect your boundaries and ask permission before hugging you, when you're too anxious to talk and they're comfortable sitting in silence, when they don't make fun of you for saying something silly or stuttering, when they teach you things that other people already know like how to use a knife and fork or chopsticks, literally so much more. I just love you people who are gentle and caring of your introverted friends and friends with anxiety.

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There's something about being around other people and seeing the little things I do or say that helps them or makes them laugh, that makes me so happy and is the reason I'm still alive.

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Someone told me that they missed me and are glad to see me again. Words of affirmation is my love language so that made my day 💖✨

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I made brownies with icecream, gave it to this guy and he said "this day just keeps getting better and better!"

Bro.. my heart ♡