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transfemme //white// she/her //30 something adult // autistic// this is where i come to be a mess dont fucking complain

[sirakitz]

one small step at a time

[sirakitz]

one small step at a time

[sirakitz]

one small step at a time

[sirakitz]

one small step at a time

[sirakitz]

one small step at a time

[sirakitz]

one small step at a time

[sirakitz]

one small step at a time

[the-beard-of-edward-teach]

Hawaiʻi is currently in the midst of a natural disaster if you didnt know

Apparently there isn’t much news coverage of this outside of the islands

Towns are flooded, homes destroyed and collapsed, roads collapsed, lives at risk, gas leaks from the flood damage

Haleiwa and Waialua are currently evacuated because the 120 year old dam is at risk of bursting

Mind you that damn is owned by Dole. Theyve known about it needing to be fixed for years and years and years. Despite having more than enough money they refuse

The state has been trying to buy it out from them for years so they can fix it, but the sale hasn’t gone through

Keep in mind that the Dole family were the ones who illegally imprisoned Queen Liliuʻokalani and illegally overthrew the monarchy.

If I see another goddamn person say how sad this is for the tourists whose “trips were ruined” and compare a messed up vacation to people losing their homes, belongings, and livelihoods, I’m going to lose my mind

I am so lucky that my family or friend’s are safe and the few whose houses flooded didnt have it too bad, but so so so many were not as fortunate

If you haven’t heard anything about this until now, I suggest looking into it

The sirens didn’t go off until the flood had been going on for hours. Our state government is spending so much money on a fucking monorail we don’t need rather than fixing the infrastructure.

It’s been the locals and Kanaka doing the most to help get people to safety from the start

I don’t really know how to end this

I just need to know people are aware

I need to know people are seeing whats happening

[nightvaleofficial]

[bubbyguppy]

ew

[maidthings]

I think people skew wayyyy too conspiratorial when it comes to transmisogyny in any sort of space.

Very rarely is there a deliberate effort to oust trans women, more often than not people simply do not trust trans women at a baseline, and will have much less tolerance and show greater scrutiny without even really thinking about it. By casting transmisogyny as deliberate focused efforts, you'll be unable to recognize it when it happens right under your nose

[maidthings]

This behaviour happens completely passively and thoughtlessly. Transmisogyny is often completely automatic, standing against it will have you going against the grain of social interactions, and will likely have you cast as a killjoy, alarmist, or even an enabler of abuse.

Unless you are making a deliberate effort to stand up for trans women you are probably engaging in casual transmisogyny all the time regardless of whether or not you're thinking of it

[filibusterfrog]

just a little boy

[pestisly]

@blackeyed-seas @mira-mazing

[bubbyguppy]

whelp

he died.

hell of a guy. not sure how to move right now.

his kid is already throwing weight around and trying to make his house into his image of how it shouldve been.

while the women in the room are trying to process it all.

idk. ill miss him. im just glad i knew the curmudgeonly old salt. rough as all hell but he was the only one besides my mom to call me by my name. goodnight uncle bill. rest easy. ill go get that chinese food you kept asking for, and ill cook that steak i promised you for dinner. you were a real fucking gem.

goodbye.

[kickassmemes1]

[tsunderrated]

me and my sibling

[tsunderrated]

One of the funniest things of all time is tumblr nuking the perfectly safe picture of oreimo I posted here

[mossworm]

is there a name for this

[straawberries]

hey op. i want you to know my boyfriend has been in hysterics, laughing and occasionally wheezing out "bibby" for the past half an hour because of this post. are you proud of what youve done?

[alittlemonster]

Im the bf btw I made fanart

[saint-ami]

Victory of the Sea (Jan Saudek, 1992)

[saint-ami]

Get your reblogs in while you can bc I'm about to turn them off

[bubbyguppy]

back at my moms house to watch my uncle die

not having a great time

and this fucking toilet gets smaller and smaller every damn time i swear